Men - How long after you ejaculate do you remain erect?

Not long. Getting older

I'm in my 60's and I don't keep the flagpole up very long after a climax. I need a few minutes to recover. My wife was always able to crank it up again pretty quickly, but I believe it was more my reaction to her than to what she was doing. As far as the little blue pill goes, I use them and they help maintain the erection. I'm not sure about 4 hours either, but I don't think they use that warning and mean it to apply for everyone. Just under certain conditions and certain men. Everyone is different, and that equation applies universally.

Erections can last more than an hour with breathing exercises, but after ejaculation they go away fast and start again depending on the level of stimulation

When I was in my late teens and twenties I would remain erect up to 20 minutes. Now past 60, I can stay erect up to 10 minutes. Depending on stimulation I can become erect again within 10 minutes but a second ejaculation is usually not quick to come along.

After masturbating, it usually takes me 3-4 minutes to soften up. After sex (oral or vaginal), more like 2-3 minutes. I used to be able to get hard (enough) again in about 20 minutes but now it takes quite a bit longer. I can sometimes ejaculate again after an hour if it had been a few days before the first ejaculation.

I often will want to masturbate the morning after sex. I don't know why, because I usually go at least a few days between orgasms.

Just a couple minutes, although once in a great while, I can stay hard inside her after an orgasm and immediately go again for a second orgasm. It is rare, a couple times a year, and always is a pleasant surprise for both of us.

After cumming i go limp after 2-3 mins, when i was younger it was a lot longer before i went limp and i could go for seconds as well, sadly old age has crept up on me,so the mind is very willing but my cock aint. lol

After ejaculation my lady brings a warm moist towel to clean my cock and moustache off. I am still very hard at that point. Probably at least 5 minutes or more.

All depends how horny I am, how long between intercourse, how tired I am, how long we were having sex for (that one is very important-longer the sex longer the hard on after orgasm). Once I have manage to cum inside my wife, didn't stop at all and then after some time cum again.

Tends to be about 5 minutes after cumming and then slowly my cock will go soft.

Anywhere between 2 to 5 minutes afterwards.

A while back I started working on my Kegels, and now I can clamp down and keep erect for quite a bit longer than I could before. I put her on top and watch her pump away, and it's hot. Stimulation doesn't feel as good as it does before the ejaculation, but the show and psychological high make up for it.

I can't do this all the time, unfortunately. There are some days when I go soft pretty fast afterwards, so fortunately there are other toys to play with - 10 here, one there, and so on.

Usually no more than a minute or two. Mostly because of the lengthy amount of time i spend edging and jacking before I finally shoot. That thing is exhausted by the time it's all done. In fact, so is the rest of me and I often pass out. Well it's usually late at night anyway.

Same if it's like a weekend where i'm shooting multiple loads. Maybe if i'm wide awake and had a really intense orgasm, it might stay around for a bit afterwards. But again, no more than a few minutes. .

The thought of cumming, staying hard and not stopping as you rebound for a second round has always been a big turn on for me. Unfortunately that hasn't been my reality, at least since my early 20s!

It would be VERY interesting to hear how long the WOMEN would say you stay hard.

I don't stay erect for long after ejaculation. Once my orgasm has completely subsided, I will lose my erection in under a minute, probably closer to 30 seconds. The refractory period then starts right away.

I've never really been one for being able to quickly have a "second round", though I have always been able to fire many times per day. A recovery period is always needed each time.

Larger calibre weapons take longer to reload. 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

It would be VERY interesting to hear how long the WOMEN would say you stay hard.

...and the percentage of the ones who had already been brought to orgasm/climax that would be oblivious to how long their men stayed hard after......

Can go once then have to wait an hour or so to go again, usually goes away minutes after popping

Not near long enough...however, switchablesusie hit the nail on the head. My partner may have a different perspective. After I've ejaculated and my partner has had enough to be satisfied, there is usually that period of time where the afterglow is needed for recovery. Certainly, aging has affected everything.

