MY FIRST AND LAST PROSTATE EXAM PART III.
Then Dr. Mahoney listened to my heart, then he had me take down my underpants to my knees. He first asked me if I had ever been catheterized, & he added, "It doesn't hurt". (It was obvious both by looking at my torso & looking at my med-history that I hadn't had any surgeries & no reason to even suspect that I ever had a need for catheterization. He made it sound like catheterization was par for the course for every teenager--fun they're missing out on. Furthermore people tell me that IT HURTS LIKE HELL!!!
Dr. Mahoney then took this devise that injected tons of KY jelly into my uretha and it was painful & all the KY shot back out. He explained that at first my pee slit looked too small & narrow, but now that it had been pryed open it looked fine.
The urologist intimated or implied that he never encoumtered the problem of a man who didn't actually have Peyronies' Disease who had a complaint about a natural curvature. He then asked me to specifically describe how my penis looks and curves while erect. I did, then he asked me if I could get an erection in front of him. My response was defensive. I gave him an angry, authoritative & masculine look and said, "NO! And I wouldn't want to even if I could!". Keep in mind folks, I came from a very "meat 'n potatoes", blue-collar, homophobic New England culture. The question itself was unacceptable, crazy, what did he take me for?
Mahoney began examining my penis & testicles. Then in reckless disregard for my wishes, feelings & admonitions, he began stroking my penis along the nerve, trying to stimulate me sexually, then grabbing the base of the shaft and holding tight. Then there was a milking type of stroke (like a cow utter being milked by a farmer) then he alternated between tickle strokes, milking strokes, while grabbing the base of the shaft. He told me that he was trying to "simulate" an erection by forcing the flow of blood into the shaft & holding it. Simulate an erection? He was trying to induce an erection & it had the opposite effect, my penis was shrivelling up and retracting. All the blood he wanted to flow into my erectile tissue had flowed to my temples, my head was ready to explode in anger & shame. I only put up with that in the interest of winding up one step closer to having a straight penis.
After having to give up on giving me a hard-on, he asked, "Have you ever had a prostate exam?" And again he added, "It doesn't hurt!" (What reason at age 19, would I have needed for a prostate exam?Like all teenagers should do it for sport?)
I told him, "never, no prostate exam". Then he told me that he wanted to do the exam. Right off the bat my internal bullshit meter red-lined. As was the case with the urine sample not being indicated for what I came there for, common sence tells you that a prostate exam would yield no insight to why my penis was curved. The doctor then told me that seeing if my prostate was "symmetrical or asymmetrical" would help him asses the penis curvature, particularly since he didn't see it erect.
He instructed me to bend over the exam table. Then, as he inserted his gloved finger up my ass, he kept saying, "Push! Push! It felt like he had his whole fucking hand up my ass and was grasping my prostate with all 5 fingers, he lied about it not hurting. As he pulled his hand....., I mean finger out, I said, "Jesus Christ!" He asked me, "what's the matter? It didn't hurt did it?" I had too much pride to answer, "Yes! I said that it was embarrassing. He gave me that old ' no shame in the human body' crap.
I got dressed & saw him in his office. He concluded that my unwillingness to get an errection impeded his ability to make a clinical assessment. But the curvature that I described & had sketched on paper was probably a 'normal variation' and no cause for worry. Disappointed I asked wasn't there some kind of operation to straighten out my penis, & his response was a definitive no. Crestfallen, I asked Dr.Mahoney what possible technical explanation is there for a curved penis, even a 'normal variation'. His technical explanation was that penises come in all shapes and sizes, like hands, feet, arms & legs. I went home sore assed & empty handed, no insight no technical explaination. It did have a major effect on my sexual fantasies & intensifiedy contempt for doctors.