Sensual strapon fucking

Any guys out there (or girls too!) who prefer a sensual anal strapopn fuck rather than the rather rough deal & verbal humiliation which most professional mistresses seem to administer?? I used to visit a mistress called Marilyn who was much more into fun & pleasure than pain. She never allowed me to penetrate her anally or vaginally but often used to tell me about her anal sex experiences. This usually ended with her telling me that she "wanted me to know how a woman felt during an anal fuck". On one of the last occasions I saw her she strapped on a soft black silicone rubber dildo about 8" long, quite thick & with a very pronouced bulbous head & a smooth shaft. Having me kneel down on the bed & lubed me she pressed the dildo to my ring & eventually penetrated me. The alternate surge & suction sensations were really good & she reached around to give me a perfect handjob telling me all the while how good it felt to "fill my rectal fuck hole". Teriific climax & I only wish I could have seen more of her.....anyone else like this better than the rough stuff?

I have had it many times, the first time after about 20 minutes I came hands free both of us were very surprised. I do miss it.

I would love to have my gf slowly fuck my ass with a strapon. She want's to use a butt plug on me so maybe I will get lucky. 😃

I would totally agree with the slow and steady sensual penetrations of a well handled strap-on. I've never been into rough play, it would defiantly kill the mood for me. Do me slowly and I'm all yours 😃 .

Slow & sensual-the only way to go and very erotic!

No interest in rough sex or humiliation. Embarrassment is good and a little naughty talk but nothing degrading, just not erotic.

When I’ve been bent over and fucked it’s been slow and deep and sensual. A couple times she fucked me with me on my back, even more sensual cause were looking right at each other.

@alan20cm - There are MANY. It's just that the porn "script" for pegging/strapon is rough and they now have many people thinking that way. Where does it come from? Who knows, maybe super masculine porn directors just don't get that a guy can still be a guy and enjoy it, so therefore it has to be presented in a "forced" scene or another one where somehow the guy isn't voluntarily enjoying it or is presented as somehow "less than a guy"... anyway...

Yes, in the real world many men adore gentle, loving anal play. They do it with their partners and both care about each other. My relationship hasn't gone to pegging (yet), but when she's played with my ass it has been gentle and sensual and wonderful.

As to "pros" - never used one, never talked with one, but it seems that you're paying them to do what you want so if you just say "and I want it to be gentle" why would it be a problem?

I love getting it deep and sensually... I've seen a few Mistress's and Enema Nurses over the years and always make clear what i want. never an issue and I have been fucked really well... just not often enough!!

For sure, it can be sensual, loving and intimate, and that would be my personal preference too! My guess is that if there is a perception in the minds of some people that strapon play is usually rough and aggressive, it is probably because of an assumption that the penetrating partner has the masculine role, and thus the one being penetrated automatically takes on a feminine role. In the case of the latter being a man, perhaps associating strapon play with something rough and aggressive arises out of not wanting to be seen as 'feminine' by allowing oneself to be sensually penetrated anally. But, how much better it is to simply reject all such predefined roles and notions, and not linking whether you are any more or less masculine or feminine on the basis of whether you are "being fucked" or "doing the fucking" at all! All that strapon play is to me is play where, with the help of a toy, someone who ordinarily is unable to penetrate someone gains the ability to do so. It just opens up lots of new possibilities!

I have only experienced strap on play twice, the first time was exciting but very aggressive and though I enjoyed all of the sensations there was something lacking.

The second time I was pegged was when I was with a good friend who gave me a sensuous massage that was gentle and loving but still left no doubt who was in charge. before penetrating me she placed me on my back with my legs up and my bottom exposed, she lubricated my bottom and then slowly began to insert the dildo in a little at a time until the entire length of the dildo was all the way in. She proceded to fuck me and stroke my cock until I had an explosive climax. I hope that we can get together again in the near future for a repeat.

Well most of my strapon fucks are sensual. Not everytime has someone bent over a table, sofa back, on all fours and swearing and degrading. But to be honest being behind with my hand on hips guiding my girl cock deep where ever. Those are sensual. And missionary style as well.

But.......a good rough romp can be amazing as well with either female or male or however one views themselves.