Morning time is the best for me. Depending on circumstances, a second round is pretty unlikely for either of us. Going back in history, the only times that round two was likely a sure bet with a quick turnaround, was with the aid and assistance of enema and anal stimulation.

This always necessitated a willingness and great effort on the part of my partner. With an aversion to enema play, this situation is likely a thing of the past. Oh, to be young again?

For me it depends on the time of day. When I have sex in the morning, my erection goes away quickly. But when I have sex at night, it stay up longer. Some sort of a hormone thing maybe?

As I've gotten older, I definitely get soft much quicker after ejaculation. In my 20's, I would often stay hard and we could go another round right away. That was great, since it would taken even longer to ejaculate a second time and would lead to a good, long sex session.

Now, as I near 50, I get soft within a couple of minutes after ejaculation with a longer refractory period. At times, I could be an hour or more before I could get really hard again, so that created a "one and done" expectation.

When we know we want a longer night of sex than 10-15 mins, I will take a Viagra. They work amazingly well at giving me a rock-hard erection and I can usually keep it that way for a second round of fun for another 30-45 minutes. Even if I get a little soft after the first ejaculation, with the Viagra, I get solidly erect again with very little stimulation.

Whatever question you have, I don’t think much of them remains erect after they ejaculate. This also depends on men as every men are different and everyone has different potential and energy. So it is hard to say how much long does a man can remain erect after ejaculation. My own experience is that sometimes my penis remains erect for several minutes and I can even satisfy my partner one time more.

But many times, this is not the fact and I have to suffer. But maximum time, my penis does not remains erect. Even you can see more on this topic on: http://www.mensexualclinic.com/trouble-staying-erect-while-sex

Just read something about this recently. Myself, I have had times where I stay erect and can go a couple of times back to back. However, this has been the case with newer relationships. It seems as though that sexual strategies may actually play into this phenomena of some having the ability to stay erect after sex. A couple of factors come in to play here: age, length of relationship (long-term vs hook-up), and number of partners. Research has shown, that if you have sex with one partner and are introduced to a new partner immediately following, you will stay erect with the ability to finish; it's the novelty that keeps our interest. For those of us who have been in long-term relationships, we all know in the beginning we have a lot more sex at the drop of a dime, but this tends to decline with age and length of relationship. For those out there in polyamorous relationships, they may note that after a night of sex with one partner or simultaneous, sex with the other partner immediately following is more intense; it's a novelty effect.

I remain erect for around a minute or so before I start going semi. Depending on whether it's sex or I'm mastubating depends on how long I take to get hard again. I can ejaculate for a second time in relatively quick time but it's not often that it happens

When I was younger I would stay hard after ejaculation, if I was turned on. I could keep going, after a few minutes of rest and loosing my sensitivity from cumming. Now as I have matured, got older, it will stay semi erect after cumming. I am able to go again within a few minutes but its a lot harder to reach climax again. Sometimes I have to bring myself off, with help from the woman, for the second orgasm. Oh to be young again with the diamond cutter erections and non stop libido. If only I knew then what I know now and knowing how to use it. My younger years would have been way more better.

Oh where does the time go, if only I could go back thirty years to when I remained erect for more than one ejaculation, no more I fear

E youngo e mano.

Younger is better. Always!!

I can normally keep going until I pull out then after a minute or two I go limp. It’s been years since I have had a second go around. Just recently started taking Viagra again and haven’t tried the second time since being back on it. I would imagine that my refractory period is somewhat shorter with it.

Until I hit 40, I never even experienced a "refractory period." I could come once, stay hard, and go for seconds almost immediately. Sadly, those days seem to be gone. Now, I get soft pretty quickly after one orgasm.

E youngo e mano

Younger is better. What you could do in your twenties doesn't equate in any way to what you can do in your sixties. I'm just happy when the little feller comes out to play!