Parents, should I tell them I'm an AB/DL?

There is really no need to tell anyone. Unless they are into some part of AB/DL then you risk a lot even with a close friend. Just ask what are you going to gain by telling someone about your desire. What if that someone doesn't approve or is offended somehow by the thought of wearing diapers and liking it. And you loose control of who knows after telling someone years later what you told may end up in your face.

Parents don't need to know your every thought. Your an individual and you have a right to a degree of respect and personal privacy.

I thought i could finally tell my husband, the person i'm supposed to spend my life with...it was one of the main things that broke us up -- he just didn't understand the need i had for the comfort of soft, wet cotton between my legs. i still loved his dick, but i had to have the diapers.

the thing i think you need to realize is that even if you only wear at home, at night, where you think it's safe...the people that know will always see you in diapers, whether

you are wearing or not!

Wow Sally, that's to bad that you think your wearing diapers was one of the things that lead to your break up. I guess being a diaper lover and wearer myself, I can't see why it would be a problem for him??? Even if he didn't want to partake in the practice. But' I guess I'm on the inside looking out, and can't see where it would be a problem. Well different strokes, I like ice-cream and think it's great, but I guess I can't expect everyone to like it.

Luvs It.

You need to be really sure that you want to share your secret with your inner circle (parents, friends, teacher, nurse) who ever it is because like may have said they may not be so accepting.

Besides you have already told someone! In fact you have told a bunch of people.... You told all of us! Your luck here we don't judge you. The real world is a cruel hard place. If you still feel the need to tell some one make a postcard and send it to postsecret.

As a parent who likes to wear diapers I would probably take it better than most parents. Depending on your age I would ask questions like Why do you want to wear diapers? Is it a comfort and security thing? or is it a sexual thing? If you are older like in your late teens I would probably tell you that if you can afford the habit then you can wear them and I would be ok with that. If you were younger I would want to know why you want to wear diapers, do you want to use them or just wear them.

I don't think I would flip out and make you wear them as a form of punishment but again that is because I like to wear them.

So good luck with what ever you decide to do but make sure you are making the right decision for you!

Ok here is a good way. First take two 2-3 weeks preparing. maybe wet the bed once or twice but dont let them no. wash your sheets like 6 times. Make a couple makeshift diapers. pee in thoses dont mess. then one day tell most trusted parent. Be like "Mom i have been wetting my bed for like 2 weeks now. i do it like 9 times in the last week. Thats why i have been washing my sheets and i ever tryied to make diapers but they just leak. then say i have been researching and they say its just a phase from streess and i should wear diapers because plastic sheets are really uncoftable. and we might need plastic pants just in case." I thikn thats the way to tell her.

Tips: Make sure you actully research cause she might do some.

: Pick out a brand and be very nollaged about it.

: Tell her to try to keep it a secret makes it more beliveable

: For the first few weeks Wet the diapers either before bed or after just make sure she nows you did or think you did during bed .

: MAke sure you in the car or all alone in the same house like say mom lets go to wall mart and tell her on the way

Hi kiddes!!!! I was wondering if anyones parents knew or thought they knew about your diapers? I think my mom used to know when i lived at home she knows i wore them for incontinence but this was before that. I used to hide them in my room and one day they were moved slightly but moved enough i knew someone moved it. she never said a word to me but i think she knew.

You probably wanted her to know -- when did you start wearing

on your own?

I know my mom knew-- Hell she kept me in them until I was

6-- almost sent me to school in diapers-- didn't say much

but kept coming in to my room in the morning and ripping the

covers off-- thank- god she never actually caught me--

I dont recall the age ithinki was about 14 or 15. I used to steal them from my aunts when they visited with my young cousins. I was one of the oldest as far as cousins go hahahhaha if they only knew i was younger then them LOL.

My mother knows, I haven't seen or spoken to my father in over 4 years and I know he doesn't know, if my mother knows its likely my younger brother does as well, though neither have said anything, its very likely neither cares. I live on my own and my younger brother is in college so its not like its a part of any one else's lives.

