I am going on about 4 months now of 24/7 disposables. Using Molicare now (took a while to find a good place and price). I've learned a lot. The first month I almost quit but I kept using them for both #1 and #2 - and my period.
Now I am still 24/7 although I do cheat a bit and use the toilet for some of my #2 (probably every other time on average).
Here is what I have learned as a woman doing this:
There is almost no diaper that I cannot hide under my clothes. I am fairly curvy and so these just enhance or get hidden by my curves. I can wear jeans, dresses, skirts, whatever - as long as it's not see-through and as long as my jeans are high-waisted or covered with a shirt.
I have always used large overnight type pads for my period - even on light days - just to feel safe and so moving to a diaper was not that big of a deal in terms of getting used to it - although it does get hot sometimes.
Most of my pee goes up my backside when sitting or standing - which allows for the back of my wet diaper to ride up a bit between my buttocks - which is something you just get used to.
As a woman you need to powder and wash and dry thoroughly a lot. I also put a bit of perfume on my diaper just for good measure.
Some interesting situations for me during these past 4 months include:
- Standing in the bathroom at my moms at Thanksgiving pooping a large BM and then returning to the table to finish dessert (yikes!)
- Discovering my dental hygienist also uses diapers during her work day (I peed in the chair and she heard it a little bit - since she knows what it sounds like and was sitting near my waist - and then got me on the way out and said "you too?" and peeled the waist of her pants down and I saw her diaper. She asked me if it was by choice or incontinence and what diaper I used).
- Learning the a wet diaper can fold between my labia and get me a few thrills if I want.
Some things I have not done yet:
- Told anyone other than the one girlfriend who got me started when we went the carnival (she is wearing them more often for pee by not 24/7)
- Gone swimming in them or let anyone see them
- Told any of my dates... although one of these days it's going to have to happen - because I need to get laid pretty soon!