Would you enjoy having another person watch you being examined?

If it is a real medical exam I don't want anyone to watch me being examined. I feel that even a chaperone is too much, but I understand why it's needed and I accept it.

I remember one time when my OBGYN had to perform one of those full exams, including a Pap smear. To my surprise, besides my doc...there were 3 med students ?

I told my doctor that I feel very uncomfortable having so many people in the room and even if it is a teaching institution, I would highly appreciate if we had less personnel watching ?

He asked them to decide who will stay in and who goes out. After this, I think only one left, and I believe that was a female. So I ended up with my doctor and a couple of male students. I was thinking "Damn, how did that come to bite me in the a** so hard?! I should have been more specific in my request."

During my pre natal visits, my husband would always come in and I felt very comfortable having him around, but in the recent years I've changed my opinion. I feel way too distracted if he's in and I don't ask everything I want to ask. I like to go by myself. If I were pregnant, I would surely feel very good about having him during exams, because it is to a degree his concern too.

I would love to be watched while being examined. Though it is lil embarrassing but more than that it is exciting for me. In the recent past I had a chest infection and I had lot of chest exams and even a USG. FOr all these exams either my mom or both my parents have been present and I am supposed to be topless for the exam.

Infact the first exam involved mom and another known lady in the exam room while I was being examined. I was topless and not only mom but also the other lady who had accomplished us to the doctor watched the whole exam.

I have described the experience in one of the topics.

It was embarrassing but also exciting

The question brought on a fantasy I find exciting. Being examined at a meeting of the local medical society. Standing nude as a doctor points out every detail of your anatomy to an auditorium of curious doctors.

I suppose in real life it would be more like a British sex education show where professional models stood as still as statues while the teacher pointed out the details of their bodies to a class of teenagers. I know I couldn't maintain their blank stare if I tried.

My girlfriend (now my wife) watched me being examined by a female doctor and female nurse when I had a testicular injury. I liked having her there, but as I was in a damaged condition at the time, that was the main thing we were thinking about. One slightly humorous part of it was when the doctor retracted my foreskin but had some problems putting it back in place. Before I could do anything, my girlfriend reached forward to take over and did it herself! Obviously she had better knowledge of my particular equipment than the doctor.

Thankfully I made a full recovery from my injury and was as good as new in no time.

Awww, that is so adorable. Those are those little special things that you two share that are yours and yours alone. I love those kinds of things. When life gets in the way remember those special things, and soon the rest of the world will fall away and you will again see what's really important to you both.

Mashie

DrZ, just read this and am so glad you recovered from what must have been extremely unpleasant situation, even as injuries go. Good for you, and great story.

Eric

Thank you. I have seen my husband get injuries but he seems to recover from them really fast. When he had his injury his semen was bloodstained so I think he was hurt inside as well. He said he was sorry for the blood but I told him he had nothing to be sorry for. I just wanted him to go to the doctors and I was with him all the way.

I will always remember his astonished face when I put his foreskin forward. Hahaha

I have no problem if it's my wife there. She was present when I made my first visit to my urologist for hematuria. Since it was my first time seeing him, he did a DRE to ck. my prostate, as well. She watched and it never bothered me.

During my last colonoscopy, my sister-in-law drove me to and from the procedure. When I woke up in the "passing gas" room, she was there saying, "How are you feeling?" I was still in the gown and was afraid I'd blast out a big one in front of her. I definitely would not want her to see the scoping.

DrZ, just read this and am so glad you recovered from what must have been extremely unpleasant situation, even as injuries go. Good for you, and great story.

Eric

Thanks Eric, and Mashie also.

It was indeed unpleasant. In training I had stupidly failed to escape a very good kick that I should have sidestepped, and it caught me in a very unfortunate place. Several highly unpleasant traumatic possibilities crossed my mind, including whether there might be a rupture and whether torsion could occur. I understand that if you get testicular torsion, you really know about it, and it might not happen immediately at the time of the injury.

