Facesitting?

Hi everyone,

My boyfriend has asked me if he could sit on my face and have me rim him. I was a little taken aback - he loves rimming me, but has never before mentioned the other way round. It's not something I've ever done or even really considered, but as he's always so thoughtful and willing to please me I don't want to let him down. I'm not sure if it's a cleanliness thing, or being worried about weight (I'm a lot smaller than he is!). How should I approach it? I'm willing to try it, just unsure how.

Fiona x

I'm not sure how much advice can bring, always having been the "rimmer" and never the "rimee", however it's usually best to talk to your partner about your concerns. I can tell you I've never had issues with cleanliness with my spouse and have always enjoyed pleasing her this way. As far as weight issues, perhaps a fluffy pillow under your head and agree with him on a safety signal if you feel you're having trouble. Perhaps a frantic slap to testicles. That might move him to err on the side of caution.

David 😃

I rim my wife of 30+ years on a regular basis. She has always a little diffident about anything anal, so I have tried to read the body language when I rim her, and she's sending pleasure signals. She has begun rimming me as a regular part of our fun and games. You might offer the rimming in a way in which you are initially able to control motion and weight distribution, and progress from there as appropriate. Sportslover

Thank you for the advice! I think I'll definitely talk to him about the weight distribution. I'm sure he'll be clean, but he specifically asked to sit on me: I think I'll suggest trying it with him on all fours first and me behind him and see how we go. x

That oughta work, Fiona.. Good luck and I hope you have fun. I have no doubt he will 😃

Fiona get him on all fours but you get under him then let him move back and down so you can get access to him. That will work I do it all the time.

Hi, here is my input on this. try thinking outside the box by putting your self in a box, a smother box. it will work great and you will not have to worry about his weight issues at all. If he is good with his hands and tools he can make one just under $50.00. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facesitting. Also you can order some really nicely made ones from here: http://thekinkypixie.com/smotherbox.html. I my self was able to make one in just four hours, and we take turns getting in the box. It's make for a lot of fun in the bedroom you both just have to be open minded and willing to try new things.