Menstruation fetish

To the females on this forum who admonish us males who have a menstrual fetish, are you unhappy about being a female? Do you dislike or even hate men because it's the male who made you a girl by adding an X chromosome to your mother's X one, instead of making you a male by giving you a Y?

Perhaps you should be more sympathetic and supportive of the few males who have a menstrual fetish. Unlike most men, we know more about menstruation and empathize with the uncomfortable and dysphoric aspects of your menstrual experiences. Instead of being unhappy, perhaps you should take advantage of menstruation to add to your life. I bet a male menstrual fetish guy would be delighted to do that. The upcoming menstrual time should be highlighted on a calendar, maybe kept in your bedroom, and those days celebrated together as a couple. Men could willingly and in anticipation do all sorts of special things to make his lady's period rewarding. Take her out to dinner or cook at home. Do chores you wouldn't regularly do during this time. If she benefits from enemas to relieve constipation, cramping and bloating, give her an enema daily during her period. Do massages, burn incense, and talk lovingly to her. If douching, which has been associated with menstruation, let him douche you. I know many men are turned by this procedure almost as much as using their penis. A daily douche using low pressure and not distending the vagina won't cause any real pathology, and it will help remove the bloody discharge and relieve cramping. Pubic hair can be messy during your period so let him shave you. More men like hairless or trimmed pussy over a full bush. Tampon, liners and pads - when your schedules permit, have him do the changing and cleanup. He will enjoy that and have him be in charge of buying your feminine hygiene articles. Why, I bet a heterosexual menstrual fetish husband will be happier in his marriage than being married to a woman who is secretive, embarrassed and hostile about her menstrual life. So ladies on this forum, you can't change the negatives about menstruation but you can maximize the good possibilities.

Your list of activities may be fine for women who don't mind or who like sex during their period, but for a woman who doesn't, many items on your list having to do with body parts inside their pants is nothing more than things YOU would like to do during her period.

Some women are horny, some just want to be left alone.

Furthermore, douching daily during her period is a VERY BAD IDEA.

My husband likes the whole concept of menstruation. He wants to experience the feeling of menstruation. Sometimes he is tempted to make love to me while i am on my period. Yet i do not identify with this fantasy of his.

My husband likes the whole concept of menstruation. He wants to experience the feeling of menstruation. Sometimes he is tempted to make love to me while i am on my period. Yet i do not identify with this fantasy of his.

Go ahead, fuck him on your period. 😁 There is nothing wrong with it.

It's no big deal. My husband and I do it all the time. Put a brownish towel on the bed and go for it. We have brown/rust colored "period fucking towels" for this. You'll both come out kind of bloody, but the sex is as great as any other time.

Go for it!

Switchablesusie, it says you are a Moderator but you comment as a Censor. Maybe you should delete this forum since you don't like what is posted.

Switchablesusie, it says you are a Moderator but you comment as a Censor. Maybe you should delete this forum since you don't like what is posted.

I'm not censoring you. I just disagree with portions of your post. I think you had kind thoughts about helping with housework or cooking dinner, but other ideas like shaving, douching, and enemas among a few others are just wrong for many women. Just because you THINK certain activities will make women feel better during their periods doesn't mean they will. SOME women might be convinced, but most probably will not. Furthermore, a lot of women's feelings during their periods are related to their hormones, and I seriously doubt you will be able to change that because many of those feelings are hard wired. You might just as well try to convince someone who likes chocolate ice cream that pistachio should be their favorite flavor.

You say "perhaps women should be more supportive of the men who have a menstruation fetish." That is ridiculous. You have it backwards. How about your consideration of the women who are not feeling well? Your statement about women being angry at their fathers and hating men because their father gave them an X chromosome instead of a Y chromosome is equally absurd. Some women don't want to be touched while on their period. Read the posts made by women here and you'll see. Regarding shaving your woman during her period, I doubt a woman not feeling up to par is going to want you doing that.

Women are not all from the same mold. We are all different and a woman who wants to fuck your brains out during one period may not want you within ten feet on another period. All periods are NOT necessarily the same for a woman. You should read the women's posts in this thread. There are also other threads where "period sex" or "menstrual sex" is discussed. Read what the women had to say. Some like it some don't. You wouldn't be the first person to try to change the way women feel about it.

