Greetings, gyno fetishists! I have news from my planet!
I, a dyed-in-the-wool steth and cardiophile have taken the plunge and have discovered that I get EXTREMELY turned on by a pelvic exam. It took me awhile to get here because I got it into my head that I had to like certain things, or that if I didn't like every aspect of it, gyno stuff would never ever be for me. All that changed recently when I discovered that I could custom design this fetish and make it my own.
My lover is more than I could ever ask for in a scene partner. He is handsome in an academic way with a goatee, long-ish brown hair, and eyes like the sea after a storm. Looks great in vests and rolled shirt sleeves. Thin and wiry with very strong forearms (he's crafty with woodcarving tools to make magic wands) And he's a wonderful actor and loves science like me. I teach him about the anatomy side of things and he helps me out when numbers are involved. It is because of our mutual fondness for science and human biology that I've discovered a way for scenework to be that more titillating. While he is more than happy to oblige me for auscultation, it does not excite him as much as it does me. But now that we're approaching it from the angle of both science and sensual pleasure for him (because he loves my vagina)--knowing that we were enjoying ourselves made it twice as fun. And not just because it's sexual, "of course it is, it's the vagina"..what I mean is that the vagina and the examination of it is one of the most sacred acts imaginable. The examination and study of the organs that have the ability to grow and produce new life for us whether they choose to or not. It makes me tingle like I've never tingled before, as a woman who, in the future wants to have a baby, and as a fetishist. Now those two sides of me are not so mutually exclusive.
Because I'm also new to gyno play and he is still a beginner, I wear a blindfold for three reasons 1.) Because I cannot see him, the pressure is off and he feels more confident and comfortable to learn that there are no mistakes in palpation, that every unsure touch and press translates into a magnificently thoughtful and focused inspection in an environment of the highest respect, reverence, and exploration. 2.) Not being able to see him and unsure of where he's going to touch me next introduces me to the raw pleasure of adrenaline-induced secretions. I would anticipate where his fingers would go next and allow the surprise to come over me double as I was "sure" of one thing and received another. And 3.) I am free to be anyone I wish because the blindfold acts as a kind of inward mask. Different characters float in and out of me as I relax into his hands completely submissive. He is the Gardener tending to my plants--checking them for fertility and moisture.
He instructs me to lay on my back and place my feet at the edge of the bed, letting them relax as widely as possible. He presses gently on and around my mound and the lymph nodes around my groin and femoral artery before placing his hands around my vaginal opening, framing it like a window through which he was about to peer. He inserts a finger and rubs the folds of my labia majora and minora in turn, rolling and palpating the glands on either side. After checking my urethra, clitoris, and hood, he inserts two fingers into my vagina, with the other hand on my belly. Here, he palpates above my umbilicus, around my upper and lower abdominal area and finally, around my uterus and ovaries before withdrawing slightly and instructing me to bear down.
I suppose I was hesitant to find gyno play appealing because I was put off by the speculum and rectal portions of the examination. It's rather refreshing to realize that you can have as much of something as you want, that life among fetishes is an adventure of which you are the kid in a candy store and grab a bag taking a few of these and a few of those to culminate in the best flavored treats when you get them home...I believe that the practice of OBGYN is an art as well as a science. The hand touching for me is particularly meaningful in the scenes I do because it denotes care, consideration, and curiosity—all things that when they come together in large and loving quantities, usually means an artist is behind it. Above all, feeling and knowing that my reproductive organs are in such loving hands, someone with whom I’d like to have a child with someday, is really one of the best feelings in the world.
I would also like to add as one further thought—that while I’m very excited to explore this new stuff, I respectfully request that if you choose to comment on this post, please do not say things like "would be better with recto/speculum you've got to try them they're so much fun, I do it's the only way to go, you're not being thorough enough, this is why the doctor has to do these tests, it’s incomplete, etc." Who knows, I may be into those things someday, but there's a better chance of recruiting me to those activities if I'm not goaded and left to explore and discover things on my own. On the other hand, if YOU paint me a picture of why those things turn you on I am more than eager to read and learn about the reasons why people like the things they like when it comes to those special things that make us tingle.
I'm a writer, feminist, and doula nerd, so you'd be helping me generate new ideas and inspiration.
Really glad to start a journey with a new, and highly enjoyable challenge!