Confessing kinky sex play to your gynecologist

I have been chatting (webcam) with a young woman for several years. Usually I make her insert various foreign objects (large and often painful) in her openings (front and sometimes back), then masturbate as I watch. The last time she had a gyno exam her doctor noticed scarring or cuts in her vagina and asked if she had rough sex. She had to admit that she inserts things. It was very embarrassing for her, needless to say.

Another woman I used to have phone sex sessions with I would also have insert large objects and masturbate. Once I had her insert a 500 ml water bottle. She was able to insert it all the way in - until just the cap was protruding. She had an incredible orgasm. Unfortunately, afterward she couldn't walk (literally). She had to have her boyfriend take her to the doctor where she had to confess what she had done. He told her not to do it again. She recovered quickly, fortunately.

I'm just wondering if any women on this board have had similar experiences where they had to confess kinky sexual activity to their gynecologists.

500 ML water bottle? Ouch no wonder she had problems walking. Sorry no experience with this subject though!