We have brown/rust colored "period fucking towels" for this.

Hee hee! Great term.

Susie's point about an old dark towel is right on point. We always kept a burgundy towel for that purpose. Periods ended probably 20 years ago, but I think we kept the towel until we cleaned out the linen closet last year. At first she had doubts about period sex, could not imagine why any man would want to have sex while she was having her period. But after we tried it, she was fine with it. Sure, sometimes the penis comes out with a couple streaks of red, but that washes right off along with all the other fluids from both of us.

I have said in some of my posts that I was a late bloomer. My sister got all the good things such as bigger boobs and all. I remember wanting to get my period because I was so jealous of my sister. When it finally happened I was excited and told all my friends well actually hinted and they brought out the subject. They had been having periods before me. Then the cramps hit and I wasn't that excited anymore. Plus having to wear a pad because I tampons hurt and worried about leaking and showing etc. I can remember starting and thinking I had a pad and didn't. Bleeding through my shorts. I get really clingy. I don't become bitchy but I like to cuddle. I think I got that from using a heating pad and hugging a pillow. It was years before I found out that sex actually helps my cramps. At least that is in my case. So toys are my friend a lot of times unless I have a wonderful girlfriend.

I have had sex with all my women when they are on their period and they have all said that they like it. It feels better and that it easies their cramps. I am not one to shy away from a woman who is having her period.

I love menstruation.

I don't use disposable pads or tampons - they suck! I use cloth pads and silicon menstrual cups. They're great. I make cloth pads myself. I noticed when I switched from using disposable products my cramps reduced hugely.

I like sex when I'm bleeding. It's a great way to relax and release tension. I've actually even had an orgasmic period where bleeding has felt ecstatic - that was really cool! Mostly I see painful cramps as an indication that I need to rest.

Menstruation is the most amazing and magical process.

I also like free bleeding - bleeding straight onto clothes, a towel in bed, into a bath or onto the earth out alone somewhere in nature.

Three years ago, my wife insisted it was time for me to start having my periods. Simulated periods. Yes, I had been putting Maxi pads in my panties and tampons for quite a few years. Well her plans were a lot more involved. My periods were set at exactly 28 days and would last for 2.5 days. The day before my period as to start he started preparing me and what she felt I needed. Six hours before the start of my period I was given a one liter warm almost hot water enema with the help of a double balloon nozzle. Both inflated and a timer was set for 1 hour. In an hour she deflated the balloons and the tube was removed. Then when I was ready for bed the double balloon was replaced and I was given a nice warm six ounce oil enema. The minute it was in me she added she had a bulb style enema syringe connected to the tube inside me. she squeezed a bulb of air in me. After clamping the tube she got ready to give me another bulb full of air. That was done till I had a total of five bulbs of air in me. I was encouraged to stand up and walk around as I started to experience some cramping. The tube was kept in me for an hour and then removed. I was reminded not to pass any gas as I has a fare amount of oil inside me. Live with the gas like real girls must live with the starting of cramps. Another hour and I was told to go to bed In the guest room. I was forbidden to go to the bathroom till at least 5 AM. I didn’t get much sleep that night. As I told her next morning. I had held out till 5 AM. I had kind of a full day planed cutting the grass. We have just over an acre. Sitting on that lawn tractor was quite a problem. Still cramping and still oiled. The hour was uncomfortable. In at lunch time I received a very warm 3 liter of very soapy enema solution retained for ten minutes. Then I was given a bulb full of oil I was told and ordered to put a maxi pad in my panties. Be very carful passing any gas you period has really started. The oil I was told later had been colored. Four drops of red and one drop of blue. Boy it did look like blood on that maxi pad. One bulb of dyed oil lasted a day and I went through 5 pads. Next month I had a day and a half with tampons then pads.

@Carolshusband Only 2.5 days? She’s going easy on you. 😂

I grew up in a house with two sisters so periods were nothing strange to me, but as a male did find all aspects including the emotional one to be interesting. Later when I got married it was fortunately to a woman who believed that a period was a part of being female, but also really enjoyed our having menstrual sex. It was a healthy outlook and made even more so when I realized that nearly 20% of the women of child-bearing age who were not pregnant were likely menstruating.