A much needed enema

I have a question regarding the use of enemas for constipation. I have used enemas strictly for erotic pleasure for years, the result of having received enemas as a child). I enjoy giving as well a receiving and fanaticize regularly about seeing women I know give themselves enemas. Yesterday, I finally had to do one for relief and received absolutely no erotic pleasure from it – in fact, it was difficult.

After four days of Lortab following surgery, I found myself tied up as can be expected from pain relievers. Using only about 1 quart of warm water and the douche pipe, I kneeled by the tub, inserted the pipe and managed about half the bag before the peristalsis was almost too severe to overcome. Unable to continue, I sat on the toilet, but relief was not immediate as it still required considerable effort to pass what felt like a tree trunk, BUT IT WORKED, nonethelesss!!

My question is this – is there a better way to do an enema for 3 day constipation? Although it worked well, I was unable to hold this long enough to "loosen things up" and make it more comfortable. I would have preferred a little more pleasure and a lot less 'work.' Any advice?

Start with about 1 pint, hold for a few minutes, expel. Then, 2 pints, hold a few minutes and expel. Then three pints, hold a few minutes, then expel. Then four pints, hold a few minutes, then expel.

Do not try to get in a lot of water all at once. Loosen everything up a little at a time. It will be easier to get the water in and hold it while the feces is loosened up.

I would have done an oil retention enema, fleets brand oil type and hold it fir as long as u can or I'd no cramps 30-60 min. It softens the stool and also lubs the anal area. Then follow with ss or tap water enema and the results are relief.

Most enemas are not pleasant in and of themselves. The pleasant part is the feeling after it's over.

The worse you need it the harder it is!!