Erection difficulties

Hi, have been using enemas and a lot of anal stuff as a sexual stimulant for years, the effect is wearing off and im finding my errection has become quite weak, to the point that intercourse might not be possible, especially anal which ive loved to do.

Tried viagra and levitra, sort of helped but good points were outweighed by the bad........badly blocked nose due to blood vessels in that enlarging too !!

Anyone had these probs and found an alternative medication of any sort that helped ? ive heard of horny goat weed but never tried.

After my bowel resection, chemo. and radiation, I too had erection problems. Add 3 antihypertention meds. and it got worse. I tried all the Viagra type meds and no help. I did buy a vacuum pump and it works, but it's a big hassle. Going solo, with water flowing, I can cum by massaging the glans penis with lube and a mental image of a female; no erection needed. Ejaculation is weaker now, but age is also a probable factor. A retired urologist friend told me that the radiation basically wrecked my prostate. Since I don't want to stroke, I take my blood pressure meds. Wife is post-menopausal and has no interest, especially with the complications of the vacuum pump, so I go solo with the bag and mental imaging--sometimes I cum and sometimes not.

Wish I could be more helpful. I really envy those guys in their 70's who still can get it up and finish.

Non the less, the water flowing in still feels great.

Hey guys, don't give up! At 81 I deal with "semi's" but they work enough to satisfy both my Lady and me. I too, tried all the pills....then went to the 'shot', Trust me, one really thinks hard before sticking a needle in one's dick. It didn't do any better. My new wife (now 4 years) talked about it and decided that cuddle, licky-face boob suck'in and general fooling around brought Mr. Wiggly up enuff to penetration and once in was able to do the job.

My point is, take your time....lots and lots of pre-screw luv-makin and things will start to rise. Be patient. Enjoy.

the boxcar

A radical prostatectomy in '95 was the begining of my ED problems. Like many others, the Viagra did nothing but give me headaches. I used Muse penile suppositories but the burning side effects turned me off and they only worked about 1/2 the time. As a regular enema user for pleasure, I found that my enjoyment decreased after the prostatectomy. I still use them and enjoy them but not as much as before. I just started to give Cialis a try and after 3 successful uses (free sample), I've decided to get my doc to write me a prescription. Keeping my fingers crossed that they continue to work for me. I'm 71 now and not ready to give up.

I've been using Cialis 5mg a day, prescribed for BPH. It's pretty damn good. I feel like I have the genitals of a 40 year ol. I pee better and have better erections. Win-win. Not perfect but better. I get mine generic from Canada. The cash price is less than my copay here.