Lubricants for vaginal sex

My wife of more than 30 years is through the change, which leaves her fairly dry and poorly lubricated. Her Ob/Gyn has suggested Olive oil, but my Urologist swears by Johnson and Johnson Baby Oil. However, Betony Vernon, in her wonderful "Boudoir Bible" says basically none of the above, only use special purpose products. Any advice?

Your doctors are DUMB.

USE WATER BASED LUBES for vaginal sex. It just feels much better than oils and they clean up from inside the vagina much better too. I know, I have one.

Astroglide, Probe, KY products, Wet, ID Glide, MANY MANY water soluble choices available in any sex shop or website would be better than baby oil or live oil.

Oils may stay longer, but they feel NOTHING like real pussy juice. Having to reapply a little more water based lube during a marathon session isn't a big deal.

The Boudoir Bible is right.

If you are using a lot KY and other lubes can be expensive,

Buy a bottle of J-Lube, http://www.jlube.net/ this a powder to mix yourself with water, prepare small amount at once, pour the desired quantity of warmed water in a recipient than mix the powder. Be aware you need a few powder for a max water, add the powder to obtain the right consistence and enjoy.

The price is very interessant, 10 times cheaper than KY and identical efficiency.

Arthur said

The price is very interessant, 10 times cheaper than KY and identical efficiency.

I don't think price is a consideration here.

J-Lube is actually a much more lubricious material than K-Y.

J-Lube is cheap to use if you use tons of lube for various kinks. For ANAL intercourse, a few ml is all you need and anyone can afford a pre-made sex lube.

J-Lube is not be the best thing for vaginal sex because the powder is 75% sucrose which could easily upset the bacterial balance in the vagina.

Lubricating the vagina with sugar is not a good idea. You wouldn't lubricate the vagina with maple syrup, would you?

Depends what you want to achieve. If you want to get children you should consider a special sperm friendly lubricant such as Pre-Seed.

Sportslover said:

My wife of more than 30 years is through the change, which leaves her fairly dry and poorly lubricated. . . . .

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dimpfel123 said

Depends what you want to achieve. If you want to get children you should consider a special sperm friendly lubricant such as Pre-Seed.

I think more children is out of the picture. 😁 😁 😁

I am with my second post-menopausal wife. I've used "the natural" (http://www.dreambrands.com/the-natural/) with both of them, and both were/are very happy with it. Feels better and leaves less mess than KY and a few others. My local Bartell's drug store carries it.

Astroglide Natural comes close.

I have used KY, but the best is Astroglide. I think it is really slipperier which when you get dry down there helps a whole lot. In one his kinky moments my husband also bought us some strawberry flavored lube that he claims tastes really good.

Does anyone also use the coconut oil for vaginal?

Stick with a real sex lube.

I never thought coconut oil was good for anything, including cooking.

Be aware that a lot of lubricants, including water based, use paraben as a preservative. Some people are allergic to it. It may cause local irritation. Europe has outlawed its use in a lot of cosmetics and other products, as the risk of becoming allergic to it is increasing.

Let's be honest. When we are ready to have sex and there may be some dryness we just reach for anything that will make the entering of the penis into her vagina easier and smoother then rub it on the penis and or apply to the vagina or the anus and let's get on with the pleasure.

If I need something then it is what ever is closest to me reach.

Let's be honest. When we are ready to have sex and there may be some dryness we just reach for anything that will make the entering of the penis into her vagina easier and smoother then rub it on the penis and or apply to the vagina or the anus and let's get on with the pleasure.

If I need something then it is what ever is closest to me reach.

That's what YOU do.

Most people put more care and thought into it.

And sometimes it is more enjoyable to be spontaneous. How many people actually plan ahead for sex. This is the year 2018 not 1959.

And the best thing is the freedom to talk about it.

And sometimes it is more enjoyable to be spontaneous. How many people actually plan ahead for sex.

Some times I plan for sex with my husband and some times I do not. It is easy to just have the right lube that is meant for sex where you need it, if I want lube. I do not get why somebody would use other things that are slippery when being a lube for sex is not what they are really for.

Michael001 said

And sometimes it is more enjoyable to be spontaneous. How many people actually plan ahead for sex. This is the year 2018 not 1959.

And the best thing is the freedom to talk about it.

First, I don't see what difference the year makes at all.

Second, you can be totally spontaneous. Aren't you usually going to be home when you have sex? Lube in the night stand or bathroom would be convenient. If you were going away to a hotel or camping, you would still have a toiletries bag where you could have a small bottle of lube. You would have condoms or some barrier contraceptive if you weren't on the pill or IUD, wouldn't you? I even have a few sample sized single use packets of lube in my purse if I need a fast fuck here or there. It's all part of being a well organized person. Trust me, I have had sex in many different types of places and was never without lube if I needed it. At the very least, if I am eaten out, the addition of saliva is very good.

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Amethyst said

Some times I plan for sex with my husband and some times I do not. It is easy to just have the right lube that is meant for sex where you need it, if I want lube. I do not get why somebody would use other things that are slippery when being a lube for sex is not what they are really for.

That's right! You could use butter, baby oil, vaseline, bacon grease or motor oil, but why would you when it's so easy to have the right thing? Besides, none of those things feel like pussy juice.

Why would any of those things be more handy that a proper sex lube?

Besides, none of those things feel like pussy juice.

Why would any of those things be more handy that a proper sex lube?

OK, so it's been a while, but I never found a "proper sex lube" that feels like "pussy juice". We seldom needed a lube - got the real pussy juice going with some oral. It's more fun to make your own lube like that 😄

We did use lube for anal - oral on the butt just didn't make it all that slippery! Porn movies show a lot of spit used as lube - but "proper sex lube" is better for anal.

My wife's gyn put her on to astroglide and there is nothing better that I've found, don't use the cheap imitations. It goes a long way.

My fiancé is in the change and she’s on a patch that helped her thru the hot flashes and etc. It brings the estrogen levels back up and makes her feel and act like a 30yr horney wet women. It’s freaking great! It helps her heath most importantly. If you never studied it. Do so. As a mid 40s male I watch my testosterone levels. It’s huge in battling aging. Discovered all of this with my triathlon training.

So the only time we use lube .. is when I surprise jump her! Or anal. I rest is natural.

We found our favorite lube, for vaginal or other use, at Target. Don't know the name, but it is the Target brand. Easy to pick up for us.

My favorite lube for vaginal sex is that come from another man Or men

My suggestion is to give your woman plenty of oral sex. Not only does it make them very wet, but tastes sooooo good too! 😜 Has NEVER failed me.

My wife is through with the change. I really miss having menstrual sex but also what was her personal lubrication (aka pussy juice). We have used KY, but Astroglide is our all-time favorite.

We used K-Y and also tried their warming drops, which my husband didn't like. Then I discovered Astroglide at our local pharmacy and love it. Very slippery which can be a good thing.