Anal pleasures

I think anal play was my first sexual obsession, and I've had a very active interest in sex since I was very young. I can't remember a time when sex was not an interest. Of course I didn't know a thing about it, or that it was supposed to be something taboo, but that got drilled into my pretty fast. I just knew that it felt good. So I grew up harboring secrets and living them out when possible by myself. I'm all grown up now and I don't feel that shame that was instilled in me as a child, at least not as much. The best thing has been finding others who share the same fascinations and being able to live them out for real.

There is absolutely nothing gay or bi about enjoying anal play, it just requires some additional attention to detail.

The problem of course, especially for most men, is finding a female partner who agrees and who is happy to accommodate.

I too was in my early teens when i started with solo anal play,to this day it is mostly solo but my fiance is very understanding and has even pegged me once.

Anal play is just another way of enjoying sexual pleasure, so there's nothing gay or bu about it. Although I am straight, but I enjoy it very much.

My very first sexual feelings were associated with my asshole. I must have been two or three, and remember that touching myself down there with the tip of my finger felt absolutely great. However my caregivers (mother and aunts) discouraged it, explaining that it was dirty and full of germs because of poop. I remember understanding the arguments, but continued to enjoy touching myself there anyway.

Soon I tried to insert thin objects (the first was a lollipop stick when I was around five), but had difficulty doing so because the concept of lubricant took time to cross my mind. Eventually I realized that spit would do the trick. I then quickly "graduated" to pencils, pens, and other thin, and appropriately shaped, objects. Then, to not so thin objects.

I must have been eight when I discovered my mother's douche bulb and enema equipment on a high shelf in the bathroom closet. Somehow I knew what they were for, and that was how I discovered the joys of enemas and even larger anal insertions. I soon found out that orgasms, great as they were, took on a higher dimension when anal play was also involved. I've been anal erotic ever since, and I continue to enjoy anal play even more than I did in childhood.

Over the years some of the women in my life enjoyed ass play while others absolutely hated it. Those who liked it did so without reservations (although enemas were an issue with a few); of those who didn't like it, some would occasionally oblige to do the honors on me. But all of them resisted my getting close to their bums, let alone any sort of penetration with fingers or penis or other objects. I'm convinced it's basically because of the "poop issue".

Enjoying anal sex doesn't mean one has to be gay, its purely a feeling of pleasure and satisfaction.

I'm bi and since 10 years old i insert things i'm my hole. I like the best when a cis or trans lady fuck me.

I first got into anal play with my wife about 30 years ago. However, it was only me playing with her ass. I'm guessing it was about 21 years ago that I purchased my first butt plug. That was the true start of my interest in pleasuring my ass. My wife's interest in sex started to wane about 14 years ago and has been pretty much nonexistent for the past 9 years. It was during these last 14 years that I saw a huge increase in my anal fixation and playing with anal toys by myself. Because of several surgeries (heart and prostate cancer) I no longer can get an erection so the best nerve endings I have for sexual satisfaction are all located in my ass. Diabetic neuropathy has affected my feet and my dick. (I also lost 100% of my hearing in my left ear to diabetic neuropathy.) I try to satisfy those anal nerves 3 - 6 days a week with about 30 minutes of toy insertion as well as keeping a 12" double header inside for several hours. Anal play is not reserved for only gay men. The ass is a wonderful playground that will reward a person with untold delights if only given a chance. I wish now that in my younger years I wasn't so concerned with what I thought were societal taboos. I missed a lot of pleasure; and, more importantly, in those younger years I would likely have been more adventurous in discussing various anal sex activity with my wife.

Ever since I was little and had enemas administered to me I new that I had developed a real need to touch and be touched all over my body. When I was 18 and away at school, I rented a room from two nurses and they brought up enemas one time after I moved in and was settled. I had hung my enema bag in my bathroom and I guess one of them came in to clean or something and that night we were sitting at the dining room table and the owner of the house gave me a bag from the hospital where they both worked and she said "you might find this hospital kit a little more fun than what you have hanging in your bathroom."

The year was 1959 and the hospital enema bag had the sexiest rubber smell going and I cherished it for years. During those four years that I lived there, I had hundreds of enemas and developed such a need for my anal area to be manipulated and massaged and am fortunate that those needs are so beautifully fulfilled now by my wife who does it as professionally as the two nurses from my school days.

It is a very scary thing to open up to someone and tell them your innermost desires and experiences. I was terrified to open up to my, soon to be wife but then when I did, I found that she and her sister had both been raised by a mom who used enemas as frequently as my mom did. I think my mom took the advice of our pediatrician who was always dropping by when we were sick and never left without reminding mom to get out the enema bag and give us a "good enema" which she did post haste upon his departure.

