Enjoy play exams, not real ones

I really have to wonder if some people are just wired certain ways.

Now to explain where it stems from .....I really dont know but thats fine with me 😉

I think these two quotes from you explain the source of this (and most other) fetishes. Where does this fetish come from: The answer is that some people are just wired that way. I think it's as simple as that.

I see these kinds of reactions all the time especially with gynecology....there is a lot of melodrama around the subject. When you read a narrative reported as a real life scenario where the doctor rushes straight away for his rectal thermometer and enema bag no one gets too upset or counters that maybe this is just a really tremendously big stretch of the truth. But with a gynecological exam suggesting arousal or stimulation on either the doctor or patient invokes a visceral reaction more often than it should.

In reality women do experience stimulation even if they don't care for the exam...doesn't always happen but sometimes it does. Same goes for the doctor. Doesn't mean he takes it to the next level of molestation but there is no magic on off button when it comes to sexual arousal. It an happen intentionally or spontaneously during sleep. It's a biological function and not the same as arousal arising from emotion.

Maybe Jane Doe has never experienced arousal during an exam but that does not mean it does not happen. And yes ....doctors do get aroused while performing an exam, does not mean it happens all the time, does not mean they act on it or even show it...but it happens. I've been in the exam room many times and seen all this occur at one point or another both ways. Admittedly it's not all that common though. And yes sometimes a woman is interested in being aroused during a real exam and yes sometimes a doctor intends to get aroused while performing an exam....and...sometimes they don't

The reaction of the commenter is a psychological giveaway - the line of...."I'm a real doctor and I could never ever get excited" while performing an exam probably means that the person is not real...maybe wants to be...probably is highly turned on by this scenario...and is guilty about being turned on....so they go to great lengths to deny that "they" could ever be turned on. Same thing for the woman who says how awful and weird it would be to get aroused during a real exam.....if it were no big deal then she would simply say not my cup of tea and move on.....instead the dramatic argument against it makes it quite likely that she in fact has been aroused during a real exam...is ashamed to admit it...thinks it's weird, whatever...and goes to great lengths to say well "that could never happen to me"

This is basic human psychology ... if you watch how these conversation go you'll start seeing this trend everywhere. Interesting stuff

I'm with the OP, Sue, Marc and a few others. If anyone has a true medical fetish here it's me. But when I am at the real doctors even when I am at Doc's office I do not ever find it a turn on. Why don't I? That's easy, for one I have white coat syndrome, and secondly I'm there because something is wrong with me. Have I been turned on in his office? Yes I absolutely have but never during real legit office hours when I am there for medical care. Off hours, well that's a different story, lol.

Mashie

I do not ever find it a turn on. Why don't I? That's easy, for one I have white coat syndrome, and secondly I'm there because something is wrong with me.

I was under the impression that in the US, yearly exams are considered normal, expected even. That you go whether there is something wrong with you or not. And that most of the time, with these kind of yearly exams, people go to them irregardless of feeling well or not. That eliminates the anxiety factor ...

I typically go to the doctors every three months if only to just get medication refills and every time it still scares me, even if the doctor is my Doc. It still happens. So for me, sick or not no matter what the reason I am at the doctors office I still get very nervous and scared. I believe it comes from growing up in Amishville USA where when I was 12 or 13 I had all of my baby teeth pulled out to make room for my adult teeth to come in. No anesthetic was used at all. They were just pulled. And ever since then I have been afraid of people in white coats or people in charge of me medically speaking.

Mashie

. . . I had all of my baby teeth pulled out to make room for my adult teeth to come in. No anesthetic was used at all. . . . Mashie

My daughter, "The Mouth" (physicist) kept her baby teeth until there was only one collagen fiber left holding it in the gum. One time when she was about seven, one baby tooth was so loose she could push it around her mouth with her tongue so we thought she should try once to have us remove it for her so she could decide if she wanted us to do that for her with other baby teeth when they got extremely loose.

I told her it would bother her less than a mosquito bite. I held the tooth with a tissue to remove it from the gum and four red blood cells (I counted them 😁 😁 ) were exuded. She cried and never had us do that again.

And that most of the time, with these kind of yearly exams, people go to them irregardless of feeling well or not. That eliminates the anxiety factor ...

Age also plays a factor in eliminating anxiety brought on by fear of disease. If you are young and going for a routine physical, chances are very likely that no disease will be discovered. This frees the mind to wander into the realm of eroticism. You become keenly aware that you are naked and being touched. This is something that is inherently arousing, despite puritanical teachings to the contrary. You begin to associate physical exams with sex, as physical exams bear many of the hallmarks of sex. You are naked and vulnerable. Someone is touching you, especially with respect to the genitals and other erogenous areas. You may come to view the doctor as a surrogate partner. This opens up Pandora's Box regarding how you view the relationship you have constructed. Are you attracted to the doctor? Are you ashamed of the feelings that you are experiencing? Does the gender or age of the physician compound the shame? Do you feel dominated? Do you begin to associate being dominated with sex? These connections we make have a lasting impact on how we view sex and what causes us to become aroused.

I will say that there are times during a Gyne visit that I have become aroused and I way embarrassed at the time. However I have been a nurse for over 35 years and can honestly say that I have NOT ever been aroused by any of the patients that I have taken care of, Probably because I have worked in critical care.

When I have role played and took the Doctor/Nurse role I do not find it arousing, in fact it seems just like more work. Put me in the patient role however and I can become aroused easily.

I think not only how you are "wired" but also your experiences influence your responses.

I have only played online. Yes, I do not get turned on by my real doctor. But, I find pelvic exams when I play online to be quite enjoyable

I understand why most people don't find medical exams erotic.

But I'm curious as to why someone would find his or her way to this site if not at least somewhat turned on by medical fetish.

But I'm curious as to why someone would find his or her way to this site if not at least somewhat turned on by medical fetish.

Because there are sections on zity that address other matters, like enemas, cross-dressing, spanking, punishments and general sexual subjects.

There are many aspects of human sexuality that are discussed here, not only medical fetish.

Yeah, there is a variety of kinks here - even in multiple languages!