How would you feel if you needed diapers for the rest of your life

For the last four days I have been diapered 24/4 - I have worn various diapers from high capacity pullups to Tena Slip Ultima and have come to the conclusion that at this time of year I prefer to be diapered than not diapered. That may change in the summer though as they can get uncomfortable at work when it is hot. For the first two days I didn't use the toilet apart from for pooping twice but yesterday I was in pullups so used the toilets. My conclusion therefore is that I am happy to be diapered 24/7 but would not be happy about wetting them all the time - I would much rather have the choice to go in my diaper or to use the toilet, which ever is more convenient at the time. I guess if I became truly incontinent, I would quickly adjust but constantly being in a wet diaper can be a bit of a chore sometimes. If I am going to be wetting I always wear plastic pants - they would be too hot if exercising or in warm weather. In cold weather I found that a wet diaper can also become very chilled which is not at all nice either

That is pretty much what happened to me, make the best of it!!

Wouldn't bother me one bit as I've been preparing for this for years, haha. The biggest perk would be if the cost of diapers were covered, then it would be a dream come true.

I will. And it is what it is. I don't really know anything else.

Will be fine when that day comes. I've been preparing for the day I need diapers again.

This has basically happen to me.i am diabetic and developed urge incontinence with neropathy.when I went to my urologist,she has me on 2 different medications to try to slow down the urges to go suddenly,an another to shrink the prostate gland.she informed me there was no total cure at my age and condiation.she said I could have surgery as an alternative,but the was not guaranteed and if they remove your prostate you may become total incontinent any way.i told her no surgery.i am happy just to stay in diapers the rest of my life if there is no cure.

I am a confirmed adult baby and i would love to have a strict mommy that tells me that I will always be in cloth diapers and sissy pink and yellow plastic pants forever and loves to change me with teasing baby talk

Well I love diapers but I don't really wear them 24/7 but if I was married and had to wear them always and my wife wasn't upset about it. Then I would probably love being in them 24/7 with a loving wife there by my side.

For me it would be a dream come true to have a excuse to wear nappies and plastic pants and have them paid for

YIPEE! YEA! I have always wanted to be diaper trained!

Truthfully, having to deal with a 24/7 would be pretty depressing. As of right now my situation doesn't require me to always wear a diaper but I do wear a diaper quite frequently even during the day. But having absolutely no choice being fully and completely incontinent is a major disruption to your life. The things I need to do to keep things under control at times can be overwhelming. So no I would not be happy about it.

Actually after trying to give up diapers for decades, I've come to the conclusion that I will need them for the rest of my life. The desire to be in them is so strong that I stress out if I'm not in them. So the idea of being diapered the rest of my life makes me pretty content. Recent developments have begun to make the need for diapers real due to BPH and OAB. I take tamulosin and the straining to go is no longer a problem, but the sudden desperate urges persist and now I get floods instead of dribbles. My doctor thinks it rather strange that I'm not begging to see a urologist. Her comment was "Most men freak out when they start having problems". I told her that I'd rather die than go thru a prostate resection. If it were cancer, that would be different. So her comment was if I ever change my mind, let her know. (I don't think that's gonna happen)....

For guys (not sure for women) there's an alternative - an external catheter or penis sheath. Friend of the family's father has one. It isn't an internal catheter which could eventually cause an infection. Maybe someone with more medical knowledge than I has a better description and alternatives for women.

BTW - my wife has stress incontinence and wears pampers. You would never know she has on anything other than undies.

Every urologist that I have ever consulted has recommended that I wear an external catheter instead of a diaper. One urologist even told me that wearing a diaper was “unmanly”. Nevertheless, I wear diapers. I have found that external catheters are rather “fiddly”. Getting the catheter attached to my penis and getting the leg bag and the tube that carries urine from the catheter to the bag properly set up requires a lot of dexterity, much more dexterity than taping on a disposable diapers. Once you get the external catheter, bag and tube set up and the bag has a fair amount of urine it, bumping the bag against something hard can cause a catastrophic flood that is worse than even a badly leaking diaper. The most embarrassing thing that my incontinence has caused me occurred when I bumped an external catheter bag against a piece of furniture. I was at a Christmas party and my boss’s house. When the bag ruptured, it dumped a cup or more of urine down my pants leg and onto one of my boss’s antique oriental rugs. That incredibly embarrassing incident made me decide that I was going to wear diapers from then on.

