I'm not sure about soap for my first "remembered" enema I've told this before except as soap is concerned, I don't think I ever got soapy water. First in the hospital for tonsillectomy and getting my first remembered enema from a nurse who brought in a cart with a white can, red hose, black nozzle at 5 years old and the boy in the other bed said "looks like one of is going to get an enema".
Never heard that word before, and after asking him what that was, I remember him not believing that I never heard of an enema. Nurse put the hose on the can, went to the sink, after running water put some water in the can, I don't remember her adding anything else, so it must have been just water but if she added soap I didn't see it.
She hung the can on a pole on my bed, moved a screen between our beds, helped me roll onto my side but when she tried to put the nozzle in my butt I FREAKED then OK this isn't bad..... it feels like when mom takes my temperature. Then CLICK! feels warm, feels good for a while, then OK, that's enough, I gotta go! The enema didn't stop until I heard a gurgle, now I REALLY had to go! She put me on the bed pan, no way I was going to hold anything, it's coming out and right now!
The boy in the other bed got the same treatment, and when I got home I told Tess (2 years older sister) about what happened, she told me "so you got an enema, mom gave us enemas with the red squeeze thing when we were little, and I saw her do it to you too, but mom uses the one with the hose on me now.
So now when mom or our grandmother gave us enemas it was always plain warm water, the hospital enema, I'll never know. I did try a very milky
Ivory soap enema a couple of times about a year ago but I never felt anything different than plain water.
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