How did you first discover your clitoris

Guys can't but help to discover their penis. It can rock hard at night from a young age. But ladies need to look harder. Ladies (I believe) need to find their clitoris. What made you find it?

Wiping dry after urinating when I was three or four years old.

I mentioned a sensitive spot to my mother and she told me all about it.

THANKS MOM!

A friend showed me

I don't know how I discovered it. Seems like I always just knew about it. I swear I can remember riding a trike and realizing it felt nice when I moved certain ways when peddling around.

My daughter discovered hers (or at least the feeling) when she was 3 or 4 years old and began to shower by herself. I remember the giggling coming from the bathroom - too cute.

That was a long time ago. I can remember my parents telling me to get my hand out of there when I was like 3-4. So I knew it was there back then. I never paid much attention to it while awake until my older sister showed me when I was 12.

I know my daughter found hers early on; she had a sprung rocking horse she dearly loved, received as a Christmas present when she was two years old. Keeping a watchful eye out I routinely saw her "enjoy' the seat on the horse at that early age. You could just watch her eye movements to tell when she hit the pleasure button!

I remember being really young when I found mine, maybe 5 or 6 years old, I didn't know what it was or why it was there but I knew it felt good when it was touched, I remember being in the bathtub washing up and I remember touching it with the wash rag and it felt good, and when I was about 7 or 8 I had this really big huge pink teddy bear that a friend gave me that I would rub against

Not too sure, when I first masturbated I guess.

I think I found mine while being spanked. As I squirmed around there was one spot that felt good when it rubbed on my comforter or daddies knees.

I got nice feelings when rubbing and pressing into that area but did not know why until having an affair with another woman who explained everything.

Did not discover it on my own. I was talking at the swimming pool with a couple other girls, and somehow one girl mentioned "her clit". I said nothing for fear of seeming ignorant, but as soon as I got home, I locked myself in the bathroom and began the search for mine. I found it! Needless to say, it's been one of my most important discoveries, providing many pleasurable experiences. 😉

C.

I remember being about 8 or 9 years old when I was laying on my bed after taking a bath. I scratched my girl bits for a short moment and I felt my first orgasm. It was the most intense climax I've reached.

I was surprised. I liked it but I didn't know it was something sexual.

I was very curious to know what was I scratching. So I went in the bathroom and looked at my vulva and saw this mysterious pink "thing" poking out.

I thought it was the part that made me pee and I also thought it looked like a tiny penis. I didn't know anything about female sexual organ.

I have a medium sized clit but a very small clithood, and when I was wearing tight pants or pants with buttons i can feel the pressure of it on my clit.

Well I knew I had a spot that felt really nice but I can not remember when I found that. I think maybe it was before I started school but I am not really sure about it.

My mum explained I had a clitoris when I was about 7 or 8 so I learned much more about why that spot felt so good. But I found out what my clitoris could really do when I was 13 because then I had my first orgasm. 😜

Due to hormonpils to control my periods.

My clitoris became really sensitive and erected by it so I could feel it all the time

@ SweetAmy1995, a little bit offtopic, but what was the name of these pills to control your hormones?

Maybe these pills could be a help for the 'less horny' women ;-)

MINULET

My boyfriend told me about it through text... then he gave a picture of where it was, then I played around with it, and at that time I started to get more into sexual stuff, so I discovered that nipples were also a highly erogenous zone, as well as my vagina, coz I havent seen any use of it yet, (I havent had my period that time) and started masturbating like crazy, and reached my first orgasm

I was molested by an aunt so at the age of four, I knew where mine was and what it did. For so long, I thought that it wasn't abuse since it felt good. Now, I know better than that.

The only thing about mine is that it is unusually big.... as in annoyingly, gets in the way large. And too sensitive for its own good.

I dont recall exactly when i made the discovery i just learnt touching myself felt nice and continued to do it until eventually had first orgasm.

I was keen to encourave a very close friend of mine growing up after

Seems like ive always known my very best friend. i wouldnt go anywhere without her

My doctor told me to focus on a particular area, after my surgery. 😃

I have a neo-vagina.

Last follow up my doctor touched the spot to make sure it works I guess. (Ina funny way, I thought that's not fair, it takes her 1 second and me 6 months 😃 )

Now 6 months post-op, I still have to "figure it out" a little. But then again I think it takes about 12 months before full sensations are back.

I have had quit a few orgasms already, but they are so different then before when I had a male part. It's like a whole body orgasm. Much harder to get then as a guy. I do get wet though when I orgasm, more then before I think.

I recall in my days of sex education in school there was no mention of the clitoris the whole "privates" was just labeled together as vagina.

Is this other peoples experince?

In the past few years we have had to sign a letter from school saying we were happy for sex ed class and briefly covered what would be in class and certainly now seems more detailed and no longer denies the female anatomy is a vagina and nothing more.

We never minded as by this time wasnt anything they had not already been taught.

I recall in my days of sex education in school there was no mention of the clitoris the whole "privates" was just labeled together as vagina.

Is this other peoples experince?

No the right word vulva was used for the outside, the labia and the word vagina was used for what the word vagina is meant to be for. The vagina is the passage inside not the outside but a lot of people use the word wrong.

I do not think the schools talked about the clitoris when I had my sex education class at school because it is not part of reproduction. Maybe they were not allowed to talk about it, I am not sure. It did not really matter though because I learned everything from my mum really, not the school.

No the right word vulva was used for the outside, the labia and the word vagina was used for what the word vagina is meant to be for. The vagina is the passage inside...

I learned everything from my mum really, not the school.

Yes i am aware of the difference but the individual terms when i was growing up was not taught in earlier years of sex ed.

Indeed its something a mom should do more so than the school, therefore states responcibility.

Yes i am aware of the difference but the individual terms when i was growing up was not taught in earlier years of sex ed.

But I think they should just have said vulva then if they did not teach you early what part a vagina really is. I do not think you should need to learn the right word later. Maybe it is why a lot of people always keep using the wrong word too.

People are just hung up--even the people who taught sex ed, and maybe the curriculum forced them to teach it with certain omissions. We did cover the penis and clitoral glans, but it was primarily for the anatomy because they still wanted the class to be more about biological than social, personal, pleasurable or "entity that doesn't exist forbid," FUN aspects of sex. Even so, what was taught in sex ed was a lot more than many kids got at home because the parents never spoke to their kids about it or never had enough good information themselves.

My son and daughter, my son mostly, is becoming aware of their own physiology. And I'm not just talking about their genitals, and neither are they. I am trying to be correct when I give them the name of whatever they are curious about, so I've got an app 😉 on my phone that has human anatomy to help me out.

I am glad they are asking questions about anatomy in general and I think it will help to set the 'tone' when they do get curious about genitals and the feelings that can be associated with them. I am going to try to be as open and 'natural' about what they want to know. I also want to be their "go-to" person to find out what something is and what it does. I want them to know it is just part of being human and nothing to be ashamed of.

However, my son is currently into wanting to know about farts. 😕 He even is asking about an item on the internet that said that women live longer and healthier if they smell their husband's farts. I suspect his Dad is behind this one. 😉

@Dahiana said, However, my son is currently into wanting to know about farts. 😕 He even is asking about an item on the internet that said that women live longer and healthier if they smell their husband's farts. I suspect his Dad is behind this one. 😉

I'm going to live for ... a very long time then. 😶

I do not think the schools talked about the clitoris when I had my sex education class at school because it is not part of reproduction.

This was in a boy's only school in 1964-65, but I can assuredly say that no mention at all was made of the clitoris in what passed for sex ed class back then. That was something you had to learn about from a book.