How did you get into BDSM?

Are you still with your first Dom/Sub

I'm not a dom or sub, I'm a true switch. I'm still active with the organization I started with, but not with every play partner I've had.

I've always had BDSM fantasies, but didn't explore reality until my divorce from a VERY vanilla wife.

Well one night running the town I run into this real tall black man which I have a weakness for who talked me into coming to his house for some fun and well it ended up me laying there and him trying to stretch me out and he said I own you now your mine well at that age I kinda got scared and left well he followed mefor a while stalking like a week or two until one day I finally stopped running in which he apologized for scaring me and in the end I went back home with him and was his for about a month before I left him alone again he unlocked the sub in me and my kink only grew from there chasing experience.. I haven't seen him since mydom now was pretty well vanilla when I got with him five years ago and well I ruined that lol...

I started by tying my friends up to the kitchen chairs with my jump ropes that I brought into the den when I was around 11 years old. I got really good at it and by high school, I had amassed a hundred or so feet of rope and I was tying up everybody. It practically became my pre-requisite for the boys who wanted to have sex with me.

Im into BDSM but not in a classical sense as I dont care for sub/dom.

I guess it started with really submissive fantasies but then I realized its more a gender dynamic thing Im into.. different but equal and I really enjoy playing around with it now. I love very strong, dominant men who know what they want but also respect what I want and them taking the lead is just hot.

I'd quite like to get into the scene, does anyone have any advice on how to find a master in the UK?