Enemas and Erections

Mashie: I believe soft vs hard is mostly related to heart etc. issues. I cannot get a good erection when I'm tired, and alcohol is also bad for it.

Sometimes I've had boners that I don't understand - like one when driving with my wife without anything specially sexy, I had the impression it was going to burst out of my pants, and it actually was slightly painful due to the briefs and pants.

Also, there are some things that kill my erection - including real pain (I'm not talking of play pain like in spanking) in the partner, thinking of un-exciting things like having to call my mom on the phone, etc.

Pecan I have not heard the expression "boners" or "boner" used in a long time. It made me laugh out loud for real. Thanks for that. You are so funny. Also, thanks for being so open and honest about erections. I wouldn't say I have penis envy really, but they do fascinate the hell out of me. I'm sure our vagina's do the same for you.

Mashie

I can only speak for myself here, but if for some reason I go slightly too long without an orgasm (say, 4 days or more), I find that an erection can be 'uncomfortable' bordering on painful, and it is a big relief when my wife takes care of it.

The discomfort is felt not so much in the penis, but mainly in the scrotum. I'm not sure if this is common among males, as male conversation is usually very limited about such things.

So DrZ is that the same thing as "blue balls" for you guys? The pain in your scrotum is it like a tight sort of feeling or a burning, throbbing, how does it feel?

This is so interesting to me boys, thanks for being open and candid about it.

Mashie

Mashie, yes I think it is what is referred to as 'blue balls'.

To be more precise, the 'discomfort' I mention is a kind of dull ache in the scrotum. It can be there even without me having an erection, but having a sustained erection can bring it on if I have been a while without ejaculating. My wife and I usually make love at least once a day, so it's rare now that I experience it.

Thinking back to one time when I was 19, and it had been 5 days since I had seen my then girlfriend. The discomfort then was the worst I can remember ever having, and it was pure ecstasy when she gave me that much needed release! 😄

I don't know exactly what "blue balls" are but I know that

- if I ejaculate often, then I feel some pain in the scrotum (plus, repeated masturbation is irritating, especially with direct contact on the glans... vaginal intercourse less so)

- if I don't ejaculate for a while, then I start having weird feelings near the prostate (maybe it's filled?) and I ejaculate much more easily

Pecan, It's very interesting that your 'problems' are different to mine!

There is obviously some variation between individual men and how frequency of ejaculation (or lack of it) affects them.

I have. But since I do enemas almost everyday, it's no different than if I was going to take a normal movement. However, if I decide to sexualize them, then it's a full mast.

I don't ever give Myslef enemas but if I did I would b hard as a rock

Only if the enema is sexual.

Mashie and others,

I had several cases of blue balls in college before I started having intercourse and orgasms. It was the classic very painful ache in the balls after having had pretty intense kissing, laying together, and possibly genital rubbing through clothes for one to several hours but without masturbation to relieve the sexual tension. It was so painful it even made me walk very carefully after leaving my girl's dorm room going back to mine so I didn't unnecessarily jostle my scrotum until the pain subsided. Having an orgasm right away after being alone would make it immediately improve, but often not completely resolve it which would happen more slowly in the next hour or two.

I've never had or heard of what DrZ recounts, which seems to be a scrotal or testicular pain without prolonged intense stimulation after a few days, but it could certainly be a variant producing a similar syndrome, since there's such a wide degree of biological variability in so many things. I'm just glad my episodes were limited to a brief period in college before I was willing to engage in mutual masturbation and intercourse to orgasm. It was not fun.

Eric

Erections were the reason I started giving my self enemas.

I was getting a standard type enema from mom. (I don't remember how old I was--to long ago.

around 10 I say) me long facedown over a bench with my bluejeans and underwear around

my ankles. Mom using a black bulb with small nozzle. Squeezing the bulb--me moving my butt.

Mom would say quit moving. Two bulbs full which was standard. the nozzle come out. Mom tells

me to get up. She leaves with the equipment. I get up and I have a "hard-on" which felt good.

Imagine sitting on the toilet relieving oneself with a hard on.

This happened again a month or so later when I got another enema. Another erection.

So eventually I put 2+ 2 together enemas = erections. So it a long story to tell on

my first time giving it to myself using the bulb. Save for another time,

However, when I was giving it to myself, I always have an erection. Mainly what I did was lock myself

in our bathroom (while taking a bath) get out the bulb. Fill up the bulb with lukewarm water and grease the nozzle

with Vaseline. lay a towel on the floor. Get naked and lay on my stomach on the towel. Take the bulb

and reach back with one hand and insert the nozzle. It was quite easy. Used both

hands to squeeze the bulb. Quite easy. Close my legs together letting the bulb hang from my butt.

Masturbated. when finished got up and relieved myself always had an erection

When I was in High school, mom bought an enema bag because my older sister didn't like mom

giving her enemas anymore. So mom let her do it to herself (under her supervision)

I don't know the details since sis and mom was in the locked bathroom and later I

saw the empty bag hanging to dry.

