Is it weird to be a straight male and enjoy enemas?

If it feels good to you then why question it, just do it.

As debgurl says in post #21,"Nerve endings know no sexual orientation." 'About sums it up. Women have vagina's and men have penises but both both have a rectum, "rosebud," ass whatever you want to say. "Sexually" I have to say I am only and always have been turned on by the delights of the female form, "and," I still like enemas! Enemas are for want of a better word, gender neutral, they can be enjoyed by both sexes!! Look around, we are not alone!

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highwater

Don't over think it. As long as you are feeling good and you enjoy it, then go with it and have a little fun. It's only weird if you keep thinking about it being weird. There's plenty of good reasons to enjoy a good enema session with whomever.

I am 100 % heterosexual when it comes to sex but have enjoyed getting enemas from both men and women. As youth I would be sexually excited but did not get hard while receiving. As an adult I got immediately hard when ever I was told I was getting an enema for any reason from anybody., One of the biggest turn on I get from females only is when she tells me she needs an enema.

From these experiences I tend to believe it is not the gender but the two people sharing the experience .

My wife and I like them for different reasons.

I never thought about being queer. My enema experiences started before I can remember. Back then ice cream was a rare treat. Now a loving enema is as comfort food i hope for, but don't expect. So when it is served, we both have a good time. Just as anyone can drive a car or ride a motorcycle and not really be a car or bike fan. We just like doing something different and enemas fill that real good.

Being anal erotic does not mean your gay. I'm straight, but had many enemas as a kid and somehow came to associate them with sex before I knew what sex was.

Second highest concentration of nerve ending are in the rectal area, so why wouldn't it feel good? Does not matter what sex you are.

Hell no. I'm straight as can be (but I'm not homophobic), and I love the hell out of enemas. But as for me, I have no interest in enema play with another male. I have a good gay male friend, but enemas or anything sexual is not part of our friendship. Enemas with a female? Sure. You bet!

Sure it is. But we're klismo's and that's just the way we're wired. It's our little secret and that's why all of us weirdos are here. Relax and enjoy.

Anal does not equal Gay. So no.

Gay is when someone is attracted to the same sex... it has nothing to do with anal sex, enemas, etc. I really wish this stigma would go away.

Sexuality orientation is a spectrum, ranging from super straight to all-in gay. Most people only identify at one of those extremes, but many are more open about things. It's possible to be 99% one way with just a touch of the other orientation. And of course, there are those who are almost 50/50. Whatever you are is fine.

North:star i totally agree re: stigma. I honestly think it's a bit of a Western thing. Nonetheless this thread has reassured me a great deal. Thanks again.

No.

I'm also straight, BUT having said that, I AM NOT Homophobic. It is difficult to find a good enema partner. I was a little weirded out the first time, but since have learned to accept the fact there is nothing wrong with receiving an enema from a guy. my butt doesn't know the difference! I just know that if feels good! Let go a little and live. You don't know what you might be missing out on until you lighten up and give it a try.

Straight, myself. I had one most unwelcome male/male encounter after I passed out drunk in my student days. After the first feeling s utter violation had passed, I was able to admit to myself that while being kissed by a man was very nasty, the feeling of his cock in my bum was not. So, yes, I'm weird, if being anally erotic is weird to the world. But I suspect the world is not being honest with itself.

I've been happily married for more than 50 years and my wife will not come anywhere near an enema, but tolerates mine - especially as they seem to have an enhancing effect on my lovemaking ability afterwards. And when you're in the eighth decade of life, that is worth a thought or two!

And I have realised that I am the only person who can be perfectly and fully me; so it would be silly to try and live someone else's dream, wouldn't it. Bring on the next large enema - tonight!!

Johnny

As often mentioned, enjoyment of enemas or anal play is a personal choice, and not based on any form of sexual orientation. I have several friends whom are gay, and show no inclination to either enema or anal sex.

I am a straight male who got enemas when growing up, but then was reintroduced to them out of necessity by my wife. Since then we have used an occasional enema as a part of our foreplay. It might sound kinky at first, but we have been doing this for years and it does not seem to get old.

Not at all. I'm a completely 100% straight male, and I just happen to thoroughly enjoy anal stimulation and everything about enemas. Just because I enjoy enemas doesn't mean that I have any inclination towards being gay, nor do I have any interest in a gay experience. I'm not a homophobe in the least.....but the gay lifestyle is simply not the way I am wired. Yes, I have gay friends, and that's fine with me.

This is a great thread and once again proves how different we all are in Zity. While many of the responses were similar there was also enormous diversity. What did come through very strongly from the straight men and women was their understanding, tolerance and respect for gay and bi folk. What a great community of kinksters we are!

