Most embarrassing age

Had to be 14 or 15 form me. I was a very late bloomer, I think it had alot to do with how my mother vived me and treated me. I was nerve given any privacy at home, baths accurate temps and the bag were the norm. Some little boys just never grow up

For me, there is no such age as being a late bloomer and questionable in my puberty development, I understand the necessity of it, more so than some others. So, it didn't matter much that I had to fully strip for it at 13, had my balls rolled in doctor's hand, and a few stroke on the penis (to test its responsiveness/sensitivity --- I didn't get hard though).

In general i would say the puberty years. I was late in puberty development so i got very shy, when all my friends started to have changing bodies and mine still looked preteen.

I have felt embarrassed at RL exams at many different ages in my life, as it sort of was due to a particular doctor doing or not doing something or in a particular situation during the exam process. I have written about many of these situations in other posts I have made. However, I think the times during puberty were among the most embarrassing as well as when I received my first prostate exam. I am a great advocate for explaining to children just before they enter puberty as to what will be happening to their bodies before it happens. I truly believe that would help them understand better and might eliminate some of their traumatic embarrassment when it does actually happen and they don't understand what is going on. I wish "the talk" had been given to me before entering puberty so I would have been better prepared as to what would be happening to my body.

I would say between 12-14 when a girl is really starting to develop. That's how it was for me anyway.

Embarrassing for me was not about my age; but about an era - in the 1990 when I was doing full body shaving, and back then men shaving their bodies hadn't become acceptable like it is today. So being seen at the doctor's with my shaved body was very embarrassing.

I would say teen years because my step mother insisted on being present until I turned 16. She even watched the genital exam and hernia check and forced me to go to my step sisters female pediatrician because it was “more convenient” for her.

I would say teen years because my step mother insisted on being present until I turned 16.

@Badgy1 That sounds really awkward for you.

Probably about 14-16

That cusp of puberty was definitely the most embarrassing age for me. I didn't understand my body, certainly couldn't control an erection and never knew whether or not my mom and/or younger siblings would be in the exam room with me.

Plus, it was when my testicular cyst was diagnosed so not only was my pediatrician spending more time down there, but I had three visits with a pediatric urologist.

Although I was not late in puberty, I felt very embarrassed during puberty, especially at the beginning when I started growing pubic hair. I thought at that time that I was a big boy and why I was still treated like a little boy.

I think also that it is between 14 and 16

Kulemh " it is why I presume that the most embarrassing mortifying military physical examination that you had three times was the first at 14 age or the second at 16 age because the set up was not already known by you and you were at the age where it was the most embarrassing( even if it was may be worst as regards modesty or privacy the last time at 18 age ?

"KC patient " do you have your mother or younger siblings present in the exam room at the doctor'office when you were examined between 14 and 16 age ?

"Bagdy 1" you could not complain to your dad about the presence of your step mother in the exam room until 16 age, In my opinion at least in a far past it was quite normal for doctors athat a mother was present but a step mother iis different, she was a little like a stranger

how old was your step sister when you were going to see a female pediatrician with her and your step mother ? how old was the doctor ? Were you examined naked in front of the girl and your step mother with comments of the doctor, while you might go out like it was frequent when it was the time to examin your step sister ? did your step sister teased at you after the exam if she had seen you naked ?

@esaterman , yes, it was a requirement that a child up to 16 was examined in the presence of a parent. For me usually it was my mum or granny or on one occasion when I was 15 it was my dad.

"KC patient" do you have your mother or younger siblings present in the exam room at the doctor'office when you were examined between 14 and 16 age ?

No. By then, the nurses and my mom had a bit more respect for my privacy and I was examined alone.

For me, it was age 13 to 14 but puberty in general is embarrassing time

Well this does not happen to everyone, but it does happen to a lot of boys.

It is the age at which you have little to no control over your penis, you find yourself getting erections all throughout the day, in weird places like math class. So put a boy at that period in his life in a doctor's office and tell him to take off all of his clothes and have the doctor touch every inch of him and he is bound to get an erection during his examination. The first time is certainly the most nerve racking.

"Kulemh "

I presume that you are talking in your last message (where you mentioned the presence of your mom, or grandmother or father ) of school exams and not your military physical examinations at 14 and 16 age, because I presume that no parent was allowed to be present

so how were carried on your school physical examinations ( or may be you talked of private exams at a doctor' s office

For me the most embarrassing age was my examination when i was 13 years old.

It is interesting to read that a lot of people were embarrassed by the fact they started puberty.

