Strap ons for both

Hi guys and gals. Rather new here I'm glad I found the forum though and it's taught me a few things lol.

So my question for you all is. We, the girlfriend and I would rather like to try a strap on but we don't know where to start. As in we would like to find one that would give us both pleasure at the same time. Or best positions etc

Your help would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance

Doggie is good with you on all fours and her behind you, so is having you lie on your back with your legs raised and apart.

Let her get in there and fuck that ass of yours.

The Feeldoe is very good because she uses her vagina to hold it as she reams your ass!

The Feeldoe is very good because she uses her vagina to hold it as she reams your ass!

I've considered the Feeldoe for some time now. Is there are particular model that you recommend? I wish that there was a model designed for penetration into the sigmoid colon.

I've read reports that people are saying the feeldoe is hard for people to keep in tight and that they end up buying a strap too and apparently the vibrations aren't that good either

I hear the Feeldoe is very nice but I've also seen strapon harnesses that come with dildo and butt plug attachments for the person wearing the harness.

@permitdrab -- "I wish that there was a model designed for penetration into the sigmoid colon"

My hubby recently injured his sigmoid, and this has led me to be extra cautious about anything that goes above the rectum Our rectums are relatively tough and stretchable, the sigmoid less so. Active thrusting with a strap-on when the head of the toy is up into the sigmoid might much more easily cause damage than if it were in only the rectum. Please be safety conscious. Having seen it up close and personal, trust me you do not want to tear or perforate your sigmoid. You can have fun and still be careful.

Hugs,

Diane

@ azdiane -- How spot-on correct you are.... Wisdom dictates that one take the utmost care when testing ones limits & do by all means apply common sense !!.... Research (not trial & error) while being important also arms the individual with adequate knowledge to avoid any potential catastrophe and or harm to another....Education being the key & not to be blasé, as we must care for ourselves on many levels...

While the human body may be relatively durable, all it takes is one inadvertent mistake & one's life could potentially be on the line....Wishing all here the very best in their fun filled endeavours.... Play well play safe !!..

Here's a kinky thought:

Buy one of these/equivalent: http://www.bondara.co.uk/cloneboy-dildo-kit

Make a "clone" of your penis.

Have your girlfriend peg you with your "own" penis.

The sheer kinkiness of pegging a man with a replica of his genitalia is likely to give her oodles of pleasure.

@BlackWidow, not a bad idea, thanks,

If you're looking for a harness (even with a feeldoe I've heard one is a good idea for the sake of stability) these are the prettiest I've ever seen: http://www.velvetnest.com/

I have been pegged with a feeldoe stout modek and it was great highly recommend the feeldoe for strapon play!

The only woman who ever fucked me with a strap on was a former girlfriend. We were very into all sorts of anal play, but I had never really had anything in my ass up to that point. She was patient with me and didn't hurry me, although she told me up front that she wanted to bend me over and fuck me one day. She started on me with her tongue, eventually progressed to one finger, then two, then three. Then she used a small buttplug on me, not to keep in place but to fuck me in and out whether I was on all fours or on my back with legs up. It took longer for me to get used to the larger buttplug, which was painful for a while. but eventually I could take it. All this took place over a few months. One day I went and bought a strap on harness for her with a small dildo, big enough for me though! I remember that day very well when I gave it to her. She put it on and looked at herself in the mirror for a while then told me to bend over the bed and spread my cheeks. She lubed up the dildo and then my anus and fucked me hard. It was amazing. I never saw her so excited and happy. Later we did it often and i usually preferred her to fuck my ass with me on my back so that I could watch her face. Watching her face as she simultaneously watch me masturbate with her cock going in and out of my ass always made me cum very hard.

Good luck to you and your girlfriend.

Oh, I'm loving this..was with dom recently and we ended up using his toy on him..sooo lovely 😃

I got my wife to use a strap on on me a little while ago. The position i liked was laying on my back with my knees pulled up, I was able to watch her lube it up and slide it in, I could also watch her face as she was pounding me. Don't know the name of the strap on but it was about 9 inches long and 1 1/2 in diameter fairly soft not real hard but firm enough

What Diane said in post#6, let's be careful out there!! Even with colon tubes, if you feel resistance, don't "force" it! Post #2 Susie I just love the way you phrase things!!!

with a "Click!!,"

highwater

Simply only one way to go....get a feeldoe

They are the best!

Wow! I thought I was the only male who like a strap-on. In my experience, everyone has different gratifications that they get out of anal sex, and the bigger/longer the strap-on is the gratification expectations increase exponentially. Not everyone can enjoy it, but everyone should certainly try it.

I love being fucked with a strapon. My dildo is about 7 inches long and 1.5 inches wide. I would recommend getting a harness that isn't too complicated getting on. Check them out first to see which are functional. Pick a dildo that you know you can easily take. Going too large will only make it painful not more pleasurable. And lots of lube- don't scrimp.

There are many positions that are fun but my favorite is laying on my back so I or my wife has access to my cock for stroking. When you combine those long slow deep strokes with having your cocked stroked you are going to be in for a huge orgasm. Not to mention how fun it is for the lady to be sporting a big dick and doing the fucking. A good time for all.

I agree a feldoe is hard to beat works great for both giver and receiver