I have to say yes and no. My mother knows i wear them but she is under the belief that i wet the bed (i told her i wet the bed so i can get away with wearing them). However she does not know about my DL side so she is unaware that i like them and like wearing them often

Well thats pretty brave to even say that much but if its workin keep it up!!! I would never lie about this to anyone in my family if i was asked. But like i said i was incontinent and they knew anyway so it was no big deal shit happens no pun intended. But i like to think more parents know then we think its just they either are ok with it or they are to embaressed to ask anything about it. I think my mom was to embaressed to say anything thats all. kinda wiierd she seems to never be short on words when it comes to my decisions in life LMAO!!!!

Nobody knows, the diapers I've seen(like the song, nobody knows the trouble I've seen) I'm pretty sure not even my mother ever knew when I was growing up. She came close to catching me a few times, but I don't think she ever caught on. If she was hip, she never said anything. And I think I would have gotten some innuendos given to me growing up if she knew something. Everybody was kinda shocked when I said I use to smoke grass, that secret never seemed to have been discovered either. And I was not nearly as careful with keeping that a secret.

Now luvs that would have been the golden diaper award for most embaressing way to get caught ,if it happend!!! picture this, Here is lluvs at 1 in the mornin at the kitchen table eating something and havina drink from his bottle. Your mom comes down stairs and sees her wittle boy sittin there with a bib on and baby bottle becuase your stoned ass didnt think you were gonna wake anyone!!! Your mom says to you " Hows mommies wittle boy all nice and fed"? And your dumb ass forgets your wearing adiaper thats wet by the way, and you say "ohh mommie your here i didnt mean to wake you! Im sorry ill go to bed the whole time forgetting your in a diaper and bib and waddle your ass upsatirs where your mom comes in and tucks you in and says she will see you tomorow, night night and your stoned ass thinks your scott free !!!!!!!!

KIDS... DONT DO DRUGS!!!! BUT IF YOU ARE SHARE WITH US PLEASE LOL. Actualy sounds klinda fun lol.

Yes when I started to wet the bed again My mom saw the wet bed and asked why it was wet I told her I fell off my bike she did not get mad just went out and got me some cloth diapers w plastic pants I was happy

Mom found a pinned-up diaper in a common drawer in my bedroom when I was about 7YO. She asked who had put it there, but nobody owned up to it. I'm pretty sure she knew it was me, though, as it was in the "boys" room, and it wouldn't have fit my older brother.

I got caught stashing my plastic pants (Gerber's Toddler Large size) in my hiding spot when I was a young teen. The pants were displayed for all to see, but nothing was ever said about them, but certainly my folks knew about my fetish.

Since I've grown I've become medically incontinent, and Mom is fully aware of my need for diapers now. She doesn't mention it though.

Binkey

Everyone in my family know about my diapers, but since it part of my disability nobody say anything about it. The person I'm most open with about it is my older sister. She is a wound care, ostomy and incontinence specialist nurse. I'm a trauma and traige nurse, so we do kind of work together. My parent will buy me diapers from time to time and get me material so I can make cloth diapers, so that nice of them. 😃

Not that I know of, but sometimes I get the feeling somebody in my house knows. I've been less discreet about my diaper wearing as time goes on, so I'm bound to be caught eventually, if I didn't already.

Then again, if my mother knew I can't imagine her having such an extreme reaction. She's a cool person, and doesn't really bother with the personal quirks of her sons. She'd be curious, I'm sure, but ultimately if I needed to justify it I wouldn't have any trouble doing so. Either that, or I'd immediately go to the bedwetting excuse. I mean, I do wet the bed, but not nearly as often as I'd claim.

If you're talking about telling your parents to get you your diapers, I think you can find ways to do that yourself. If you live near a drug-store, like, where I lived when I was younger there was a CVS outside of my development. A couple times I rode there on my bike and picked up diapers for myself. If you're worried about what the people at the counter think, hey! It's none of their business and shouldn't give you a problem.

Now, if you're telling them you have an attraction to diapers because the fact that they don't know is kind of making it hard for you to function your life right, then tell them. No matter what they think, they'll always love you and be there for you, and they'll just have to deal with your fetish.

I hope that helped

- YoungDL44

Dont because if your parents are like the other parents they will have you talking to a shrink because there going to think your crazy. Thats just my opinion.