This thread is very similar to other threads that have men asking is OK to enjoy anal eroticism be it with enemas or something inserted in the asses.

And the answer is of course it is and you are not weird. You should not fear that this is some slippery slope to a change in your sexual orientation. It is NOT.

It is simply you enjoying your anatomy where there are lots of very powerful sensations taking place in your anus and prostate areas. Don't be fearful of embracing your sexuality wherever it takes you.

Judging from the large number of enemas I've given and received from straight men, I'd have to conclude that enemas and anal play can be as much of a guy-guy thing as it was with some of them, and me as boys. The element of dominance and submission roles is common to many male-male games and interaction. It can become a very exciting one when the bottom manages to " turn the table" on the top in enema and anal play. One of the benefits of straight, bi or gay guys interacting with each other this way is that it is devoid to romantic complications and is enjoyable for the uncomplicated pleasures derived from them. Men can be affectionate with each other without being sexually interested (don't athletes pat each other's asses affectionately?). Most of my straight friends are even more affectionate than those who are gay. Men sharing enemas and anal play with each other is the best contact sports I know of.

That's a wonderful way to put it. I do the same thing, and enjoy life.

I don't think enemas have anything to do with gay/straight. I think they're enjoyed by all. Perhaps in different proportions. I am definitely heterosexual but enjoying enemas has made be question that as well. Here's why I say I am definitely heterosexual: Although I enjoy enemas, I am attracted to woman and am not attracted to men. Liking enemas or not liking enemas doesn't dictate your sexual orientation.

As far as liking enemas being weird, that's a result of social norms. I don't see the social norms concerning enemas changing anytime soon, but think about the cultural norms surrounding masterbation, oral sex, anal sex and of course the social norms regarding homosexuals. So long as enemas don't interfere with your life or anyone else's life around you, don't worry and just enjoy!

I don't think so. I am straight and a male and I enjoy enemas all the time.

I have been having enemas since before I got married the second time and that is over 40 years, before that, I enjoyed enemas while married to my first wife. She decided she would rather fuck a policeman she worked with than me, so we went our seperate ways.

I have enjoyed enemas for more than 50 years. In fact, if I could do it, I would have an enema every day.

I don't think so. One of the most exciting things that has happened to me is being forced to take a large enema by a lady who then sits on my erection and rides me until I explode.

I don't think it is one bit weird for heterosexual males to like enemas. It is a whole world of sensation even beyond anal play. I am not one bit gay (although I am totally tolerant and understanding of it) and I've loved enemas since before I reached puberty. All aspects of them are erotic and combined with actual intercourse it is dynamite. The tension and potential embarrassment makes the feelings exquisite.

I'm with liquidsky, not one bit weird. And as one can plainly see reading the threads on this board, there are a lot of guys into enemas. Some like me do solo because we have a mate who isn't into it. Others like the OP have a mate with whom they share the enjoyment.

Another aspect is the pressure an enema can exert on a guys prostate. That can be very pleasurable and may account for why so many guys get erections at the mere thought of enemas.

Embrace it, enjoy it, and thank your lucky stars you've got a girlfriend who shares your fun.

I don't think or even consider it as weird...something one can enjoy for whatever reasons...irrespective of what some may characterise as the ewww yuk factor or somehow psychologically maladjusted, just because it may represent straying outside a socially acceptable "norm".....l can think of far more detrimental practices that go way beyond "norm".

Sometimes some place far to much emphasis on what is right or wrong without considering that as informed adults we have every right to "enjoy" without being cast as weird or uniformly judged because education does not make allowances for such differences...Different that it may be in liking, but no worse than other sexually based practices that our advertising mediums stoically proclaim to be "normal"....I've learnt over the years to not always take things as black n white so to speak..

In high school boys gave boys enemas, pretending they were fucking girls in our mind, as we were too backward to approach girls properly (thank goodness for them, cause we might have hurt one, maybe. I was still somewhat afraid of the dark, even. I have one lady I enjoy, and if she is not game, I do myself with 2 quarts when I can. I like the limits, they are part of the suspense, all things be told.

Why shouldn't a straight male enjoy a good "E" experience. I have a co worker that loves to play with her husbands butt, He seldom lets her enjoy it because he has hang ups and is homophobic. Enyoing your butt played with no more makes you gay that enjoying a glass of good wine makes you an alcoholic. If it feels good then do it!. I've received quite a few enemas from guys, and a couple of hand jobs during the "E" experience. I'm straight as an arrow! it was just one guy helping another guy out because we couldn't fine any females to indulge us, or we them! SO WHY NOT?