How do you prevent soreness?

How do you go through a series of enemas without the anus getting sore from all that wiping? Once one is very sore that automatically rules out anal play. After a while toilet paper can make is so that you can't even take a shower because it stings so bad. Again defeats the purpose for prepping for kinky play. What do the majority of people here do to keep clean in between trips to the bathroom without rubbing yourself raw?

Use lots of lube and less soap in the enemas. Also lube up between enemas. Maybe some alo verra might help if all else fails.

Don't wipe, BLOT.

Vaseline and "wet" wipes

I don't use any soap in my delivery system. I only put 1 table spoon of Epsom salts per quart.

I have been enjoying making a cool coconut oil bolus. I like Castor Bean Oil with a wee bit of Peppermint oil on the knoz.

I buy a bottle CBO and just put a few drops in while it is brand new. Or for a very settling ointment go with Lavender oil drops instead.

Blend to taste.

I have a very strong moisture cream from Israel - Dead Sea - and after the final enema and sure that all the releasing is dong I cool the anus with that cream. Between enemas, some gently wipes are best.

While you cannot use it with many nozzles, Vaseline afterwards can work wonders.

The best remedy is using those topical hemorrhoid ointments before and after your enema. It has lidocaine that numbs the pain within and on the outer side of your anus. They all come with an applicator. Try it, you'll see and enjoy the difference. Just ask your pharmacist and they sell it without a prescription.

As Vito said, just "blot' between enemas; there's no need to wipe until dry as your just going to be lubing up that nice anus for the next round. Also, ditch the government-grade TP (that still has the wood chips in it....) and get something that might actually be soft on your rumpus!

I 'pre-game.' Daily, for a few days before an anticipated session, I will use Vaseline around and in my anus. This softens it up and prevents cracking. I also agree with others, blot, don't rub. You know you're going to be going back to release more later or take another enema.

Suggest you wash your hole with warm water, then blot with a towel. Suggested this to a lady friend who had long term trots, and it worked for her.

Try "Cold Cream" ala ponds as a lube. 'Works for me.

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I use vaseline that also keeps protecting while expelling and I do not waste toiletpaper when i do a lot of enemas. rubbing that much with dry paper is nasty.

Several things:

Use baby wipes.

Wipe once per trip to the toilet, not once per expulsion.

No more than 2 different nozzles per session.

Relax!! Never insert a nozzle while tense!

Here's how I avoid a sore butt:

1) As has been said before, take it easy with wiping. Blotting will get the job done just as well. And don't focus wiping solely on the anal opening. Less is more.

2) Use high quality toilet tissue. Cheap brands tend to cause irritation simply because they aren't soft enough.

3) Before your enema, apply some moisturizing lotion around your anus. It will help protect it. I use Aveeno...it has very little alcohol in it and it's soothing.

4) Use lube liberally on your nozzle or tube. Skimping on lube is a sure way to end up with a sore butt.

5) Take your time...it's an enema, not a race. As Lisa mentioned, relaxation is critical and never force anything into your anal opening.

Have fun and enjoy the ride!

Deb

In addition to the forgoing suggestions I do the following. After toilet paper I go over to the tub and sit with my butt hanging over the tub. I use the shower massage to spray warm water to be extra clean (and it feels great) then blot with a dedicated washcloth.

I started mixing glycerin with the soapsuds and have no more problems with soreness....

Tablespoon of baking soda per quart of squirt will help also.

Cheaper brands of toilet paper give me a rash. Baby wipes are a good alternative when you expect multiple expulsions. Or a warm, wet wash cloth -- why not? You're worth pampering, aren't you?

Yes, relax while insert nuzzle. No tense

Why wipe between enemas? 😉

Use lots of lube, that will make the wiping less irritating. You may have to lube yourself after the enema session. And, take it easy with the soap, that can be really irritating.

Jon

A&D ointment.

I always shower afterwards to remove any lingering soap or other additives to the enema solution. After drying off apply some Preparation H to the anus and rectum and baby powder to the area as well! Works wonderfully!!!

For me lube is essential tissue is easily damaged without it. I blot after expulsion and use my removable shower nozzle much like a bidet would work, rinsing well between enemas. The suggestion of Preparation H post enema is good; I too have used this if soreness is present.

It is easy to avoid getting sore by simply taking a shower afterward instead of using toilet paper. Besides TP only moves the dirty material around and does not totally clean. I even wash myself, when possible, after peeing. Use soap containing Aloe or other moisturizers, rinse thoroughly, and dry with a soft towel or warm hair dryer.

I think the others covered it well... excessive wiping, soft toilet tissue, plenty of lube, relax, etc.

But, also make sure you're not inserting something in your rectum that's simply too large for your level of experience. I think others will agree that there are some very aggressively sized nozzles and paraphernalia to be had for novices!

If you need more than four sheets of toilet paper, just take a shower!

Lube anything that's going to be inserted. Clean with a simple water douche after expelling and 'blot' instead of rubbing. Use a thick lube like Vaseline or Crisco on your sphincters and anal canal. (remember though that Vaseline will eventually ruin latex colon or rectal tubes).

I had the same concern a few weeks ago when getting ready for a colonoscopy prep.

I decided to try a non water based ointment to create a barrier. We had some A and D ointment on hand, so I gave it a try. Worked like a charm. In spite of all the expulsions of salty water and waste, I did not get sore from wiping. I also tried to remember to blot more than wipe.

So whether it is a nulti enema series or a prep, that is my suggestion.