My last GF got into this... She knew I crossdressed( consider myself genderfluid) and wanted to try. She admitted to some penis envy. I told her I had some previous experience with anal play during my dabble with bdsm etc (another story or stories). It was awkward at first but as our comfort and coordination improved it was amazing! It became a sensual act of intimacy. She ended up getting a strap that had a vibrator attachment. This increased her satisfaction which meant we both enjoyed it more. I enjoyed watching her in the mirror and she would say she enjoyed watching it slide in and out of me... She had her aggressive moments as she would get into it but it was always sensual. It was way better than the unemotional butt ramming I had received during my "play" years.

Ive had a strap on used on me once, was ok ish and i stress the ish bit, this took place about 5 -30 pm, and the whole evening after my guts ached and i felt i needed to shit badly, but couldnt, thinking her aim was wrong, so never went back.

I often dream of being fucked in my ass after being given several hot soapy enemas first. My preference would be to have a woman using a strapon, but …

I've never been pegged, but I've always wanted to engage in gentle femdom and sensual pegging would be a big part of that.

Slow and gentle strap-on anal sex is the best. My partner and I both use strap-ons to pleasure each other! Very nice for the long ride!

My late wife occasionally said while she was sucking me and playing with my anus, that she wished she had a cock to fuck me with.

Unfortunately, we never explored it further. Often wish we had bought a strap-on and tried it. I am sure she would have gotten pleasure out of watching her “cock” sliding in and out of my ass for a change. Not sure why we never got around to it.

Moral of the story I suppose, is never put off until tomorrow what you can do today. Life is too short.

How sore is your ass after being pegged?

Rough made me start to dread each thrust and therefore, I lost the mood and just wanted to stop while the fucker was getting more and more excited. Slow and easy and passionate for me from now on. Even with the real thing penetrating me, rough does not give me an orgasm but slow and sensuous usually does. I know rough gives some men the best anal orgasm but that's for sure not for me.

Thank you for your reply. UsTexan have to stick together. There is absulutely nothing going on here in the Hill Country. Hope Zity will help.

I'm a guy and on the rare occassions that wifey pegs me it is slow and sensual, not dominating and rough. I love the feeling of her hands on my hips as she thrusts into me. One of my favourites is when she bends me over the bed and pegs me whilst pulling my cock. The combination of hand action and anal is mindblowing. I look forward to more positions to try out with her, she is such a great pegger.

Would love to have a woman rim me and then take me up the ass with a strapon while stroking my cock

I think the name of topic is wrong and repetitive…….because every strapon fucking IS sensual 😉

Za

Thinking of buying a strap on and letting my Asian massage lady do me after she fingers my rear. She'd do it for sure. And hopefully my wife would do it to me, someday

I think the name of topic is wrong and repetitive…….because every strapon fucking IS sensual 😉

Za

There is definitely a difference between a “sensual” strap-on fucking and a good hard dominant butt-fuck. Just as their is very sensual and very physical vaginal and/or anal sex between partners.

I think the name of topic is wrong and repetitive…….because every strapon fucking IS sensual 😉

Za

Not all strap-on fucks are the same. My sub makes happier sounds when I fuck his manly pussy nice and slow. But deep, rapid fucking is not as pleasurable. To get my cock buried as deep inside him for an extended period gets him sore. That makes it alot less enjoyable for him, but not necessarily for me.

Which of us is then right?

I have wanted to be properly pegged for a very long time, either by a woman with strap-on or a man already equipped to do the job. A comparison would be great fun. I have “self-pegged” numerous times to aid in masturbation but only once by a woman with a very small strap-on which was not particularly satisfying. I also have a difficult time concentrating on which organ of pleasure to concentrate on when pleasing both my penis and my anus. I almost want to have satisfaction with one OR the other, feeling either my masculine sexual being (with penis) or my feminine sexual being (my anus/man quim). Something to resolve psychologically I suppose??

@MissStress that description seemed fucking sensual for me 😈

Za

Not all strap-on fucks are the same. My sub makes happier sounds when I fuck his manly pussy nice and slow. But deep, rapid fucking is not as pleasurable. To get my cock buried as deep inside him for an extended period gets him sore. That makes it alot less enjoyable for him, but not necessarily for me.

Which of us is then right?

You both are, of course. I would think it just depends on the situation and the reason (if there is one) for the pegging.

Always fun to start slow but there is nothing like a hard pounding