Is the number or time announced before hand?
I'm usually told how many I will get, depending on what earned them, if possible my spanking is usually given as soon as possible. If it's more than an a hand spanking, I'm asked to get the paddle, ext, then undressed waste down and asked why I'm getting spanking and then told to lye down or put over the knee. Usually by the end crying and told to stand in the corner. Sometimes if further punishment is warranted then carried out before I can do anything else
Depends but with a new person, I prefer a count, usually 50, delivered very slowly so that the heat has time to flow between each spank.
That sounds like fun
I prefer to have my bottom count. This gives them some indication of what's yet to come. If they don't count a stroke or forget, it starts over.
When I get paddled I usually know ahead of time how many swats I am going to get (anywhere from 3 - 6) but when getting spanked bare bottom I have no clue how many times my bottom is gonna get spanked.
Spanked as a child mom would just tare my ass up, I guess until she thought it was enough, as a teen I was paddled by an aunt and she would always say you are getting 10 swats on you bare butt, as an adult I was paddled by a women who would say the same. I also when self paddling I always determine the number of swats I give myself.
Now my spankings are usually a surprise. I never know how many and they are never timed.
When being caned i have to count the strokes if i lose concentration it starts again i often lose count by number 8 as i am crying and and dealing with the pain but it still starts again i am a slow learner!
For maintenance spanking we set a timer for 2 to 5 minutes of fairly hard hand spanking. My girlfriend has a very high pain tolerance so that doesn't even phase her a bit.
Erodic spanking since its neither discipline or maintenance it's just playful nothing formal.
Discipline spanking are something totally different. There is time limit, no swat limit, no safe word, no protection and while sometimes there may be a warm up with my hand there is no build up, it's hard and fast from the very start and stays that way through the whole spanking. It's a "shock and Awe" beginning. Discipline spanking are always, very hard, fast (no pauses between swats) and lengthy (it doesn't end quickly).
Never as a child, never as an adult. However the length and severity are usually foreseeable from the spanker's attitude.
Never as a child or adult. I was spanked until I was crying enough to satisfy the spank-er and sorry for what I had done or how red my hiney was.
When I receive them, it's usually go with the flow until it appears I've learned my lesson, but I count along the way and it's only over once we get to a round "set number" 60 and 72 are common. When I give a spanking, I usually specify a count ahead of time and adjust intensity if it doesn't appear to be working. That, and additional strokes if I deem necessary.
My husband tells me how many swats and if I hold in position he sticks to it...my experience is between 3-10 on my bare
I thought I had replied, but definitely never had any announcement of numbers growing up. Always had a good cry and I don't think he would have stopped before then. For me it was effective and I don;t think I ever had marks. (though I never checked but certainly never felt it the next day). I heard of plenty that got a set number but always thought it felt odd. I still like to have no idea what is coming to me this day.
Growing up, we usually got twice our ages with mom's HEAT FOR THE SEAT paddle. Most of the time, we were not told that there would be extras, until we were over her lap with our pants down. Those extra 10 or 20 were added if the crime was considered more serious.
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When I get spanked is is always unlimited swats and no time limit. It is alway on the bare and it does not even began until I have lost my composure and began crying freely.
I just go with the flow when my sub needs his ass paddled. Spankings are not a turn on so I try to not break him when I do give one. His wiggling, ass color, and whimpers tell me when he's had enough, then I go just a few more hearty swats(with my hand or leather strap). Just to show who is in control.
I go with the flow if there is a # attached to the spanking then it is adhered to if not it’s when the spanker decides I’ve had enough.... a good spanker will know otherwise a safe word is used
When I was given my corrections, there were no set time or number limits. I was spanked until my mother felt the lesson was sufficient. After, I was consoled and allowed to regain my composure against the wall.
After my parents did it, I wanted to kill them. But after my Domme did it, I just wanted to tip her.
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