Women and Men on crutches

Hi, is it me or do women find men on crutches at the least interesting, at best sexy? Recently ended up on crutches after a very serious bone infection in my hip. Thought I might lose my leg at the time so despite my love of all things medical the thought of amputation was scary. That said, loved the attention I received from women interested in what was up with me. If it hadn't been for the intense pain and dread I'd have wanted to take it further on a number of occasions. Any similar experiences?

Geez, I have spent huge amounts of time on crutches over my short lifetime. I HATE/LOATHE THEM! I feel for those who have to use them. No, I don't find them arousing or a turn on in any way! What gets my dander up is seeing someone on them who does not know what they are doing, the crutches are not properly adjusted to them and they have either no idea or will not listen to sound advice on how to use them and have them adjusted. If a person is not using them properly and have them adjusted for their specific need, they are dangerous to use and can and do result in further injury, disability etc to their own self.

I was lucky to learn how to use them, adjust them etc, and tricks to make things easier using them. My Mom and maternal Grandmother are Registered Physical Therapists. My surgeon has also sends up a therapist he handpicks each time after surgery to do an assessment to make sure all is well and safe.

Like you Andie I have spent a lot of time using crutches. Like a lot of things here needing them and playing around are two different things. I'm incontinent and must ware diapers. Sometimes this is a pain also but for some is a turn on.

A lot of people feel sorry for you or just want to be helpful when they see your on crutches. The best intensions can sometimes be a hindrance as you well know.

And I agree improper use of crutches can be dangerous.

Other than that just be careful and have fun if that's what turns you on.

Andie, sounds like you've been through a lot and know from friends that living with them on an ongoing basis is infinitely tougher than my relatively short period of having to use them. Good luck! X

@ Bill ers,

Thank you. Thankfully, I have not been on them in a few years! YEAH!

Andie

Yah indeed! What did you need them for? I was a medical enigma for a while - enjoyed the attention mind lol

While I have never been on crutches myself, I have to agree with Andie about the countless times I have had to try and instill some sense into individuals ( mostly young men) about the proper use of crutches. As she alluded the use of badly adjusted crutches, or improper use of them can cause seriously injury or delay the healing process. I can recall a number of individuals who had to have a surgical procedure repeated because they failed to used them properly, thankfully they were left with no permanent disability.

It is so utterly frustrating at times trying to instill some common sense into individuals, not to mention putting additional strain ( in terms of cost and time) on the health service

@ RN1993,

You are so very correct!

@ Bill ers,

Countless knee and ankle injuries as well as ankle and knee surgeries. Between both knees there are 10 surgeries. Six on the left knee and four on the right knee. On the ankles 3 total. Two on the left ankle, one on the right ankle. I actually carry a set in the trunk of my car just in case I need them when I am not home. As for when I fly, I don't take them with me unless I am currently using them.

The surgical scars on my each knee and ankle perfectly match each other.

Ouch!! Have a friend here in the uk who has experienced countless operations on both knees. In her case the final outcome was pretty drastic so I hope you get sorted or at least can stay mobile x

@ Bill ers,

My orthopaedic surgeon is very talented and gifted. Because of his talent, knowledge and skill, I do very well considering the challenges I have lived my whole young life with. I met him when I was 11 years old. I will turn a young 40 years old the end of this year. When I was 11, he told me I would have knee replacements in both knees by the time I was 18y years old. I still have my knees. They have not been replaced. I was in my early 20's when he removed the patella in each knee. I don't miss the patella in either of my knees. I could have some maintenance work done on them at this point, though I choose not to as it is hard to determine if it would be of more benefit than not having some work done. It is what it is.

I don't pity or feel sorry for myself. My biggest role model is a dear friend of mine who has been a quadriplegic for 54 years. She just turned 74 this year. I met her when I was 10 years old. What she deals with, accomplishes every day, week after week, month after month, year after year leaves me in awe to do all I can do, this is a big deal by comparison. I am very mobile, very flexible, and my legs are very strong due to yoga and countless hours spent doing leg and knee strengthening exercises over all theses years. Maintaining core strength is also a big part of keeping the legs strong.

Thank you for your sympathy, care and concern. Best wishes to your friend!

Andie

Andie, I knew that you had surgeries on your legs but never knew the extent. It must have been a bit traumatic as a child and young adult having to undergo but I am gladden by your positive philosophy and approach to life, as many may have gone the other way. Your friend the quadriplegic seems to be a very exceptional individual as i don't think i would be able to cope with that.

I did look after a young married quadriplegic who was having an extremely difficult time dealing with his disability. At the time I think it made all of us who participated in his care extremely upset and sadden, and thankful for our mobility and independence.

@ RN,

Attitude is everything along with example.

Thank you.

Andie

Andie, well done on the yoga. My ability to bend even with two kneecaps is limited!! My friend has now lost both legs so is currently grappling from being largely immobile with the chance is still walking through to being a double amputee in just two years. She is suffering and was a prolific blog writer but now finds that hard. I hope she comes through this bit.

Xx