Prostate massage

So far ive had one totally hands free orgasm, that was when i was on my back having an enema, im guessing the water was hotter than usual and or the side hole in the colon tube was pointing directly at my prostate, ive had so mant enemas over the years and it hasnt happened before or since.

Another time id pushed my largest colon tube into me and pulled it up to the rim of the diaper i had on, i intended to do multiple enemas in the bath, and just let rip into the diaper, upon walking to bathroom i almost orgasmed, due i suppose to colon tube rubbing the right spot, i didnt actually cum that time, but a couple more steps and im pretty sure i would have, again ive tried to repeat it, but cant.

I never thought I would like a p massage till wife convinced me. She got a prostate massager at sex toy party. Host also talked about how to use it.

We started with me on bed in knee chest position. She lubed the wand with KY gel ( wand is about 10 inches w handle, beaded, flexible, 3 settings of vibrate) and sat behind me . She slowly inserted the well lubed end into my rectum pointing it down. When in about an inch, turned vibrate on low. She had bent the flexible tip down to about a 15 degrees angle. She then slowly pushed it in another inch or so. Felt nice.

After about 2 mins, I began to drip thick clear fluid. As I “squeezed, “ more fluid came out. She turned it on medium and slowly moved wand back and forth across prostate. Incredible! After about 10 mins, she reached under with other hand and milked my penis up and down while occasionally squeezing it. Fluid from penis lubed her hand. I had a very intense orgasm causing me to moan loudly and have multiple spurts.

We now do it once a week. We change positions from time to time. I seem to like it inserted about 3 inches with tip bent around prostate. I like to be on hands and knees when I ejaculate. I tell her when I am about to ejaculate and she turns wand on high and lifts up on handle a bit to gently squeeze the prostate. Much larger amount of ejaculate than normal. I’m 58, Prostate feels great.

@Adventure10

Tell us who makes the wand and where to get it!

I just pushed a 12.5 mm dilator with 19 cm length. If the dilator slips through the prostate that is very pleasant. The dilator I will now at least an hour to wide it. After that I'll masturbate nice. Sperm will come out only slightly immediately, because it is distributed in the now expanded urethra and then seeping out slowly.

I just pushed a 12.5 mm dilator with 19 cm length.

Are you talking about a urethral sound??

It certainly seems like it.

Rectal dilators are wider than that and not as long.

Try to Play the Nurse and take his rectal temperature. Thermometer is perfect to start anal insertation. If he love it, ist only a small step to use a dildo or your finger.

Prostate massage is most definitely an acquired taste. I have had a few and only in parts were they pleasurable. The prostate can be a source of ecstacy and discomfort. It's a very sensitive zone. It would say its not my best friend just yet.

I have been attempting prostate play / massage for a few years. I have enjoyed the play and feeling when my wife has massaged my prostate, but I have yet had any discharge during play. We have tried toys and fingers but no luck. What else can we try.

@Motmorland said

I have been attempting prostate play / massage for a few years. I have enjoyed the play and feeling when my wife has massaged my prostate, but I have yet had any discharge during play. We have tried toys and fingers but no luck. What else can we try.

Men have varying amounts of exudate from prostate massage. Some have a few milliliters, some barely wet the tips of their penis.

You have gotten some good advice here. I think the part about talking with him about his fears is especially important. You won't be able to overcome those unless you really understand them. Two other suggestions: (1) Get him logged onto Zity and read the comments of other males regarding prostrate massage and the benefits that they get from it. This activity might ease some of his fears, especially if he thinks there is a homosexual aspect to it. (2) To get him familiar with the notion, ask him to insert a finger in your bottom. You don't have a prostate, but some women still like a finger in their anus, either during intercourse or as part of foreplay. By you trying it first, he may overcome his hesitancy to let you do the same for him. (Clearly, don't do this if this approach turns you off. But if you're flexible, it may help with the situation.) In any case let us all know how your doing with this project.