The dr didn,t inform me my wife did because of repeat wetting on her bed so been them for along time.

Having to wear diapers for total urinary incontinence? That was the best part about being informed by my urologist that I'd been diagnosed with prostate cancer and that I'd need diapers. I don't recall his mentioning that catheters would be an option (except for about a three-week period immediately following surgery). I could eventually graduate from diapers to guards (pads) after three-and-a-half years, but still prefer diapers for nighttime and when leaving the house or just whenever I feel like it.

A close friend, who had used catheters for years, tried to convince me catheters were a better deal. My three-week period of using them convinced me otherwise. Now, many years later and after being catheter-dependent for thirty plus years, my friend has developed serious medical complications with his use of catheters.

Interesting question.... I do need to wear diapers for the rest of my life! I have been a bedwetter wearing diapers every night since I was about 7 years old and have been 24/7 for about 7 years.

Let me tell you it is a chore. I have to bring a diaper to work every day to change around lunch and again if I go out after work. Vacations are tough when you have to bring a separate suitcase for just your diapers, plastic pants and swim pants which I wear under my bathing suit. Then there is the sagging diaper outline of my slacks and the occasional wet spots on the back of my pants.

Be careful what you wish for....it’s not all it’s cracked up to be!!!!

. . . the sagging diaper outline of my slacks and the occasional wet spots on the back of my pants.

The Rearz Inspire+ InControl Super Absorbent Adult Diapers I wear never sag or show through my pants, thanks to this product: https://www.herroom.com/rago-513-high-waist-light-shaping-brief-panty.shtml, even though my Healthwick supplier claims ". . . this product is quite bulky and would generally not be considered discreet under clothing."

Wet spots are uncommon for me with Rearz Silence High-Rise Waterproof Pants, available at https://www.healthwick.com.

I came across this subject on another website recently and it got me thinking even though the subject was from 2013.

Personally to use my own words I wouldn't mind being diapred for the rest of my life as long as it keeps me comfortable and dry as specially given the fact that I have been dealing with incontence problems since 2010, and also keeping in mind that I have now been in and out of adult diapers now for the last 9 years or so (see my earlier replies for more information).

I would not be totally without some concerns however it would become natural after awhile because I would adjust my life to accomendate the fact that I would be diapred 24/7, just like I was as a child and this would be great if I didn't have to worry about the stigma of someone in their early 40's wearing diapers like a toddler.

However if the situation where available to wear my diaper's someplace where I was safe and away from praying eyes and without the fear of constant stigma then yes I would like to have the time and opportunity to regress fully back to the stage in life when nothing mattered and when I felt cared for, obviously that would meen finding adult baby nursary which I will probably do in future (although that's for another days topic).

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888.

Personally, I wouldn't bother me being diapered for the rest of my life. In fact I would be so happy to be diapered for the rest of my life because that means Adult potties are off limits to me for life. It means no more having to buy adult underwear anymore because I think adult underwear is a TRAP and a cruel punishment for growing up. I think adulthood sucks and adult babyhood is way better. It would never faze me or bother me because I am diapered 24/7/365 and I am never allowed out of diapers. I am confined in them for the rest of my life. Even as an adult baby, I would be totally happy with being diapered 24/7 and babied like a baby/toddler for the rest of my life. I'd never have to worry about the stigma of being diapered and babied/toddler. It would mean so much freedom from adulthood and less stress on me being diapered and babied for the rest of my life. Being Diapered for the rest of my life would be so normal and Natural for me.