My mood was not improved by the attitude of a male doctor who, before I had my testicles examined by the female doctor (and don't ask me why one doctor didn't do it all), checked my heart rate and blood pressure. Since at the time he found I was running at 112bpm and had BP of 115/76 (yes, I remember these exact figures even now), in his moment of overdose on power, he commented (with a gleeful half-smile) that my heart was "running a bit quick". This comment and the way it was made did nothing to improve my opinions about the manner of some of the male doctors I had come into contact with in my life. I pointed out to him through gritted teeth and in a very controlled way that my normal rate was around 65bpm when standing easy, and that if he had been in my situation, concerned about a possibly serious testicular injury, he would probably have a fast heart rate himself. I also said that he seemed to be enjoying trying to scare me by implying tachycardia, something he was failing to do. Now unable to look me in the eye, he conceded that his comment was thoughtless and he couldn't get out of the door fast enough. In contrast, the female doctor and nurse who came to see me and actually examined the site of injury had an excellent bedside manner, and showed no sign of getting off on power or patient worrying. It concerned me that the male doctor might take a similar attitude to others less able to brush aside his brash, sneering kind of nonsense. It gives doctors a bad name, and I have to say it did anger me at the time.

One positive that emerged from this was a growing realisation in me that my stunning, intelligent, funny and kind 19 year old girlfriend who was with me throughout all this was proving herself 100% reliable, dependable, supportive and caring too. She was this way about other injuries I collected. Even though I knew I wanted her as my wife and I'd always thought she must have been born 30 years old inside her head, I still decided to leave it a few years longer before we discussed the possibility of marriage - but that's another story. 😁

You say you would love to have someone watch you get a play exam, Mashie. Does that include watching you injected in your doubtless shapely bare bottom?

Nick

Oh my goodness YES! YES! YES!

I'd hire a Sports Stadium and have Huge Television Monitors given half the chance!.

LOL you boys crack me up to no end. And yes, absolutely injections Nikky.

Mashie

In real life I enjoy my wife watching my head-to-toe physical examination. There's just a bit of a self-conscious feeling about it, but also the reassurance that she will comment or ask questions about things which would not immediately occur to me.

For a play exam, another male to observe and/or assist would be very exciting.

If only we lived near enough for me to watch you get them, Mashie! I would like to see you get at least two injections so I could alternate between watching the needle going into your shapely bare bottom and seeing the expression on your face when you felt it.

Nick

If they got off on it, sure

In real life i wouldnt want anybody there, but for play no problems with anyone else there.

Being observed or watched has never really been a part of any of my fantasies. It's most always just me and the other person.

My wife and I always have our exams together.

I wouldn't mind anyone watching me no matter what's being done, but my wife sure wouldn't feel open about herself as I am with myself.

The worst thing I ever watched was my S.O. after her chemo. for brain cancer. She laid in the hospital bed and vomited non-stop. I had to turn away from her and I began weeping uncontrollably. I had to leave the room I was crying so hard. She died at age 36.

I would like a nurse to be present to comfort me while the exam was taking place. She could hold me like a mother would hold a child reassuring me everything would be all right. I'm a big chicken when it comes to physical exams where I have to completely undress for the exam, I just start to quiver when this occurs. Bad childhood experience at doctor when I was younger.

Kid, most good R.N.'s & LPN's would automatically do this for you. It's unbelievable how compassionate nurses can be with patients. After getting off duty, many of them will show their character defects in full among their families. That's why first Ex-wife was an R.N.

A fit young male nurse, watching or assisting a male doctor would be my dream, for a real or play exam,

in the real world I always seem to get a female doctor or nurses, 😢

Earlier this year I hurt myself with some solo anal play and had clotted veins on my butthole.

I went to see the doctor and a cute NP walks in and I got happy.

Then she tells me that is her first day with the practice so she will work with one of the doctors because she couldn't treat me by herself st that practice yet.

So the doctor comes in and asks me to drop my pants and bend over the bed. As he is examining it he keeps showing it to her what is wrong and tells her to touch it so she can feel the clots so i feel those multiple fingers back there and then i hear him saying he will check for any tromboses veins internally and goes in, feels something and then has her feel it to.

