You are right @SwitchableSusie it is Oprah's fault for saying it. It is a bit like men calling their genitals "junk". That is stupid too.
I hate the words cunt and twat , it instantly spoils the mood for me. Me saying, “Oh baby I love when you lick my vulva like that," just doesn't cut it for me either. Pussy is sweet and sexy...just like the real thing.
I hate the words cunt and twat , it instantly spoils the mood for me. Me saying, “Oh baby I love when you lick my vulva like that," just doesn't cut it for me either. Pussy is sweet and sexy...just like the real thing.The good thing about pussy is that it refers to both the external anatomy (vulva) and internal anatomy (vagina).The same can be said for cunt and twat.
There's a difference between using a casual term for a body part during a serious conversation, such as a talk show, and using it in the bedroom. It would have been quite inappropriate for Oprah to use the term pussy or cunt on TV. Not understanding that distinction is stupid.People have different terms they use playfully and if it works for them, it's all good. If someone calls my vajay jay a "cunt," I immediately dry up like the desert, but I'm not so closed minded as to think it's stupid to use that term if both parties like it.I think some terms are humorous just because they are childhood playground terms, like "love tunnel." I can't imagine an adult using that term lol. It reminds me of an age when we were discovering the use of our body parts and thought we were pretty creative and original with things like love tunnel. To now realize how silly it sounded.
Thank you for your support and open-mindedness. I'm just beginning to explore this site and get a feel for the "personality" of it. It does seem out of place that member of a site about a specific area of kink would be so judgemental and unwelcomming to thoughts different than their own.I'll have to see how things go.I belong to some forums where we discuss (sometimes argue) important issues of politics, social change, ethics, etc. I expect that tone and judgementalism in those forums. I was surprised to find it here and am sorry you've experienced the same.I've had valid criticisms made of my position on various matters, but rarely are my views considered "stupid." I suppose that says more about the person making the comment than it does me.
In normal conversations vagina. Pussy in sex. I'm as creative as a rock.Cunt is a word I use frequently, but as an insult (or observation of a person) and twat just reminds me of 'The Inbetweeners'. I really hate them both when used to refer to a vagina.
The title is what do YOU call your vagina. Take ownership of your pussys and call it what ever the fu*k you like. There is no wrong answer.I personally don't like to refer it to by "cute" names and my girls were taught that they have a vagina. But if someone wants to call it their flower, minky or cunt it's up to them.I like seeing what others are using whether i woul personally use it or not.
I think you already know my preference (see pen-name: unsurprisingly "cute", or unrealistic, terms such as "pussy" annoy me).Every four weeks the term "gash" comes back into style.
Every four weeks the term "gash" comes back into style.I always associated that term with the pre-WWII era for some reason ... thought it was definitely out of style nowadays, like '23 skidoo' or 'tripping the light fantastic' ... it's good people are preserving the old traditions ... ha ha ha
@agracier : I think squidgicum's reference to the "periodic" return of the term gash has to do with it's meaning as a bleeding cut.Though I've heard the term used as meaning an attractive woman. "She's a gash."
Though I've heard the term used as meaning an attractive woman. "She's a gash."Really? I know that saying someone 'is a gas' means they're really funny, a riot and a half. Maybe the person you heard saying it was a bit inebriated and was slurring their words? ... ha ha haFor what it's worth, in 'Boardwalk Empire' the term 'gash' is also used and it is not at all flattering, it is far more derogatory than a 1920s floozy, bimbo, strumpet, chippie, moll, hoochie, skirt, tootsie or many others ...I suppose usage changes over time or people don't know the original meaning ...
I think squidgicum's reference to the "periodic" return of the term gash has to do with it's meaning as a bleeding cut.Though I've heard the term used as meaning an attractive woman. "She's a gash."The full term is AXE GASH.
Gash'Gash' is a term popular in English slang, it has a number of meanings, them being;1. A wound, or cut.2. Another word for vagina.3. Slang for women/girls.1. "I've got a gash on my face where I walked into that door"2. "I was balls deep in her gash"3. "Mate, check out the fit gash at 3 o'clock"(Urban Dictionary)In any case, I think Squidgicunt was refering to a vagina when a woman's having her period. It's a play on words.
These days, "LONELY"!!!!Seriously, I generally use, "KItty". Then again, I still say :heiney, and detest the word BUTT. Sounds like a hog to me!
I do not know how, why or when this started but for some reason I have always called IT my mouse. When I was really little my prudish mother refered to my vagina as my "who who".
Sorry @PervertedOrthographer, I call it my cookie ?Unless of course its with a special someone then it’s my pussy 😉
I call it my vagina unless engaging in sex or foreplay than its pussy or cunt if I am feeling dirty and submissive.
Hmm. She has a lot of names depending on mood, situation and or audiencehoo haa (humorous)pussy (go-to)cunt (when feeling dirty)twat (when I’m annoyed with it)Vag (general conversation)pooter (being childish)hole (when I wish to be reduced)
The ‘persuader’ 😉 😁 😈Oh yes it sure is a ‘persuader’ and a gal can use it to make me jump thru hoops if she wants…My first wife called hers a “scooch” Can't remember what my long term girlfriend called it. My present wife does like the word “pussy” but does like call it a “cunt” when using it in a sexual context.