Pain and Play Exams

I certainly don't want my patients to experience pain during an examination from me but it's almost inevitable that they will feel some discomfort at times. I think that most women would say that they find having a speculum inside is uncomfortable and by it's very nature an internal examination is going to cause some discomfort.

I always explain to my patients what I'm about to do and also warn them in advance if a procedure is likely to cause discomfort. Any good doctor should coax the patient and encourage them.

I completely agree with the comments by Beth1965. By it's very nature a gyn exam will be uncomfortable for a woman and while I'm not into inflicting pain during a play exam I'm OK with the idea that my patient does feel discomfort at times.

I think the humiliation part is a turn on...being exposed. A bit of pain and bondage mixed in would be even better...

I'm not into pain, so no, I do not want it in a real or play exam.

The only painful medical treatment I really enjoy, whether play or real , is having a beautiful but strict nurse give me injections in my vulnerable bare bottom. The more they hurt the better and humiliation at having to pull everything down and bend over to get them enhances the thrill.

I dont personally believe pain and play exams go together . Play exams the way I look at it is a more enjoyable experience , where both parties involved derive some pleasure from participating. Often aspects of the exams are exaggerated in order to fulfill this need.

Incorporating pain into this scenario to me is not a natural progression and I personally don't derive any pleasure from deliberately hurting someone, even if they enjoy it . I do know that some doing enjoy incorporating aspects of BDSM into medfet, but this is not for me .

The only type of pain i am interested in would be something like being opened wide by a rectal speculum.

No needles or scalpel or clamps or anything like that.

I was always a bit surprised by my play patients. EVERY one of them wanted to be controlled. Most of them wanted to cum. Many wanted me to do kinky, specifically sexual things only acceptable at the hands of a Doc. Fisting was one. I found that the best way to proceed was to make their time as free of their choice about what was to happen as possible. It helps that I love control, and find it easy to tell people what to do. We agreed on the scenario beforehand, of course, but I never told them all the details. Surprise is a great element in medical fetish play, as in all bdsm. For example, I always mentioned "thorough rectal exam" but I rsrely mentioned the enemas that must precede it. If I did, I gave only the barest of details, and let them think "Fleet enema" if they wished. Interestingly, I never had a woman refuse, although many got this terrified look when I hauled out the bag.

Pain? Not so much, but I frequently asked.

Mostly control, and the sense that no matter how kinky, it was "Doctor's orders."

The sub nature of a woman really comes out in these situations...

In the real gyno exam sometimes could I had feelings discomfort or a little bit pain when I'm speculate but often it was caused my famine cycle (i.e. ovulation). But when we played in medfet we had a lot of reason how and why we doing that. I taken with this play a lot of enjoying.I think that first thing was a mind about that, my permission for kinky play. Of course I really like be submissive but this partner like be dominant. Other reason it was that I done this commands, taken off my clothes with him and I opened my legs for him. I'm aroused when he could do every thing what he abused. But in my opinion lot of women like pain and being naughty. I don't agree in RN opinion that pain and pleasure couldn't been positive feelings.

Real gyno exams are more awkward then painful they are not really that painful uncomfortable yes but not pain too the point where you can't handle it but to open up my legs to the right play doc yes it's great

I'm in the bucket of play exams should have painful and uncomfortable procedures incorporated into the play exam yes but it all should be negotiated up front.