I am a full time sub. I wear a collar almost all the time and am on a leash when ever my mistress decides she wants it. She is not cruel or mean and does not humiliate me. But she is firm when I need to be punished she administers it to me. Punishment has is mostly spanking with a strap or a whip although at times she has put me in restraints and made me wear leg irons and handcuffs sometimes for the whole day.
Once a week I get a maintenance spanking. Its very Saturday night at 8 PM. At dinner she usually tells me what she will use and then I have to bring it to her for the session. She'll say "tonight we'll use the strap." Or sometimes its the belt or the switch. She has a paddle but I rarely get that. So if its the strap I know that at 8 PM I have to present myself to her with the strap. Its a genuine spanking strap she bought one time when we were in London together. She found a store and took me there. Before we went in she put me on my leash so the people in the store knew what it was about. She asked the sales woman if they carried punishment instruments and was told yes. Then she said, "its for this young man with me for his training." The woman suggested a leather strap with a handle. She said they come in different lengths and recommended a shorter one for over the knee spankings and a longer one for when I was bent over a chair or something similar. She explained that these were the kind still used in English boarding schools. She volunteered that "I went to a girls' school and can attest that these straps are very effective. I had many strappings with both sizes both in school and at home." So my mistress bought one of each.
Tonight I brought her the long one. When I first started my training with her she had me start wearing panties for the weekly sessions. She told me "you'll be spanked weekly. You will also start wearing panties. Tonight I'll give you some to wear for your first maintenance spanking."
So I put on fresh panties and report to her room with the strap and my leash. Usually I'm not restrained but if she decides to restrain me she will tell me to put on the leg and ankle cuffs before I report to her. If not, I report to her and without saying anything I give her the strap and ask if she will please give me twenty firm strokes for my training. I then remove whatever outer clothing I have one. She then takes the leash and leads me to the chair or the spanking bench. I then bend over the bench and I have to ask her "please give me 10 on my panties and ten with my panties off." I then have to grip the chair and she starts. I have to count each stroke. "One, another please mistress." After I have counted out ten, I ask her to please let me pull my panties down. I then pull then down and bend back over the chair. She proceeds to give me the next ten strokes. When she is finished I remain in position while she rubs some oil on my behind to sooth the sting. "Now go get the diaper and plastic panties." I do so and take my panties off and lay on the bed. She diapers me and hands me the tight plastic panties. Always on Saturday nights I sleep in her room. I am either tethered with a long chain leash attached to my collar, long enough so that I can get up to the bathroom if I wake up and don't wet my diaper. Other times she puts me in leg shackles with a long chain attached to a ring on one of her bed posts.
A punishment spanking if different then a maintenance spanking. I am always put in restraints. I have to ask her to use the strap or the whip to help me learn not to make mistakes or learn not to be a bad boy. There are always more strokes and they are harder.
Whenever we go to visit her friends or her relatives I have to pack one of the straps and my restraints. One time we were at her cousin's and she told me that it was Saturday night and I'd be getting my maintenance spanking as usual. I had neglected to pack the strap. She attached the leash to my collar and led me into the kitchen where her cousin was preparing dinner. "This young man forgot to pack the strap. I need something to give him his weekly spanking." Her cousin had known about the mistress-sub relationship since it started. She didn't have a sub but was a dominant wife and regularly punished her husband. Her two teen children also received regular spankings when they got out of line. "I'll give you the strap I use on the twins or you can use one of the belts I also use for spanking." Mistress chose the belt. "Come with me young man." She invited her cousin to watch and to see how obedient I was. She led me into the bedroom we shared. I took my light shorts off and asked her to please give me a beating for my training and give me extra strokes for forgetting the strap. I bent over the bed and she then proceeded to give me ten strokes. Without me asking she pulled my panties down and asked her cousin if she would like to give me that next 10. Naturally she agreed. I then had to ask her to please give me ten strokes and five extra for forgetting. I had never been spanked by her and quickly learned that she really knew how to do it. She laid ten very hard strokes on me plus the five extras. When she was done I was allowed to put my panties back on. I put on a loose shirt but stayed in just panties for the rest of the evening. I was also on the leash. Bed time came and I was diapered and allowed to stay up a bit and watch tv with her cousin, her two teens and I had on only a t-shirt and a diaper and plastic panties.