Hair Removal as a Kink

It's sooo attractive on a woman, I have always thought that hairs - how to translate that..? (fr: poils --> bristles? Well, the thick ones) distinguished principally males, while hairs of the head was female's. So it's as if the most feminine body part was endowed with a masculine feature :-(

I know some really like it but for me there is nothing more beautiful than a smooth vulva. More waxed than shaved to no get soon the "pin cushion" effect. And on me I like them to be at least short trimmed.

That may be more true for females, but there is still a way to do it and make it humiliating, especially for a male. A Domme can show off her male slave and his bald crotch while ridiculing his appearance to her friends. Making him drop his pants and show how he is bare just like a lot of ladies, etc. It all depends on the crowd. It sounds like it dpesn't work at your house.

LOTS of men are shaved.

Haven't you seen porno fuck films lately?

I like to pluck gray hairs from women, although now more with forceps than my fingers. I seem to find women who are willing, and maybe they find it therapeutic on some level.

That may be more true for females, but there is still a way to do it and make it humiliating, especially for a male.

LOTS of men are shaved.

Haven't you seen porno fuck films lately?

You bet lots of men are shaved. An even better way of gauging the prevalence of shaved guys, is to check out amateur webcams or amateur sex tapes. These are often made by younger couples or friends and seeing shaved men and women is quite common.

Being shaved to show one's submissiveness IS OVER.

People shave because they want to.

I usually trim my hair.

I fantasize about being shaved by nurse in a medical setting.

Waxing, sugaring seems interesting but the seem kind of tortures.

I have kept my wife hair-free for all the years we have been married. I do so enjoy keeping her lips clean shaven, as does my face when I face-plant her lovely lady part. I also keep my face clean shaven for her comfort and pleasure.

Are there many women who enjoy having their male partners shave their lady part? How often is this practice done?

I remember when my partner at the time asked to shave me. Very erotic. He laid me on a towel, spread my legs, creamed me and shaved me slowly and then cleaned me up with a warm, wet towel. Then he cleaned me again with his warm, wet mouth. The ultimate trusting experience.

Shortly after my wife and tied the knot, I requested that she shave her pubic area. She complied and before long, she allowed me to shave her pubic area. We have incorporated shaving her into our foreplay and she enjoys this extra time and sensitivity. It is amazing how soft her vaginal lips and mound are without hair to obscure the anatomy. I have never wanted to have her shaved to make her look like a little girl but being able to see her female anatomy without hair so erotic. Plus, pleasuring her orally ( and it is enjoyable for me to do it) without any hair in the mouth is another good reason. And, as we have aged with gray hair, a hairless pussy makes both of us feel more youthful.

For me shaving is like sloooow masturbation, it's nice to be clean and buttery smooth.

I generally trim my hair. But will always love to make my partner clean shaved.Will take a oppurtunity shave her.The intimate shaving gives a turn on for both.

I have kept my personal space hairless for the last 20 years or so. Mostly I just shave but I have waxed myself which did produce some pretty impressive discomfort. I find shaving to much easier to keep up since you can shave every 3 days or so and stay smooth while waxing you have to let it grow long enough for the wax to get ahold of. Plucking the regrowth one by one after waxing become just to tedious.

My girlfriend did let me wax her a few times but she found it was easier to just shave smooth every few days. She has even said shaving completely smooth is even easier than trimming.

I've enjoyed the shaved look for many years. My husband enjoys shaving me and I enjoy him doing it. I've never in all our years attempted to shave myself. I'd make a mess of things.

Since I look like I am closely related to Sasquatch my wife requires me to do some trimming, main thing is she hates hair coming up over my shirt collar. So I am required to shave down to my collar bone. She has a set of dog trimmers, yes they were originally for a dog, and does the back of my neck.

Then a few years after we were married she told me to stand at attention in the bathroom one night and she attacked my long, thick pubes with a comb and a pair of scissors. She left it maybe a half inch long the first time. It was actually kind of hot with her doing it, but I asked her why she did it. She asked me if I liked getting blow jobs. I said yeah of course. She said, “Well I don’t like hair in my mouth!” What started out a practical matter became sort of hot. Later on she gave me a pair of tweezers and said if I still liked blow jobs I better take all that hair off my shaft. There is a bunch to remove we have tried several methods, all hurt. Also now all the hair is off my sack, she likes it smooth.

