First sex toy

I want to buy my wife our first sex toy. What can you recommend? I do not want to scare her. This should be something that will encourage her to the next toy. I think about a glass dildo or something similar. Please give me some ideas.

Mine was a 2 quart enema bag.

I would go with a ceramix toy instead of glass, many of them are hollow and you can put water in it for temperature play and some weight play, and I know for me glass toys freaked me the hell out when they were first introduced to me, because glass and my vagina are not something that should mix.

If your wife told you she is interested in toys, you can be more liberal in what the first toy is.

If she never mentioned toys and you get something insertable, don't get anything too big for her first toy. Normal penis size is fine, don't get a mega dick and don't get a double penetration type toy. Small and innocuous is how it should be described.

Do you have already a vibrator ? I thought that this will be the first toy before dildo, plugs because more chances to lead her to the pleasure.

Suzie is right too medium sized toys first, when experienced you both can buy the type and the prefered size.

For vibes her are my prefered

Hitachi Magic Wand 54.95$ http://www.extremerestraints.com/wand-massagers_83/ there are attachements for females and for males

Palm Power http://www.bmsfactory.com/palmpower/ rechargeable

Eroscillator http://www.eroscillator.com/?st=us

NEVER batteries powered, better when connected thru little power box (trafo) to the socket wall, toys with rechargeable battery is a second option.

Remember batteries are allways down when she will be in the mood !

Hello here is what I recommend that you buy for her as her first toy. Mini waterproof 10-frequency female vibrating love egg bullet with wireless remote control. You can buy it from Amazon.com at; http://www.amazon.com/Waterproof-10-frequency-Vibrating-Wireless-Control/dp/B00N9MLW2Q/ref=sr_1_53?ie=UTF8&qid=1413292650&sr=8-53&keywords=egg+vibration+massager+female .

She can use it inside or outside just on her lips and clit, There is a lot of fun ways to use this without her running away from it and thinking your crazy for trying or asking to bring a toy into the bedroom. Another thing you can do is take her to the store with you and let her pick something out that she may like to try because that can be a turn-on for you both. Have fun and play safe.

Thank you for all your suggestions. I should clarify a bit what I'm looking for.

She never mentioned about toys. It's hard to convince her to try something new. That's why I wanted to start with something delicate. Everything that trembles, makes a sound or has cables is out of question. Glass seemed to me the most sense because toys made ​​from it have interesting shapes and encourage experimentation.

Maybe it would be too big to start with. Maybe I should find something she will not have to put in herself.

I know that the task is difficult. First toy for a woman who does not like experiments, who will throw me out of the house if I bring something to the bed is too perverse, silicone or unhygienic.

I need to start with something because in the future I want to play anal, get pegged, spanked, get my prostate milked, try bondage, etc.

I know that she is real wild thing but it is very hard to make her try something kinky. Once we tried something new she is suprised that it is was so enjoyable and we didn't try it earlier.

Try a small battery powered vibrator. You don't even have to turn it on. Just use it like a small dildo to penetrate if you like or just lightly rub over her labia and clitoris.

Go slowly with her or you will never get what you want.

Have you tried looking online together? Good Vibrations are a great start. Although they only have stores in Boston and CA, their online selection and recommendations are nice. Your future plans are varied, but sound like she would start slow.

I like the idea of a vibrator, that can be used either inside or out. There are some vibrators that are cool looking, but not phallic. (We-vibe). And a brand NEW one, called the Stronic, that is a thruster. Very unique.

Maybe you can take your wife to a sex toy store or look at online sex toy stores and let her pick a sex toy out for herself

There are some real high quality toys out on the market now and they do tend to be on the expensive side. Some over $100. But I would choose a toy that might open up an area of sex play that you have thought about but have not yet explored. This could be so many different things not just a sex toy.

So have an honest conversation and explore your kinky side and try something that will take your sex play to another level.

Have fun!

I love my bullet vibrator. So easy and fun to use.

We have quite a few toys. Personally I am happy to use anything but my wife doesn't particularly like anything she was with someone else until.she was 35 years old.and hated sex....until we got together now she's sex mad however the only toy she really likes is simple clit vibrators but oh my the wand!!!!!! I just can't stop.her when she gets the wand out. It's not scary.and you can't go to far with it so I would definitely try that to begin with... You will never look back.... Good luck

Adding stuff to an old post, but if you are lucky enough to live in an area that still had a dirty book store... We have one out our way that is clean and nice, it has private parking, and is very discrete. There are no men jacking off in the aisls. We rarely go there anymore and the internet has really hurt their business, but a good dirty book store is a real asset in an area. If you can get your SO up for going, and in the spending mood, you can have a lot of fun.

I found at first I had to start grabbing things and than she would comment, that looks too big, ok, how about that than? And after you have a a few things picked out, the pump is kind of primed and in my experience once you get a woman out of her shell and in the spending mood... We used to blow a lot of money there once or twice a year. She picked out a lot of toys and I picked out a lot of toys, and we still have most of them. It is nice to have an assortment when you are in the toy mood. And after the first time, she was much more open about grabbing stuff.

Go out and scout around for a nice adult emporium and than see if you can get your lady friend to go with you. If you can get her over the hump, it will be a very fun and rewarding trip.

Also, as an aside, they used to have a huge video section and we learned a bit about each others kinks by looking at the video titles. Even if we did not buy things, it kind of gave us a forum to talk about them on the ride home.