Be honest,......

Be totaly honest with yourself, so you can be honest with the other.

Look at what you really want....., why you tell it the other 1.

Is it because you like it (like candy) or is it because you really need it or want it?

Because if you like it like 'candy' the people can laugh because they 'feel' what you mean.

If you are really really sure about why you want diapers, people feel it also and if they are serious too, they answer in honesty, and understand better why you want, what you want.

Hopefully you understand what i mean, because i am not a native english(speaker).

melissa (SAB)

Well, though it is important to be honest, it is a pretty unusual thing to drop on your significant-other, so make sure that the honesty is kept light and gentle. I don't honestly think I could go the rest of my life without fantasizing about diapers, so it's something I need ... but then again, I don't think I could go my entire life without another piece of candy either. Fun is something we need, and I think the real distinction one needs to impress upon them is that it is something fun and sexy for you, not something rooted in a disturbed mental state. This would probably be a little more difficult for ABs since for some of them it is a comfort need, not a sexual fetish. However, I am not into the baby thing. For me at least, it is more about the erotic humiliation of not being a baby but still needing diapers. It's about lack of control, which is something anyone who understands BDSM can understand ... and basically, it is hard to find someone who can't find something about power and control sexy.

I agree to be honest. My wife and i almost got a divorced due to lack of communication. One night i told her of my dersires to wear a diaper. I have bought some and we have played twice. Due to other problems from online at palace i have since gotten rid of all my diapers, plastic pants bottles and pacifier.

Up front in the first place is the only way to go.

My experiences so far, have found that hiding it just because you're in a good relationship sours the relationship afterwards when you try to introduce kinkiness into it. But if you're up front about it early on, before there's a serious emotional involvement, the significant other can choose being interested or not with much less pressure. Its easier on you, its easier on her/him.

I totally agree on honesty. I came out of the closet to my wife on crossdressing and submission several years ago, and that step opened a whole new world. Also, having no secrets reduces guilt, and increases fun!

Self acceptance is the first step.

gina

Definitely. it took seven years for my wife to finally put on a diaper. i told her like 4 months into the relationship. i took it slow, she warmed up to the idea and was a champ. the only thing that took so long is she wanted to do it on a special day and she just kept forgetting and stuff.

I believe that being honest with a perspective partner up front is definately the way to go. After all you have to put up with each other so it's only fair to let them know what to expect, and thats not just for diapers that goes for any type of fetish or lifestyle in which you take part.

I agree with the fact to be honest.

it's more simple like this.

sorry i am not a native english(speaker).