Anal after ejaculation

It always varies with me. There are times when I lose my erection when receiving anal, which I usually get back. Other times I stay rock hard. I like to cum with him in me because I love throbbing around his hard penis. I usually start to lose my erection but I want him to cum also. This is usually enough to turn me back on as he pumps me, specially if he plays with my cock and balls.

If you are being penetrated by a partner- a woman with a strap-on or by a man, then it does seem important for the bottom guy to time his orgasm given once he does cum, he will probably want the penetration to his ass to end.

I have noticed in M2M porn, the guy being fucked will usually cum after the guy who is fucking him in the ass by jacking himself off. As I mentioned in an earlier post, once a man starts his orgasm his ass goes from relaxed and somewhat open to contracted when his orgasm starts and each spurt causes the sphincter to contract. At this point, having a dick, dildo or anything in your ass will be less pleasurable.

At this point, having a dick, dildo or anything in your ass will be less pleasurable.

As you said, the sphincter contracts somewhat, but also relaxes again quickly. If you can stand the stimulation overdose from being fucked in your butt after the orgasm (more so after an anally induced one) then it is all stars and flashes and shivers and shaking and hyperventilating and moaning and uncontrollable spasms and it is just the end of the world as the mind blanks out again... Of course a sensible partner, one who "reads" you and knows you well and doses the amount of stimulation just right, is paramount in such delicate but exquisite moments!

... If you can stand the stimulation overdose from being fucked in your butt after the orgasm ...

Great point. It really is a stimulus overload to the point of being almost painful but if you are practiced at it then that part of the orgasm I guess could be fantastic. Sounds like it is worth trying.

After ejaculation, whether via sex, anal stimulation, masturbation, etc., I'm done for at least an hour. Sometimes I even have extreme feelings of guilt/regret directly after ejaculation.

I feel like the most men who've posted here, my desires just fade after I ejaculate and don't want anything sexual be it on the receiving to giving end. The worst thing was it lasted for even a week sometimes. In particular, I wanted to eat my cum so badly but right after I ejaculate I got almost disgusted even by the idea of it.

BUT recently I figured out a way to overcome it by chance. I was stroking myself one day and stopped touching right before I cum (I usually do it to stop cummin and to prolong to session). That day I guess I was late a split second and I ejaculated. I was obviously not ready for ejaculation and did not want to mess carpet and sofa so the quickest thing I could find to collect semen was my palm. That was the moment that I realized I still want to eat it and licked my palm till it was completely clean. Yes MY URGES DID NOT GO AWAY when I stopped touching my cock right before I ejaculate.

Tried it since then and yes, I lose almost nothing in my desires If I ejaculate not touching/stroking my cock. Later I learned that its called "ruined orgasm" (here from a member). It is not as intense as a regular orgasm but still very good. I finish masturbating with a ruined orgasm since then and not wasted even a single drop of my cum.

Usually after I come I'm done and want nothing in my ass. There have been a few times I've kept going but usually I take whatever is in there out right away.

I'm different, I don't even touch my cock. I want to focus totally on what's happening in my butt.

The refractory period is painful. For me, it's just a matter of don't cum and enjoy ¡ 🙄