Men - How long after you ejaculate do you remain erect?

I'm good for several minutes, but then go limp. Have never been able to "go a second round", but maybe someday. Not really buying this stuff about an erection that lasts greater than four hours. Really? LOL

About 5-8 mins, very rarely could i go on for seconds.

Usually for only a minute or two. Very few times have I been able to go for 2nds, always in an unusually highly charged sexual encounter.

When I was younger, I could go three in a row with just a couple of minutes recovery. Now just once and I am done for a while..

It has varied. As with all of sex, there are just so many variables -- including the partner 😃.

When I was in my 20's I could keep it up 99% of the time for a second round, but as I have gotten older (44 now) about 5 to 10% of the time can I get another round.

Depends on the situation really but if we're having a "session" it can be pretty much to the point of exhaustion so I find it's all in the mind. If the mood or schedule for example aren't allowing it will be pretty much back to normal as soon as we're finished and on to whatever is next on the list.

I am proud to say that my guy can usually remain erect or semi-erect as long as necessary. He may have a tiny penis but he sure knows how to use it. He does suffer from premature ejaculation but it is OK because he still stays semi erect and after a few minutes gets fully hard again and we can continue on.

When my husband was a teenager until he was about 30 years old he could go on for immediate repeat performances with me. If we didn't do it a second time, he would often just stay hard for as long as I kept him interested. Wrapping my legs around him in bed was enough for him to stay hard. Now, at 45, he doesn't do immediate repeats any more, but I get a really good fucking the first time around.

The only good thing about getting older as a man...I used to be one and done, but now I bounce back more quickly, never getting super hard.

It sometimes bothers me that in sex ed classes, they tell the girls all about what will happen to them as they age, but the never tell the boys what to expect as they get older. It is just not fair for them not to prepare us, too.

hankb

When I was younger I would stay hard for 10 or 15 minutes after ejaculating depending on how horny I was and how intense my orgasm was. I was only able to go a second time once. I'm not sure how or why that time but it was really nice for both of us. Now that I'm in my early 50's once I cum its done. Within a few minutes I'm flaccid and it takes a long time to recover and get hard again. Oh for those good old days again.

Usually stay hard for a few minutes, and then have to wait awhile for second round

It sometimes bothers me that in sex ed classes, they tell the girls all about what will happen to them as they age, but the never tell the boys what to expect as they get older. It is just not fair for them not to prepare us, too.

hankb

There is such a difference in the treatment of men and women that it's become a joke. Women are treated as complex, emotional creatures. Men are treated like cattle. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that women should receive less, I'm saying that men should receive equal treatment.

Hank, your point about sex education is case in point.

Usually for several minutes, although its never quite as hard as right when I orgasm. After orgasm, my penis starts to go limp, but still looks at least semi-erect for several minutes until i fully recover. I'm usually a one-shot deal also.

It depends - sometimes right after orgasm I go flaccid fairly quick. Every once in a while though I'll finish and I'll still be pretty exciting and just continue again until I orgasm next. Can take an extra fifteen minutes but the second one can be pretty powerful too.

I really have not changed much in this regard over the years. Once I ejaculate, I always need a brief period to be ready to get erect and ejaculate again. This may be as short as five or ten minutes if there is an exciting psychological stimulus still there for me. If someone plays with my penis and balls, I can get hard again after a few minutes and have no problem going to orgasm and ejaculation again. My first ejaculation is always really high volume and comes in three to five spurts whereas a subsequent ejaculation will only be one smaller volume squirt.

Exam doc--things will change when you are twice the age you are now. You will not be able to get hard nearly as easily or as often and ejaculation will be less or none.

hankb

When I was in college and my girl friend and I would shack up for the weekend, I could probably do 5-6 times over 2 days. If you mean in one session, I used to be able to do 3 regularly with no problem. Now I'm always good for one time, but on occasion if Sharon gets me really turned on I can manage 2. i like to think that I've replaced quantity with quality.

I can't seem to keep an erection after ejaculation, I have seen several guys be able to maintain an erection after they ejaculate and sometimes have a 2nd orgasm and I wish I could do that! Several times when I was a teen I could force myself to keep masturbating after I had ejaculated and have a 2nd orgasm but it usually took much longer the 2nd go around. I also have some trouble even getting an erection if with someone new, I explained that to my doctor years ago and he said I probably have performance anxiety so he prescribed Viagra which unfortunately I never renewed before we moved out of state. The Viagra definitely helped me get an erection but they quickly subside if I don't keep steady stimulation, although they come back much quicker if I took Viagra. I really need to ask my new doctor for another prescription!

I found that I was starting to have problems staying hard for a long time, and I stopped masturbating. I used to get myself off at least twice a day for over 40 years. I found that I now have a much more focused sexual drive, and I stay hard longer and if she had more stamina for pulling or sucking, I think I could go off again. I have also went through a major lifestyle change and no longer have a desk job, and I work outside with my body. I have found that the change in work has really helped me. So, if you are having issues, before resorting to chemicals, you might try only using it when you are actually going to have sex with a partner, and adopting a more physical lifestyle.

It certainly varies with each time being a bit different. If the foreplay and intercourse was long, I would go limp quicker. If its a quicky I usually can go for a second round.

In my 20's could stay hard to the second round. Nowadays, its one and done but stays semi hard for about 10 minutes.

It depends on what I'm doing, if I'm having sex with someone I can keep it hard "enough" for about a minute, if I'm just masturbating I don't care about maintaining an erection so it goes flacid within 30 seconds.

Ah in the good old days, I could stay erect through multiple orgasms as long as I was getting stimulation. Now (late 50's) after one, I'm done. But in the morning, I'm all ready to go again.

It depends on the situation. If it has been a while (a week or so) since the last time and I stay focused I can stay hard until I am not so sensitive to go again. Usually, I last for a few minutes before losing my erection.

If there is no continued stimulation I will get soft pretty quick, but can get it right back up with some stimulation. Trying to having a second ejaculation can be tricky though. It's difficult for me to cum a second time in a row. Although anal stimulation will usually do the trick.

I'm stay hard and usually cum again

I have been able to stay hard after cumming but like others that was when I was in my 20's and even then it only happened rarely. But now I really don't last more than a minute or two after shooting a load. I can continue fucking for about two minutes then that it's. I can come back for a second round usually in about 30 minutes or less if I have some oral stimulation.

Now I can keep hard after ejaculation, however a second ejaculation takes a long time or does not happen. I have been thinking about estim to make the repeat performance happen. When I was younger, I had premature ejaculation and would compensate by cumming three times in a row just to get my GF off.