Stumbled across this and as someone who has her well defined "middle", of about 14, I wouldn't want a woman masquerading as Daddy. I do however kind of feel like the the teenager at the orphanage! (sorry for the rather harsh analogy). Nobody wants a tween/teen.
There are those of us out here who are not into ABDL relationships,and are not into being "littles" (under age 10) but are "tweens" and"middles" (ages 11 through 14 and you can even stretch that to 17) that are just in limbo.
Most Daddies are looking for "babies". I/we need a Daddy who not only knows the mix of medical and age play, but can carry on a loving, nurturing, caring, sensitive relationship with an intelligent and articulate "tween"/middle and keep it real within the fantasy of the role play mixing the two elements. I did have two such guys, who were terrific, but I got dumped in favor of a younger "kid" with whom they wanted a more sexual relationship and that's not what the whole Daddy/Daughter relationship is about for me. Although there could be some intimate moments and talks, and even some flirtations, sex has to stay out of it, which sadly seems to make me and others like me orphans!
If you are a Daddy who truly understands this kind of relationship, tell me that you do, and explain to me how you do. I'm not into incestual garbage and neither are most other tween/middles I have met or spoken/chatted with.