Vivid Imaginations

Just curious, but who has greater vivid imaginations, male or females here?

Judging by the number of men who try to hit on women who are not interested I guess that men have more vivid imaginations, (or just delusions of grandeur).

For some reason which psychiatry cannot explain, I have an attraction for lesbians but I do not act on it, (unless the lady says or does something to make her sound available).

Men, as we're more visual and have higher libidos, therefore we're left to imagine what we cannot have (there are exceptions though). Just do a search of men's fantasies vs. women's fantasies, and you'll see that men have a greater number, as well as more elaborate fantasies...

I vote for men. Women are led off course by romantic ideas. But men jump right into the bushes when they get keyed up. Just ask any exhibitionist in the clink...somehow they thought they would have a receptive market when in fact they had an appalled lady calling the cops.

On average, I would say men have more vivid imaginations, but there are some women here who would send the men running if they acted on everything they imagined.

...there are some women here who would send the men running if they acted on everything they imagined.

I might run towards a woman like that! I told my wife I would be willing to try ANYTHING she wanted as far as her fantasises. The only thing she thought of was having "sex on the beach", but only in the Caribbean and only if there was no one around. Meanwhile, I'm dreaming up many different kinds of elaborate scenarios...

Question was about vivid, not lethal or even dangerous.

The vivid imaginations tend to be more, shall we say, risky, painful and/or exciting.

If it isn't risky and exciting, most people would or could just do it with their partners and not have to spend their time merely "imagining."

"Vivid" means "producing powerful feelings or strong, clear images in the mind". A woman may have an extremely vivid fantasy about a very simple erotic scenario, but if she shared the fantasy with a man, he might find it very "ho hum". So, I think it's hard to judge vividness in any objective way. I think on the whole men are likely to have more extreme fantasies, which to other men might seem more vivid. My 2¢, anyhow.

I guess I was thinking more along the lines of what people post here as "Real Life Experiences". I know a lot of bizarre things have happened to people, but.....like people recounting their first orgasm at 5-7 years old.....etc. etc.