They ultimately had to cut the clots out and stitch me up.

When they were finished, he left and she stayed cleaning me up and then told me to stay in that position to let the cream penetrate the skin while she did her paperwork.

She would do some, come over, spread my cheeks and go back until she said she was leaving and for me to get dressed.

As I'm about to grt up, she comes back in, tells me to stand up so she can show me how to put on a pad on my underwear.

I had to wear a pad for a couple of days, insert this cream inside and a suppository that made the inside tickle.

I was in pain during the process but it was HOT

After having delivered three babies, with crowds of assorted doctors, nurses, techs, family, friends, the mailman, etc looking up my business, that thrill is kind of gone now.

NADYASB, that was reprehensible of the doctor on a few levels. I would raise a stink.

First, if they want to bring in students they should ask you first. You should not have them barge in on you in the stirrups.

Second, as soon as you said you were uncomfortable with other people in the exam room the doctor should have gotten all non essential personnel out of there. If the doctor was a male that would be everybody with the exception of a female chaperone. If the doctor was a female, that would be everybody except her.

Unless this was a freebie and it was understood that it would be for training before hand, your feelings should come way before the students. Getting hands on experience is important but pressuring patients into allowing it is bad any way you look at it.

Actually the question of students observing should be brought up when you make the appointment, so there is no "on the spot" pressure for you to make a decision. If you feel pressured on the phone you can hang up and call another doctor.

Interesting, that this came around again. I just got done chatting on another site with a retired doc, early 80's, who is very hot for me based on his responses, having seen some pics of me in jockstraps.

I explored the idea of a play exam with him. I thought about setting my cam up and filming it. Different takes from different angles. Which leads to the answer of the question of this subject topic: "Would you enjoy having another person watch you being examined?" i think i would enjoy sharing a video if i made one, and i have thought about one day becoming a standardized patient, where obviously people would watch live, especially if they chose to have that filmed as well.

Now when i read the original post, it's loaded with questions, that though i've replied to this topic a few times already, i had never really addressed.

Who do you like watching you? - strangers into medfet, no one i actually know

Spouse? Once upon a time, yes. Now, no.

Parent? No

"maybe even the nurse" - Yes

"when you notice the door to the waiting room is not shut properly.... is there something inside which would arouse you and continue as if you're unaware?" - Yes, except if young children were present. Then i would not be comfortable. But for older adults - if they wanted to look in & see me, the thought of their interest &/or curiosity is arousing.

I think most ladies who have had babies have experienced being examined internally while in front of their husband/partner.. I know I have on a few occasions. The midwife didn't even ask if I minded, it was a case of 'I'm just going to exam your cervix' and knees together legs apart... And her hand went straight in.. Husband sat there witness to full view. Even had a cathater inserted when needed in labour with him there.. Was no big deal actually.

The only time I was slightly embarrassed was when I was having a miscarriage in hospital at 11 weeks pregnant, and the consultant did his rounds and gave me an internal exam in front of a group of students, about 4 I think, all male, then asked two of them to examine me afterwards.. To evaluate my cervix, which was tightly shut. After that I went on to have a full miscarriage, often wondered if their prodding and poking induced the contractions.

If my boyfriend, close friend or mother isn’t in the room during my examinations I get anxiety. However I want the doors locked and the curtains drawn during the whole appointment. I don’t want strangers seeing my intimate areas, it’s bad enough with the doctor...

Nurse for sure. Ive had nurses chaperone physicals in real life and i love that feeling of another person in the room with the doctor and me.

And I would very much enjoy a stranger or my wife watching as well, but my wife has no interest in med fet and no idea that occasionally get out for a play exam session with other men.

My parents? Absolutely not.

Nurse for sure. Ive had nurses chaperone physicals in real life and i love that feeling of another person in the room with the doctor and me.

And I would very much enjoy a stranger or my wife watching as well.

When nurses were present, were they positioned to be able to see your genitalia and/or your anus exposed for the rectal exam? The one time I have had a physical with a nurse present with the doctor, she was able to see my genitals and my anus. It was very humiliating, but the memory has been great for masturbation for many years.