He had delivered my two sisters and me and so he was almost part of the family and as I have mentioned elsewhere he always had a big cigar, often lit and smoldering while he examined us. He showed my mom the ins and outs of giving a "good enema." Looking back, I think he had the hots for her because he never showed up when my Dad was home and after they split up he showed up at the house twice as often. The sister 5 years older than me was the closest to me and she taught me a lot about anal pleasures too, all on the down low.

I am not at all gay but love anal pleasures. I am a regular butt plug user and love having my anus stretched and the full feeling of having a fairly large plug inside me. I am up to a 2.5 inch diameter plug and don't think I will go any bigger. I have never had a penis inside my butt but I guess if the right situation came about I might want to try but I am quite satisfied with my plugs. Bottom line is that enjoying toys in your butt does not mean your gay.

Can't get enough of it fingers small toys administered by a gentle lady love it

I'm not gay and just like just about everyone here love my ass played with. Live plugs and dildos and prostate stimulation. I love the comment about masturbation with a cock in my ass and visa versa.

With such a captive audience aboard Zity.biz, I'd have to say I'd enjoy from almost anyone aboard this site! Too little time to waste with our lives having a certain end at some time. Ditch all society's "labels" and enjoy your enema fetish wherever you can find it.

"I have worshiped at that altar where the back changes names." -- James Joyce

I absolutely love anal play. The sensations it gives are unlike any others. I just got the Slink toy from Squarepeg and am hooked on it. It penetrates the sigmoid colon every time on the first try. Before this I would have to work at getting my toys to go in but I have found the magic toy now. I can get the Slink in and not longer have ANY trouble getting my Colon Depth Probe in. It is like heaven.

I love anal play, both giving and recieving. A lover's finger or small toy in my rectum creates incredible feelings and greatly enhances my orgasms. In my opinion, and most sex educators, participating in anal play as a male does not indicate that you have homosexual tendencies. Your sexual identity is tied more to who you want to have sex with, than any certain sexual activity. The anus has many nerve endings, exteriorly, as well as internally, and is in close proximity to several muscles associated with the operation of the sexual organs. This alone makes it a natural to explore and generate sexual pleasure. I would think most who say they find anal eroticism unpleasant is either because they had a bad experience, or psychologically find it unpleasant.

What a great part of the anatomy, many uses and pleasures.

In reply to comment 16 with no name; the guy who talked about his grandpa logging. I'm thinking about what you said about not having to be gay to enjoy anal stimulation just because it feels so good and it doesn't automatically mean you are gay. I agree! You could have sex with a girl and have her do things to you anally and it wouldn't need to have anything to do with being gay.

On the other hand, I'm not so sure that you would have to have the capacity to be romantically inclined toward the same sex to be considered gay any more than enjoying sex with a girl that you had no romantic feelings for.

I have had sex with girls in the past and find girls sexy. I never thought about guys and didn't even think that I could even be Bi. It just didn't enter my mind. Somewhere along the way that changed. I still think they are sexy but, I have no desire to have sex with a girl. I have never had romantic feelings for a guy but, I now find them sexy! If I see a certain type of guy, especially with a nice package, I get excited and start undressing them with my eyes, just like I used to do with girls.

I'm not thinking of being in love with them but, I want to have sex with them. A guy's hard on is the sexiest thing in the world to me! I feel I am completely gay. I'm a Bottom and I have a special friend who is a Top. When we get together to do something, fishing or anything, I have to climb on and ride him to at least one or two orgasms before doing anything else or my mind would be to distracted to enjoy it.

I want to try a sodomizing .

Anal play is awesome! Have been enjoying it since preteen years! With a male

friend prior to interest in girls and mainly solo since! Recently discovered the pleasure generated by prostate stimulation as well as plugs! If you’ve never tried it, you’re missing out on a world of pleasure!

It feels so risky, admitting this interest to another person. It’s an extremely intimate exposure of oneself. I was ashamed growing up, thinking I was perverted for my interest in females’s bottoms.

But looking back, I’m always surprised how accepting and also interested in anal play most of my girlfriends and sexual partners were, all females. Some were ravenously into it. Some would discuss it like it was the most normal thing. Some were too shy to discuss it but their actions in bed showed how much they enjoyed it.

I discovered the joy of anal play when I was in my early teens. I quickly discovered masturbating was much better when I would rub and put a finger in my hole.