That's a good question. Part of my enjoyment of this comes from the fact that I don't need to wear diapers but do it anyway because I'm naughty. Having to wear them and having it accepted may take that aspect of it away.

Also I'd be concerned about my skin. When I wear diapers, I prefer thick cloth ones and I like to wear them until they're very wet and have that wonderful diaper / pee / ammonia smell. If I limit this to weekends (which I've done for a while) then my skin gets a chance to dry out, but if I wore all the time I'd probably have to use some disposables and / or change them much more often so that, too, would take away some of the fun.

But I guess I'd get used to it and learn to find many aspects of it enjoyable, as many of the other folks here who must wear 24/7 have.

On several occasions I've set out to try this--I've had a week of vacation and decided "I'm going to try 24/7 for a week" but after a couple of days of fun / pleasure / getting myself off doing this, I always decide "OK that's enough fun for a while" and take a break. Not sure how it would be to have to continue wearing them after the novelty had worn off.

I still do a version of the "binge and purge" thing only it's now controlled--I wear them and love them until it's out of my system for a while, then put them away. While they're put away, the urge to do it slowly builds until I just HAVE to wear and love them again. Always been this way! So maybe having to wear them all the time wouldn't work for me. Might be a case of "too much of a good thing."

Considering I require them now and have for last 27+ years, business as usual!

Personally I wouldn't mind, although at the same time I definitely would not be at all surprised to be told this by a doctor or health professional, and this is because as may of you already know from my previous replies I've had to wear diapers/nappies for a legitimate Medical reason or disability since 2010.

This all started when I became partially incontenent over a decade ago through no fault or desire of my own and now that I am getting near to my 40's I've been pondering this very question for quite a while now.

Lately I noticed that ive been having more and more increased embarrasing accidents, not that I have a problem with the fact that I have to wear them from time to time as a form of protection.

It's just that I can't help but feel like I am less of a man and more like a baby or toddler everytime I wear them and this can at times be embarrasing, however without diapers I tend to feel more stressed out.

So it's catch 22 so to speak of, do I just go ahead and wear diapers/nappies like I used to all those years ago in other words for the rest of my life, or do I have any other choice in the matter.

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888.

If there was no social stigma or lack of acceptance I don't think I would mind, I'd think well, I like nappies after all, so maybe it was just meant to be...

There would be certain inconveniences of course, and I would miss aspects of being able to wet my nappy at a time of my choosing!

Answering the question raised: I think a fetish stops to be a fetish if it becomes a reality which you cannot escape from. Nevertheless I believe that people react differently. Though I love wearing diapers I would rather stop wearing them and before becoming incontinent. I confess I had similar fantasies, but the reality check shows me the opposite.

I probably wouldn't like it, but I would have no choice to accept it.

I'd put on my best sad face, but be all giddy inside. Then after the initial burst of excitement I think I'd realize over the next few days how my life would be irreparably changed in some annoying ways. Always have to be in diapers, have a big diaper bag at times, vacations, day trips, tours and daily activities would have to be planned around my new need. Annoying to everyone else, even if they don't admit it and to me too knowing i was such a major pain to fuss over. I like having actual control. It would be monumental in too many life changing ways I believe.

The idea makes me happy on first thought, but I think that if you took away the choice to wear them it becomes a drag after a while. For instance: There are certain things I could eat ‘every day’ cause I love them, but not eat them every day, cause it becomes less special then and probably boring.

I’ve worn diapers several times for weeks in a row. There will be days after 3-4 weeks that you would like to wear boxers for a day, and that won’t go if you’re incontinent.

Spike

Wearing bulky trainers or a cloth diaper under plastic pants is my own personal indulgence. There's no calories, hangovers or health issues like some other habits may result. It's my little "escape". I've often thought about a situation where I HAD to wear them and I wonder if it would be boring or not enjoyable anymore. I don't think I would like it. I guess it's a case for "Be careful what you wish for". I agree with others that too much of anything might not be the best...

"...if you took away the choice..." That says it all; wearing plastic panties because I want to is a whole different thing from wearing because I have to.