Ladies that don't masturbate

My wife of 30 plus years still claims she doesn’t masturbate on her own but I still think she is not being truthful, we have had a great sex life and she is open for just about anything, I remember in the beginning during foreplay she would ask if it was alright if she touched herself to which I responded yes absolutely and now all of our sexual play always involve mutual masturbation sometimes she will stimulate herself while I watch, at this point I don’t really care if she masturbates alone we have always have a great time enjoying each other’s bodies and pleasing one another and I can tell the way she touches herself she has definitely done this before.

I don't hardly ever masturbate alone, even with having sex once a week. I don't have the time nor privacy.

But masturbating with my sub does happen. It is a better way to make sure I do get my orgasm. One way over another. Plus sub gets to feel he was there and had a bit of participation in the matter.

While on this topic, something mentioned in another thread about loving to have a female partner watching me masturbate while I'm looking at other women on television. While I'm watching, enjoying myself and mumbling things like “look at those legs”, “look at those tits”, “look at that crotch”, etc. my partner loudly curses and swears at me, and calls me all sorts of names for doing what I'm doing. Seems being cursed and yelled at excites me all the more 🙄

But there are a number who didn’t receive enemas as children who found enema pleasure later in life.

@Rigel this is true for me about enemas but my introduction was sexual in nature with @Dahiana from the beginning and that is how I see them. I believe there is a stigma surrounding enemas and maybe women who don't masturbate are taught that rather than starting out not wanting to.

Can be a cultural thing, too. Many Japanese women don't masturbate. I have firsthand acquaintance, but this bar chart is telling. Around 40% in this survey say they've never tried.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1290264/japan-frequency-masturbation-women-by-age/

I wonder how a gal go without some form of obtaining an organism? Doesn't the clit become more and more sensitive when nothing is done to it, until just the slightest touch sets if off?

I wonder how a gal go without some form of obtaining an organism? Doesn't the clit become more and more sensitive when nothing is done to it, until just the slightest touch sets if off?

I would suppose that infrequent use will do more towards desensitizing. Sort of like with male masturbation. If you refrain for a long period, a penis doesn't get more and more sensitive. It will probably ‘unlearn’ certain reactions.