Should I or should I not tell my S/O?

I was able to start it off as a joke and slowly progressed it to reality with a now ex-gf of mine. I think I started it off with when we were going to sleep in the same bed for the first time, and I asked what if I wet the bed. And the responce was guess you will need diapers.

I was actually able to get her to purchase some diapers when she started asking about sex and if she could get condoms. I said she could get condoms IF she also bought a pack of diapers, and thats where it all started.

I have found the best way is to ask questions and gauge there responce, and then back out depending on some of their answers. Its not the smoothest way to find out, and some knew I was getting at something, but it usually workd.

I would like to tell my gf but i dont know how. i know she loves me but i am still afraid that she will freak out but it might work because she is very adventurous

For me, I only knew my girlfriend four months when I told her. Two things influenced my decision, and I think they're important: She had an open mind sexually, and was comfortable with experimentation, and secondly, I felt she was trustworthy, and even if she wasn't cool with it, I knew she would keep it secret. Finally, instead of getting her to diaper me, I offered to diaper her first. This worked well for me because it took the pressure off her to do something 'weird' to me, potentially alienating for our relationship. And by doing it to her first, I could demonstrate what I liked and how I liked it. Sure enough, though she did not fantasize about diapers, she said it felt good to be diapered and that she "loved the attention", which is part of the experience, ri

I have had a girlfriend for 2 years now and we are about to get married and I've never told her that I like diapers yet. I buy them and put them in the back of the closet and wear them when she's at work sometimes becuase I work nights and then she's gone during the day. I don't wear them all of the time and I'm afraid that she might look at me differently if I told her that I'm into them. I've been waiting for the right time but that's never come yet. Becuase when she's around I don't really think about it and I feel like I don't want to wear them. It's just when she's gone when I feel like I want to wear them. I don't know it's weird.

I just brought it up as a joke and it went from there that is how i told mine

I'm currently doing the same with my girlfriend, she is not up for diapering herself. I might be able to talk her into changing me 😃.

I have never NOT told a lady that I was committed to. I do not make my fetish the begin all and end all of my being though. Usually there is no need to tell someone, unless you are growing a commited relationship. Look at it this way, if it is part of us", wouldnt hiding this part of us from a significant other be dishonest? or at the very least misleading. I have found most all woman I have told in the proper fashion, have mostly all indulged my wish's, 1 ladyout of 15 (guess) was not ok with it, 14 were eager to explore. Take a chance, you might be suprised.