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From my experience the heavier stuff definitely has some advantages (easier to clean too!)
When I started wearing plugs for longer periods of time (not just playing, indoors) I went through a lot of trial and error to find out what worked for me. The outside flanges are definitely a problem sometimes.
I've tried a bunch of different ones but the middle size at this site is my favorite Like, really! my favorite! (www.plugsforfun.com). They’ve got a couple stainless steel plugs I was going to buy the bigger size but figured I’d try the middle one. Kinda glad I did because I can also do in and out with it when I start getting turned on (and wearing it around I definitely do get turned on!) For me the bigger size might not be as comfortable in motion but I’m sure what I think is perfect might be too small for some folks.
Got turned on to this one around the end of last summer and my other wear-outside ones have pretty much sat in the closet since then. It's got a waterpoof lube stash inside so you can take it out and put back anywhere if the need comes up. Dont' have to carry lube around--really takes some of the hassle out of it. And you can wash it off and the lube inside is not affected (there's a seal to keep the stuff inside).
Anyway I like the feel of this one for wearing a long time and going to work and shopping and out at night. It's like the pleasure is more inside than than with my butthole itself--at least when I'm not moving it around. Its got a little handle on it that is helpful but it also adds 1/2 or 3/4 of inch to the outside part and when I'm sitting down sometime it just drives me wild. It also stays put no problem. They’ve got a littler one that I’m going get to get for playing with my sweetie. She’s on the fence about all this stuff (thinks the one I bought is too big for her) but with some other smaller ones she’s liking it as long as I start slow and gentle with her.
One other thing about this one—this is the only plug I have that I like to keep in after I come. All my others, after I’m done out it comes. Sometimes with this one it’s that way but usually it just keeps on feeling good.