I demonstrated for my wife, but she did not find it amusing and it caused a large gap in which pillow talk of any kind of hiney hugging was offal. (Maybe because I ramped my butt up in the air for her to appreciate!)
But when we were kids it was usually a family affair from the start. Enema Time! It was a sub-theme in our family, and looked forward to for happiness. When farm life seemed unbearable, we needed something to recon against that took away some of the sting. Enemas were never bad as some have experienced, we had enough hardship already.
We enjoyed each others treatments in anticipation of our turn. When I was old enough to perceive their hardship, anything they came up with for fun was fully engaged. My brother and I would fight, of course. Dad got the job of slowing us down and keeping peace, especially in the milking barn. Momma was the comforter, and we would cry her name while taking our little beating. We were allowed to run to her afterward. If she was standing, I would bury my nose and breathe deeply taking in her comforting scent. This was the way, till our kind of farming failed because people quit producing the superior product we proudly offered to the creamery.
Often, when getting an enema reward, this scent was sought, anticipated, and deliberately taken. Mother felt it all worked together. We were hers and she was ours. None today have any possible notion of her strength and the strength they both gave us in each their own appointed place on the farm.
Big shots at school would try to put us down, to build themselves up in their own eye. But they had no relevance and our raising gave us an inner strength that just left them cold. I was not alone, We had our own little group. While we often bragged about our animals and work, we never mentioned secret pleasures, as the enema was sometimes referred to. I was caught peeing (Not in the school lavatory) and made an example of. So I was no dummy after that one!