Alone Time

I've got a great sex life with my wife, but I get extremely turned on when I have the house to myself for the day. I start thinking about what I want to do a couple days before and get things "prepped". As soon as she leaves, it's a continuous 8 hour, "how can I take it to the next level" masturbation session.

I was wondering if I'm alone in this, or if others do the same? I'm also always on the look out for new ideas during this time, so if you have any suggestions I'd love to hear. Usually mine involves different kinds of enemas, shaving, oil or Vaseline, a little cross dressing, videos, taking pictures, and out door play.

You are not alone! That's the great thing about this site is that there is usually someone thinking or acting the same way. In this case, that someone is me. It's a fact that partners do not share exactly the same kinks and desires. My wife fantasizes about sucking on nice round breasts while I'm all about the crotch and ass. She likes bondage for pleasure, I like it a little rougher but there are many likes we share, so sex is good. We both enjoy and plan out our alone time. It makes the time we spend together even better. Frankly, there is nothing hotter for me than getting a text from her saying "I just had the most intense orgasm in the shower thinking about making you suck another guy's cock while I watch..." Enjoy your alone time. Enjoy your time together.

I think having some alone, masturbation time is ultra important, just as important as having your seperate interests. If you can grant it to each then even better.

I love my alone times as well! Looking forward to hearing your ideas and what has worked well for enemas and other play.

Thanks to everyone who has answered. I've got a day by myself next week. I'll be sure to post afterwards. I'm really looking forward to it!!!!

My alone times are usually, only a couple hours. A couple times she had to return for something and caught me with a tummy full. She rubbed it and asked me to be careful. The next time, she asked me if that is what I always did. Sheepishly I answered to the affirmative. Now she always calls ahead and lets me know she is coming, so I can act like a normal human being instead of a monkey.

Many years ago I lived with a woman and this was how I felt, also. We were essentially married, but she had a rather vanilla idea of sex and she also did not have much kink or think it was OK to masturbate. She felt lovers should only have orgasms together.

I did not do anything much when she wasn't home, except watch porn and masturbate as much as I wanted, when I wanted, but it eventually became clear we had to break up bc the relationship felt more like a choke collar rather than a warm embrace.

I definitely have a more intense climax when I'm alone. My wife is very prudish so anything kinky is unacceptable by her standards. 😢

I am definitely thinking about planning an enema session. When I can have an hour long enema session that finishes off with a huge orgasm. I will usually have three of my anal toys within reach to be able to masturbate to a super orgasm. So having the quiet private time equals good time.

Alone time? What's that? With 2 small kids alone time seems a distant memory.

The desire for this alone time is so strong that i've gotta have it every night after everyone's asleep. i ruin my sleep by optimizing my usage of the overnight time.

Sometimes i think in advance which jockstrap i'm gonna wear that evening & which imagery i'm gonna fantasize to. If there's time left after i'm finished, i'll go to bed.

And of course if i know i'll be staying alone in a hotel, i'll pack a kinky bag with me to take advantage of that alone time.

Whenever the rest of the family goes to the store, i have a pretty good idea how much time i'll have.

Many years ago my wife used to work night shifts at the hospital and was gone from 9pm till around 8am the next morning. After about 12 years it changed suddenly and let me say aside from many other things involved with the change, being suddenly bereft of 'alone time' was very hard. It had become a normal part of my life.

Unfortunately my husband and I had a lot of alone time due to his job ? Him being away is something I don't like at all and every moment he spends with us is like celebration.

I do not enjoy being alone and never did, especially from one of the people I love the most in this world besides my child. I couldn't be happier that I have my daughter, my best friend who keeps me busy and we enjoy each other's company so much!

When my husband is gone I try as much as I can to be really busy so I get my mind off the fact that he's away.

I try not to think of all the bad things that might happen and look forward to his return. We cherish each second we share as a family and try to make it as memorable as possible.

It crosses my mind pretty often how am I going to make each second count, what if this is the last time I get to spend with the people I love?

I've realized this approach has changed the way I treat people, the way I deal with day to day situations.

This is exactly how I feel now about life:

"each day's a gift and not a given right", "Every second counts 'cause there's no second try", "live each moment like your last". Nickleback has a great song on this theme, "If Today Was Your Last Day"