As for her, she trims hers pretty short. Unfortunately she wants to do it herself even though I have offered to help many times, that could be really hot.

I love being smooth all over. It's fun when I get out of the shower after shaving and run multiple hand across my hairless genitals

I'be been asked a couple of times to shave a patient prior to the actual exam. I found it to be very intimate and a great way to initiate a trusting relationship. Personally, I don't have a preference for shaven or unshaven, but I did enjoy the shaving prep. and actual shaving. Now I include that as part of the pre-exam questions.

I think in a M/M D/s scenario the lack of hair on the submissive (and present on the dominant) makes for a sexy contrast. To me, it just emphasizes the power difference, especially if the dominant male has his pubic hair and is obviously much more well endowed than the submissive.

I enjoy shaving my wife's pubic hair as much as she enjoys having it done to/for her. We both find it very erotic to have her legs spread wide under bright light with everything beautifully exposed. By the time the session is over, she her labia are delicately swollen and obviously lubricated. Sexual fun always ensues. Neither she nor I enjoy her shaving me. It seems so much more difficult to shave me then shaving her. To that end, I have often thought about professional hair removal of any type but have not pursued it for financial and practical reasons. The thought routinely induces an erection from me though I am certain it would be a clinical experience with no sexual overtones.

I'm a hairy mid 40's guy who is hairy but hates hair.......I shave all parts I can get to but have some bits that get left unshaved.

Anyone have ideas of how to get the rest and how to stop the after pimples and razor burn on the private parts and sensitive areas......or best thing to use to heal faster.

I also like to baby oil myself top to bottom afterwards and feel the smoothness of everything at the same time..

Please Help me.

When I first shaved myself in 1979 shaving was kinky, now it's just ubiquitous.

The tree looks bigger when you trim the hedges.

Still keepin the little woman clean shaven for almost 17 years, and loving performing that service for her.

Yes. Me too. Shaving my genitals and ass really turns me on. It might be that it's an intimate area or really sensitive but I think there's more to it than that. Maybe it has to do with having to focus and touch these areas so diliberatly that causes something in the brain to release whatever hormones or endorphins or whatever chemicals that make us horney. I don't know. Are there studies out there on what chemicals are released when we see or feel things that turn us on?

Yes i love being totally smooth, its a mental thing as much as physical for me. I will often be out walking around, look at a pretty female and think "if she only knew" I am not exactly what you would call endowed, seeing myself in the mirror after a shower takes me back to being a little boy again

I enjoy hair removal.

I tie up my submissive, put on a pair of latex gloves for a good grip, twirl a tuft of hair between my fingers and PULL IT OUT!

I enjoy hair removal.

I tie up my submissive, put on a pair of latex gloves for a good grip, twirl a tuft of hair between my fingers and PULL IT OUT!

Oh no! Being a hairy bear I cringed when I read this. That would hurt like hell. Now a fantasy of mine is for a dominate gal to be stroking me with one hand while she spanks me with the other - the pleasure of the stoking would cause me to accept her punishing me. But, don't think even that would make a hair pull tolerable...

I enjoy hair removal.

I tie up my submissive, put on a pair of latex gloves for a good grip, twirl a tuft of hair between my fingers and PULL IT OUT!

I know who WON"T do my next brazilian!!!

Oh no! Being a hairy bear I cringed when I read this.

My husband is a hairy beast, too.

Sometimes I make him cry. Other times I like listening to him beg me not to do it! 😈

Occasional other men at S&M parties learn it can be a painful punishment as do women who don't have their pubic hair groomed to my liking.

I know who WON"T do my next brazilian!!!

Brazilians are easy. You put the wax on and quickly rip off the wax. It's nothing more than a quick sting.

When I do hair removal as part of a kinky act, I pull it out S-L-O-W-L-Y so I can enjoy their pain. 😁 😈

Most people's hair removal isn't really a kink, it is part of their grooming.