At that time i was anxious that it didn't start at all. All my friends in that time already showed signs of puberty.

My pediatrician told me that if I didn't hit puberty by a certain age, I should visit him again.

About 10-11, when I have my 1st period and the pediatrician ask me about that, and after I lost my virginity and so he said I could deal with his finger inside me. My mom liked a old male pediatrician, so every genital’s exam was very embarassing.

For me it was 13. I was starting to become a woman. So some privacy was important to me.

For me the worst age was between 12 and 17. Clearly it depends on the type of visit and above all whether you feel sick or not. When I felt bad, certain embarrassments honestly disappeared.

Had the routine ones growing up and they were all very embarrassing. claimingAs difficult not to get an erection , especially with underwear around thighs while he held my balls and I coughed. But I think they could be erotic at any age honestly. With the right play partner and setup..

Easily right as puberty started, which for me was like 12-13 as it was when my parents noticed the changes as first my mom took me for exams then it was my father.

I would have to say the ones during/just after puberty when I was getting pubic hair and having hair-trigger erections were the most embarrassing, particularly after my pubic hair was fully grown in.

Any touching of my genitals or even near them during that time caused an immediate/full, rock hard erection (I should be so lucky these days). Had very thick pubes back then which contributed to thr embarrassment. Now I'm very sparsely pubed.

@doctordave

I also had an experience a little similar, but just the urine part. When I was younger than puberty, like 8-9, me and my twin sister had a bad case of the flu. Our mother took us there and it was all the normal checks, but then the male pediatrician told our mother for each of us to pee in the jar. The doctor would usually be there for this but this time he left for something. I remember I was so pee shy even though my sister did it in front of me (we were chill twins) and my mom had my penis in her hand saying hurry up. I only had peed a little and the doctor was back. He took my sister’s sample and my sister was teasing me and I finally let enough pee for the test. The doctor took that too and we got medication and left the clinic. It wasn’t sexual or anything but just weird and before puberty I always went to the doctor with my sister anyway.

I would have to say the ones during/just after puberty when I was getting pubic hair and having hair-trigger erections were the mist embarrassing, particularly after my pubic hair was fully grown in.

Any touching of my genitals or even near them during that time caused an immediate/full, rock hard erection (I should be so lucky these days). Had very thick pubes back then which contributed to thr embarrassment. Now I'm very sparsely pubed.

Honestly I’d say it all depends on the person and their level of confidence about medical stuff and how they feel about their body, and to a certain extent what’s being done and what’s being examined. For me personally I wasn’t so bothered as a kid as long as my mum was there. If I had to pick the time that would have been most embarrassing for me it would have been as a teen, yet I had many non-embarrassing doctor visits for minor stuff that didn’t really need an exam that made me feel embarrassed or self-conscious. Anything to do with auscultation and I’d have got a load in my pants and quite possibly shot it during the exam, so that would have made me die a little inside despite on some level being immeasurably cool, or even better if I held it and managed to wait until I got home to sort it out, but sadly I never got sick with anything that required it after about age 9. So yeah, probably some age in the middle of my teenage when my hormones were at peak ‘dirtbag-will-do-anything-to-get-off’ would have been most embarrassing for me. It’s no wonder I like age play and medfet mixed together!

For me I can tell you exactly. It was 12, because I don't remember being examined before that age so I don't remember it being an issue before then. My father was a physician so he always took care of any medical issues that came up.

For some reason that changed when I was in middle school, maybe it was a school thing, I don't know.

But I got sent to a pediatrician, and making things worse, she was the mother of a friend of mine (small town, so all the doctors families knew each other). I had slept over at their house plenty of times. And it being the 1970s, pediatric exams at least in that office were done without clothes. And since a parent had to be in the room for the exam, and I had lost my mom, my aunt used to drive all us kids to our appointments.

So to the day I die I will remember being 12 and having to undress completely in front of Mrs. K and my Aunt Fran, and having them both reassure me that it is totally normal for boys to get an erection like that.

45 years later, I still blush.

I’d say teenage years and anything to do with puberty.

For me…it definitely started at 12. And every exam til I was 18, had some kind of embarrassing moment or talk about growth and development.

Embarrassing in the moments but fun to think back and talk about. If you wanna talk more….just ask! I love talking about embarrassing exams and embarrassing moments during them, especially during puberty years.

Definitely the teenage / high school years! You're body is changing, getting hair in places that you didn't expect to get hair. Getting erections any second. A doc touching your body as you lay on the table in your underwear...erection!