Thinking Like a Hypocrite Sometimes

We've come a long way baby!

As I've gotten older, and hopefully a bit wiser, (I believe I have gotten wiser) I think about how many things I have learned, and learned of. Like in the world of kink, and fetishes.

Hell, I've learned a lot about my own diaper fetish, which I have had since I was a toddler. I didn't know what it was for a long time.

But I learned what it was, and that it was something not just about me, that other were involved too. This made things feel better for me, understanding it!

All that self learning aside for a moment. I sometimes find myself looking at things others are into, or things other people like to do, and sometimes make a quick judgement.

This is in my head, and part of my thought process however, because then another part of me says, wait a minute! How can I judge what someone else likes and is into, when I want other people not to wrongly judge what I do? And of course, this is all based on when what you do does not hurt someone else. That's my big equalizer, "if it ant hurting anyone else". Why should I think like a hypocrite, and say what someone else does is weird or worse, WRONG?

I've come a long way. I can remember being back in school, and how it was still not safe for homosexuals to be out in the open about themselves.

I use to think how hard it was, for someone who was (homosexual), and had to keep it secret, and how I had my own diaper fetish secret, and how much I didn't or wouldn't want that out there. I learned it was of the same kind of thing. The fear was anyway.

So now, I always try and not snap judge what others like, and a lifestyle they chose for themselves.

Do you sometimes think like a hypocrite?

I'm sure I've done it more times than I want to really count. Being on zity has helped me to be a more open and forgiving person. Forgiving in that what one does and enjoys is fine, it may not be my thing, but it is someone else. It may do similar or better things for them that the kinks that I enjoy. Why should I be so petty and cruel as to make "fun" of their kinks. Heck there are way to many in the world that would make "fun" of mine.

It's like what they say for antique collecting. For everything there is a collector. For every possible fetish there is someone who adores it.

Well I think we've all come a long way over the years. I know that I certainly have. Nothing anyone does offends me anymore--as long as all of the participants are willing.