Is there any way to tell if someone has a medical fetish?

Soooo, I was wondering, is there any way to tell if someone has a medical fetish, like, how they react to some things? Or is there a symbol or anything to show that someone is "one of us"? I'd love to meet people with common interests but I don't go around saying about having such fetish and the other person won't let me know, either. So there are chances that someone I know has similar interest and I'll perhaps never find out, that upsets me.

This topic has been discussed before with regard to medfet, BDSM and enemas.

The ideas of bandanas, hankies, pins and the like have all been proposed.

If you saw me and met me in the town I live in, you would never think I was anywhere as perverted as I am. I have a formal reputation to uphold, partly because of my nursing license, partly because I have children in the school system and partly because of my husband's business dealings.

There isn't any way to tell by looking. You have to actually bring up tyne topic.

Susie, don’t you think that just about everyone would be at least a little shocked at how perverted most people are if we really knew what was going on in someone else’s mind and/or bedroom? Of course I should amend that statement for this website from bedroom to; kitchen floor, car hood, church pews, dungeons, etc.

I have friends from college, former roommates, and frat brothers that would shock most people if they had any idea what we did when we were younger. A few I know are still into some pretty serious kink. These are people from various professions, some are even public officials. I think the best may be a girl I knew from college that we nicknamed “Hoover”; she now owns a religious articles store. But that one does make sense really, most guys said “Oh God yes, yes!” when they were with her.

Probably good that we don’t wear anything identifying us as being a bit kinky.

Maybe this is self delusional, maybe, like most people, I have the knack for making my actions and thoughts seem more benign and normal than they actually are.

I don't really hide my erotic book collection or medical instruments - I just keep them amongst the other myriad shelves of books and magazines I have and everything is in plain sight, though often 'lost' among all the other things. So when every now and then friends and acquaintances do notice these things, it seems like I am easily identified and labelled as a being just too obsessive about my interests.

But then, I too hear gossip or stories about these same friends and acquaintances, about their sexual escapades and misadventures and then I am the one who is amazed and flabbergasted beyond measure at what they all get up to in private, without any outward signs or portents of their behavior. And this includes some very serious stuff too that has ended up in divorces and even suicide. And then I have to ponder about my relatively harmless interest in medfet that goes no further than imagining and collecting and participating in forums like this one here.

I know they think me obsessed, but that is only because I don't really hide it. But then the other prim and proper types who engage in their private longings and desires, seem to be able to do so out of sight. Maybe I'm naive and don't see or notice, but still - there just doesn't really seem to be an identifier or outward characteristic that allows us to be easily pegged or identified.

And you're right about how shocked I sometimes am at how callous and egoistically perverted some people really are in private.

I would suggest hinting or joking using a word or phrase related to your kink, and note there reaction. By the way the person response you can judge in a subtle way if that exited then.