I asked for an enema, and got the "I'm too tired" reply. Followed by "but wait until tomorrow night". Imagine my surprise when I came home from work and found the equipment all set up. This is a first. My wife is willing to give, but I have always had to set everything up for her. Patience appears to be a virtue as she gave a beautiful job of administering a great on all fours enema. She got the result she wanted, and I got everything I wanted. Win win.