Bleeding from anus

Hi!

Fairly new to discovering more about who I am sexually... That being said, enemas are something I don't understand. I only remember them as being painful, but as I've read different posts I'm finding this seems be bring enjoyment also. I recently discovered someone I love is into this and she confided in me she can't have a BM without one and that she is constantly bleeding from rectum. I urged her to see a Dr. But as of yet she is embarrassed and has refused. Is this common? Any advise would be welcome. Thank you

[color=#000000]She has a problem and needs to see her doctor.[/color]

[color=#000000]It could be as simple as hemorrhoids or as complex as cancer.[/color]

@ luckyme : Firstly hello there from this Australian character & welcome to the wonderful world of zity, where I think you will find many others that may share you're tastes !!

So I sincerely hope you enjoy the journey....

Now secondly & more importantly on the subject of concern raised for you're friend & resultant urging to consult a GP /Physician --This I would consider the logical approach as well as conclusion, in fact a must under the circumstances ....NO it is NOT common ,NO it is NOT NORMAL to bleed from the rectum (for anyone for that matter) NOR will the employment of enemas alleviate the situation at hand, let alone resolve it -- just delaying the inevitable !!.....Her attitude (excuse) may / could potentially have serious & far reaching consequences for her in the future if not investigated properly & really needs to see a medical professional ASAP particularly if as stated this has been an ongoing problem for her.......If she feels somewhat frightened (I suspect this be the case) may I recommend that if at all possible you as a friend accompany her to the Doctor's appointment.... Just a thought !!

There is no point fearing the unknown or being embarrassed ---The very reason we have Medical Professionals is to not only consult / diagnose & recommend suitable treatment but also these wonderful hard working individuals provide us with the tools to enhance our lives in the longer term...They do their very utmost quite often under difficult circumstances to ensure we as a species have a long & fruitful life.....If as you elude to,trusts you implicitly then it is obvious that you tactfully as possible impress upon her the importance of having this addressed & TREATED PRONTO....

Best of luck in your endeavours & do post results of discussion....G

Thank you. I didn't read any where that that may be a normal part of this kinda playing. I will pursue to get her into a Dr. A little embarrassment.... or whatever keeps her from going, is not in any way worth her health. Thanks

Your sexual ID has nothing to do with this. Bleeding from the rectum should always be checked by a physician. I was showing stools covered with blood, but no pain during defecation. My F.P. said it was probably hemorrhoids, but he wanted me to get a colonoscopy anyway. The G.E discovered a large bleeding tumor in my sigmoid that was malignant.

I urge ANYONE with bleeding from the anus to see a doctor right away.

Luckyme, It is urgent that you get your lover to the Dr. You may save her life!!! Please ask if she has a sister, or a female companion that is close to her. Then both of you get her to a Doctor!!!!

Seeing a doctor is essential. As noted, it may be easily addressed (diet change, not drinking enough water, OTC or prescription medications, etc.) or life threatening. Would she be embarrassed to death? There is no part of our anatomy a doctor has not seen - too often - so unless she has a square rectum, it's no big deal. NOT going is a big deal!

This is a surgical emergency! No question or doubt in my mind. Get this lady to a qualified practitioner immediately.

Get this to a doctor, at least. Depending on severity, it may justify a trip to the ER

Thanks everyone for your responses. I did two things. First, I showed her this site so she would feel more comfortable. Then, I made her an appointment and took her in. Run blood work and scheduled her for a colonoscopy. Thanks all

I'm so glad you made the right choice to get help for her.

In February my hubby unintentionally hurt himself with a colon tube, and began bleeding from his rectum. Because the doc had him on blood thinner, his bleeding was uncontrollable. It was a very serious issue, he nearly bled to death, and he is now enjoying the misery of a temporary colostomy. Rectal bleeding that is beyond a drop or two is a full-fledged emergency, requiring medical intervention.

Hugs,

Diane

I hope you also told her not to take enemas until she got the result of the colonoscopy. Taking enemas while suffering from injuries or a not yet diagnosed disease can be dangerous.

Stop anal fisting her!