I just received my first spanking from my husband. And it was done in a role-play situation. For fun. It totally gets me going. We've been married for 2 and a half years and it was only last week that I told him of my desire for him to dominate me, and spank my bare bottom. And he loves it too!
We experimented a bit last week but in the dark, a little silly I know but we are novices. This week however I disobeyed him when he asked me not to spend money, I spent over $200!!! And he spanked me for it. I tell you, for those who may want a visual. My bottom is glowing. My husband can spank his naughty wife when she needs it.
On the car ride home he told me he was going to spank me for misbehaving. And I was pretty thrilled.
We went into the bedroom. I was dressed in a short skirt, new panties a new bra and a singlet. (This is my now 'spanking outfit) He started kissing me and I kissed him back, he started to lecture me about spending money and told me how naughty I'd been. He then started spanking me. After 10 or so spanks to my hind-quarters he told me to bend over his knee and he pulled up my skirt. Oops my new (that I shouldn't have bought) skirt. He then asked me how much my new panties cost ($30) and started to warm my bottom up until I was squirming on his knee. One spank after another until he pulled down my undies to reveal my bare (pink) bottom. His lecture continued as he rained (quite stinging) spanks to my reddening rear. "Are you gonna be a good girl he'd ask?" I'd laugh. He'd spank. He told me to tell him what he was doing, to which I replied "spanking my bare bottom", which was becoming hotter and redder as the moments passed. He spanked me long and HARD and I gotta say IT WAS AMAZING, FUN AND I LOVED IT.
I sit here writing this because spanking really has started to spice up our sex life, there was something missing before but we found the piece of the puzzle. We are quite vanilla people but my red, sore bottom makes me proud that we experiment with spanking. Over the knee, using his hand and eventually a wooden spoon is as far as we'll go. But I'll post about it in great detail for those who may be interested. Let me know.
Also if anyone could give me tips on how to make this spanking thing more of an actual discipline thing as well. Let me know. I do need spankings to keep me straight, I'm disorganised, I come up with excuses and I haven't had motivation to go to uni for 2 years. But I can't get him to discipline me. . . Yet. HELP!! :-D