Slight blood - Playing with toys

Hi. I have been into streching for the last 1-1/2 years or so. I am up to the point where I can very comfortably get fisted with an in and out motion. No pain. At all.

Last time afterward during clean up I noticed the lube was slightly pink. Blood was not running out and there was no problems afterwards. I did use a syringe to inject lube so there was lots of it. Using commons sence I know to stop if. Bleeding, but is this still at a normal and safe situation. This happened a few weeks ago and I'm ready for my next session. Hope to hear from veteran fisters. Thanks

Don't think I can advise, but I will follow this post as I am interested to train myself towards fisting. (receiving only)

I did see a small amount of red on a paper tissue, once, after playing with large toys, but never had any discomfort or real bloody situation. A sore butt yes, but if this happens I just wait till I am healed before I insert again.

You sound like a careful person when it comes to anal play and using common sense. But I would take the sign of blood as a bit of a warning sign even if it is a small amount. I think the best thing to do would be to try to find out where it is coming from. This may take a trip to the doctor.

Whenever you see blood in your anus it could be a sign of trouble. Take a look to see if you see blood in your stool- a warning sign of colon cancer. This may have nothing to do with your anal play. Peace of mind that comes from knowing what's going on is worth it.

I agree with (but don't necessarily follow) the advice from ProV1 - better safe than sorry.

That being said, I have on a couple of occasions noticed spotting of sorts after play, but only after being maybe a bit overzealous or not taking enough time. It has never persisted, only noticed during clean up and then all good.

Not that you shouldn't worry about ANY bleeding, but its the dark blood you need to really be concerned about. Bright red means its fresh and close to where you would have been playing.

I did 2 things, firstly, i went a little nuts and was craving something big so i inserted my vibrating dildo in backwards, ignoring the sharp edged plastic bit at the end, after that, though i have no idea if it did it, i had something i consider to either be hemeroids, or scraped anal tissue, i didnt touch the area until like 2-3 weeks later so i dont know. Also the anus seemed a little disfigured, again though, no idea if it was just my stressful life, or stretching and pounding with toys, i had never really gotten in there with a mirror. anywho, so now my anus has this little noodly thing inside that feels kinda like that extra bit of skin on th side of your finger nail that you pull on and it just keeps tearing up.

Ive done fine ignoring that state of things, but then i did the 2nd thing. I was eager to test out my new 62mm buttplug and so i stretched as best i could with what i had, lubed plentybut that wasnt enough, so i tried working it in and got around the widest part, but it felt rough and abrasive with how tight it was and it just wouldnt go in. also there was a bit of blood, nothing the next day, just, the immediate butt fluids contained a few drops in blood. My butthole at the time though felt wrecked.

3 weeks later i tried it again and managed to fit in inside by wiggling it sideways (to my left and right), it however again, felt a bit abrasive, it has that matte kind of texture, my lubes did not properly work at the pressure applied. Again, a bit of bleeding afterwards, and having it in there was intolerable, i figured once in it wouldnt be so bad but my body was screaming get it out, also i couldnt push it out myself which i took as my final warning that im not ready. I bought a soft-ish smool gel 52mm plug to try instead. Im excited at the idea of having the plug in overnight or during the day to stretch me out.

Anyway, present day, a month of recovery later, i tried my kong plug, i dont know the actual name it just looks like one of those dog toys called kongs, with the descendingly growing stacked ball shapes.

i find its perfect to get me going for anything since im working my way up gradually on a single toy, once its in and readily going in and out from smallest to biggest, im ready for anything in my box.

Thing is though, im experiencing bleeding now when i fully insert it, so, on the 40mm part. after a few rounds though (working the toy in all the way, taking it out for a bit, then re-stretching again) eventually it stops bleeding and i dont know what to make of this. I cant actually pinpoint where the bleeding comes from. this was the same kind of bleeding a month ago when i was testing if i was ok and deduced i should let my ass rest for a while.

So, is there an acceptable amount of blood? or should i just abstain altogether until im totally blood free? and does it matter more or less the location of the blood, like if its more inside the anus, or outside it.

It doesnt seem very threatening, but i dont have allot of experience here.

Im wondering, is it ok to ignore this bleeding

I like your question.. i hope the old hands here can give some important advice

This is just my opinion based on a lot of years of experience. Not judging (except for myself), I don't understand how we've seemed to get to an area where we forget to be gentle with ourselves. Your colon is a very tender area even though in this case, it seems that the writer of this piece might have forgotten that rule when it came to their sphincters. So much for history. Now on to how to best fix this.

My advice is to go to your doctor and have them examine that area. It sounds like you're not healing very well on your own especially when you won't give it a fair chance to heal. I know you're going to have to go through some embarrassment when you see the doctor but better be embarrassed than to end up with something that could be life threatening if left unchecked. I can sympathize with you however. When it comes to anal play, those of us who really are into it have probably all done something we shouldn't have at one time or another. Please get this checked as soon as you can.

Yes, we've all done some "questionable" things. Common sense goes a long way! For God sakes go to the Dr.! They've seen it all! If you're that embarassed tell the dr. you picked up a hot date and things got out of hand! Don't let something like this get out of hand!

I have been stuffing things in my ass for almost 40 years, stretching it to the limit. I sometimes find something to use for lube but not always. I see things as a challenge, "I wonder if I can get that to fit in there". I will usually keep trying until it finally goes in. I think this has resulted in slight tearing of my outer anal muscle and the surrounding skin. Now, I seem to have slight amounts of blood on whatever I use to get a good reaming, which is almost always something near the limit. Even if I start with something within reason, it usually winds up in a stretching/forcing to see how much I can take. Sometimes it is so my ass will be sore for a day or two afterwards.

@xdevious says :

i went a little nuts and was craving something big so i inserted my vibrating dildo in backwards, ignoring the sharp edged plastic bit at the end, after that, though i have no idea if it did it, i had something i consider to either be hemeroids, or scraped anal tissue, i didnt touch the area until like 2-3 weeks later so i dont know.

Thing is though, im experiencing bleeding now when i fully insert it

It doesnt seem very threatening, but i dont have allot of experience here.

Im wondering, is it ok to ignore this bleeding

I think you've answered your own question with the opening sentence

After two years, I wonder if the OP is still bleeding. He's never provided an update.