Yes when I moved out my parents helped me so mom has a key I started to wet the bed and one day mom came over to clean up a bit and found a wet bed and depends and plastic pants in my bed room when she asked why I told her I fell off my bike and started to wet she gor me cloth diapers and plastic pants a week latter been in then sence

I really did not have too mom came over one day i was at work and saw my diapers wet bed and when I got home from work she asked why I told her I fell off my bike and started to wet she has a friend that that happen to her son so she bleved me and within a week she got me clothpin on diapers and a few pares of plastic pants

I almost broke it to my mother when I was in the hospital last week. Because I wanted to wear the hospital diapers, I was planning on telling the nurse I'm a bedwetter (which isn't far removed from the truth, actually). So I told my mom I'm an occasional bedwetter, hopefully to catch the ear of the nurse. So even if I did tell her it wouldn't come as so much of a surprise.

Just pee once or twice. it will come from your parents. they will ask you to use a diaper for bed.

Actually, they do kind of know. I got caught a couple of times when I lived at home. They've never mentioned it though...much too uncomfortable to I think.

Now that I say it, maybe the fact that it was never mentioned means they're cooler about it than I thought.

My mom found out when She found my brothers' and my sister's plastic pants under my bed or my pillow. She called me a disgusting baby and wanted to know what I doing with them. I guess the smell of pee gave them away. Anyway she would wave them in my face and with a sneer she'd riiiiipppp them by the leg bands or she'd make put them on then she'd spank me really good and she grab the leg bands and pull them till they snapped and riiiippppp them off me. I've never forgiven her for that and have never been close since.

All I did was wet the bed a couple nights in a row, my mom was upset due to the fact that I had not wet the bed in almost 5 years. She then said if it happened one more time that she would put me in diapers at night(she thought that was punishment) That night i wet the bed again and she followed through on her promise. For reasons unknown to her this didn't stop me from wetting and she still diapers me before bed every night. I think she is worried cuz I just graduated high school and she doesn't know how I will be able to wear diapers at college, but it excites me. Hopefully I can find some friends at school who have the same taste as me.

Friend,

You may not be able to convince them that is ok, hopefully you will be able to atleast have them "look over it" or have it be something they just don't think about.

You have to understand that your parents have aspirations for you and part of parenthood is dreaming and hoping and working your best to see your children become who you'd like them to be. It isn't becuase they are selfish, it is becuase they can't help valuing the things they do, so they can't help hoping you become something great in life, whatever their values are. Them pressing their own values on you isn't really a way to control you, its more them just being who they really are becuase you can't easily change your values you know? And they want the best for you... they can't really change what it is they value.

They want you to be strong, virtuous, noble, competent, have a family of your own one day... and to some people the diaper fetish is alot like homosexuality, most of the world hasn't been exposed to or cultured to the diaper fetish the way you have.

Your parent's are acting out of anger, but it can be its just because they are afraid you wont do great things in life you know? You can't really just come out with things like "Hi, i love diapers" most people don't even know what a diaperlover is, just that babies wear diapers and adults don't....

They can't help getting a little shocked and wonder what happened to their child and try to get you some help...

Just understand them and hopefully find a way to let it be something you simply don't discuss. They could possibly come to an open relationship with you where they accept it, but the world hasn't accepted us yet, it scares your parents too.

My parents HATE the fact that I'm AB/DL. My mom almost had a coronary when she found me in my baby pajamas holding my teddy bear and sucking on my thumb. She's since accepted the fact that I love to act like a baby, especially when she found out that I like to wet my bed. But my dad disowned me when he found out I like to pee and poop in my pants.

See, I'm forty years old and I'm supposed to act like a man,but I'm just a toddler in a grown mans body { I'm 2 and a half } and I don't ever want to grow up.

babyalex

My parents know I'm AB and are pretty supportive, my friends know and a number of people I talked to in highschool now know. I'm not sure if my grandma knows but she is prolly catching on if she doesn't. Or at least she will catch on but I'll prolly have my parents tell her before things get crazy.

I have my own apt with my boy friend but my parents know we both wear diapers mom is ok with it dad is a dad