Gynae exam of your partner

When bringing up gyn exams with your partner. How did you go about approaching the subject of wanting to examine her?

Tell her you were always curious about women's health and you would like to try a play exam to see what it's like to be a gynecologist. You could also tell her that you want to get to know her body better so you can spot any problems, so you can help her by doing monthly breast exams while playing doctor.Lastly, tell her that you are so attracted to her, and that it really turns you on to see her naked but not be able to act right away, and one of the scenarios in which this can occur is playing doctor. Tell her it would really turn you on to examine her, and it would be fun and challenging trying to control yourself and act professional.Perhaps you can arrange the conversation around one of her actual appointments, as that would be a reason for bringing it up. Also, try the pretend massage appointment I described in another post and try to work into a pretend gyn appointment.

I used to tip toe around it when I was much younger... Now? I make no apologies for liking what I like. I just bring it up and see how they feel about it. My ex was "meh" about it and just let me play and watch her gyno exams in real life.. The current woman I'm hooking up with was nervous at first, but I make her cum so much from more traditional things that she's given me full gyno access to her with all my tools... I've even been using e-stim stuff on her and she's found out that she had a buried kinky side she didn't know she had.

I have gotten much more like SpecSteve. Just put your cards on the table (no pun!).

I agree with Steve in that you can start with the gentle opener, but eventually you have to just admit you really enjoy it, and that you want to share your interest with her. You'll have to find a happy medium in your relationship, as you might not get everything you want, but it's better than nothing. One idea is to commit to half a dozen or so pretend appointments over several months, as you'll both have the opportunity to get more comfortable with the scenario as well as find things you both enjoy.

I agree with the advice given, however, my wife won't give in to a vaginal exam for fun at home, not a turn on for her at all.

Cusco79--any luck?

No luck, I proposed the idea some time ago and it got a frosty response, I may try again but anticipate the same response.

We went to a pre-natal exam. I was so turned on that the next day I borrowed a stethoscope from our medical wing and when I got home I did everything I had seen the dr do to my wife. She loved it.

What was covered in the pre natal nurse kev

Pretty basic things.

Height, weight, then he got her to lay on the table and he took blood, bp felt her tummy and gave her an internal and what I now know as a DRT.

Being in Europe it was done in the nude, which for the most would not have been a problem but my wife was bought up by very strict religious parents who felt everything from nudity to the television was sinful, so I had never gotten to see my wife naked let alone being examined until then.

Always start out honest and let your partner know how u feel about your fantasies when you feel comfortable to open up.

Begin talking about how medical fetishism is a visceral pleasure, and most young boys and girls play doctor together to examine each other.

Start easy, and non invasive and move forward.

Steth exam, rectal temp, blood pressure.

Then move forward with digital exams and anything else you want to try!

Good luck!

She just nopes out.

I’ve just told my partner that I love playing doctor and want to examine her. She has actually bought everything needed for a pelvic exam. She even bought a table.