Mom used it once on me but I didn't like it. (no feeling) not like the sudden burst when

the bulb is squeezed. But a couple of times I used it on myself (behind locked door)

Hang the bag from towel rack, Lay naked on floor. Masturbated while the water was flowing into

me. Still had an erection. I still got mom to give

me enemas using the bulb.

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In males, generally, and younger males especially, erections CAN and DO occur in situations that are not sexual.

Often just a sudden change in blood flow in that area of the body can trigger it.

My husband has actually said, " When I was 16, 17, 18, the thing seemed to have a mind of it's own.

From The Poetry Foundation: "Man with a erection lasting more than 4 hours"

http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poetrymagazine/poem/236994

I always get a hard one when something goes up my ass its amazing

All boys get erect when getting an enema I know my Brother did. I don't know if its the same with men because I have never given a guy an enema before.

Kid, if you'd like to give an enema to an adult male, I VOLUNTEER! They make me rock hard. At age 12 my mom gave me the last bag enema, then allowed me to self-administer. She got embarrassed by my rock hard erection and full pubic hair. I quickly learned that my technique was way better than hers. I drained the air from the hose, put cold crème o the nozzle, hung the bag lower than she did and when cramps started, I'd pinch the hos e to slow down the flow. I also put cold crème on Mr. Happy and had grand mal orgasms during the enema. I couldn't wait for her to tell me I needed another enema then. I'd even fake GI problems to get her OK to take another one.

Well Jimmyt I know what really was the cold cream, that hot sensation plus the warm enema added to it.

When I started with solo enemas as a subtee - always got hard. In adulthood when my wife gave them to me still got harf. Now in advanced age erections come and go through the process. Still have great orgasms from masturbation when filled.

I did not often get enemas, when I got them I didn't get hard until my tummy got massaged right above my penis & had to lay on my back. Sometimes when I got the enema I had to be on all fours and after getting it my uncle let the nozzle in and checked my testicles, then I definitely got hard

For me, as ever, there's a contextual difference. When I take enemas to relieve constipation, no erection at all. I just want results. In a more neutral/functional case, like cleaning up before play, it usually depends on if I'm hurrying or if I have time to think about what's ahead. Of course, when the enema is the play, then the whole experience is sexualized and I might as well have a full-body erection.

From what I've read and can recall, blue balls happen when the epididymis (a long, coiled cord attached to each ball) gets the "orgasm is close" signal and starts pushing sperm up through the vas deferens towards the prostate. At the same time, the seminal vesicles are producing their semen component (most of the volume of an ejaculate), also in anticipation of an orgasm. if that orgasm doesn't happen, all that fluid is now stuck in places that don't normally store fluid, and it starts to back up. Backup in your seminal vesicles gets felt as prostate pressure, and backup in your epididymis causes that blue balls feeling. An orgasm soon after will release the pressure, but the tenderness from the swelling takes longer to subside.

That "too hard" feeling comes from either the inflow to the penis being dilated more than normal, or the outflow being more constricted than normal. This can be caused by a nigh-unlimited set of factors -- physical, mental, hormonal, emotional -- and they're all interlinked. The upshot is that a bigger/stronger/tighter erection is usually a byproduct of great arousal coupled with physical well being, and it's a good problem to have (for fewer than four hours). The converse, that no erection means no arousal, is not necessarily true, because again there are many factors going in to an erection and being turned on is only one.

Don't mind me, medical books were the closest thing I could get to porn for most of my teenage years.

It IS worth pointing out that in males generally and younger males particularly, Erection does not ALWAYS come from real sexual arousal.

It CAN be just sudden changes in blood flow. We know enemas cause exactly that, a sudden change in blood flow. My husband even told me once. ."That's the difference between a teenager and a grown man, In a teenager, that thing seems to have a mind of it's own !!

Every time I have an enema, I get a super erection. It starts knowing what's coming. Then preparation of the bag, insertion of nozzle and injecting the solution. Junior is at attention the whole time. Even during expulsion, he's hard. I'm getting hard sitting here thinking about my next enema.

E42 ditto.

No, I don't. Occasionally some slight tumescence, but not even half-hard. I think I could if I would mentally let myself, but haven't got there yet. For some reason it's more comfortable for me to keep the "semi-medical" enemas (and pelvic floor massage, which requires anal penetration) separate from the sexual, but I'm not completely sure why and I'm a little frustrated as it sounds like a prime opportunity and excuse to have some butt-fun (which I do like under other circumstances).

The enema has always given me an erection from age 8. Several guys my age report blood pressure medication effects the quality of erection. I'm a victim of that at times, but with an enema bag and a partner I'm still producing good results. Try me!!

I always get an erection before and during an enema. Recently, since I have been receiving coffee enemas from my wife, I get an erection when we walk down the coffee isle of the supermarket. Just the smell of fresh ground coffee will produce an erection.

With age, a good erection is harder to achieve despite the stimulation. As a kid, a stiffy was almost guaranteed when the enema can came into view. Luckily, Mom id not mention she could clearly see, especially when she had me with legs spread.

For recreational enemas, which are now all of mine, I get a nice erection. As a boy, getting them from mom, I had an erection from about 11 onward.

Jim

I started getting erections during enemas as a boy. Still do. It part of the enjoyment.