Question to play doc

Do you get bored ever examiming the same person.or do you need lots of patients. Is it possible for a play doc to be happy with just one patient or is he always going to want to do this with others

Do you get bored ever examiming the same person.or do you need lots of patients. Is it possible for a play doc to be happy with just one patient or is he always going to want to do this with others

Although there can only be one first exam with any one patient, when examining the same patient multiple times the enjoyment certainly doesn't wane in my case. Makes me think back to my first solo flight as a student pilot in a light aircraft, a brilliant experience but future flights were just as exciting.

An interesting question on this topic might be: Do play patients become bored with the same playdoc?

Hmmmmmmmm. Today your treatment will be diffrent as has all the others have been. This is what you will be getting, now lets put on your blindfold and get started Dear!. Take a deep breath!. It can be never ending, now lets get on with the play!.

Do you get bored ever examiming the same person.or do you need lots of patients. Is it possible for a play doc to be happy with just one patient or is he always going to want to do this with others

There are a number of scenarios here which are worthy of discussion.

You can have a playdoc who is not holistically interested in his patient, beyond perhaps getting to the 'main chance', or 'between the legs'. Yes, I know it sounds crude but there are a lot of them about. He will get bored, wanting to move on to 'pastures new'.

You can have a playdoc who is well intentioned but relatively new to consultations (my preferred word). We all started somewhere, with perhaps just a stethoscope and a white coat. His knowledge or selection of instruments may be limited but his enthusiasm boundless. In order for him to get experience and acquire knowledge it will need tolerance from experienced patients or, perhaps, a patient equally new but open minded. He should admit his lack of experience etc., and expect some early disappointment.

You can have a playdoc with oceans of experience and a full bag (or bags) of instruments but who finds some patients boring in their lack of response, unwilling to consider many of the procedures he recommends, thus limiting the scope of the consultation and where future consultations will be characterised by 'sameness'. In that circumstance both doctor and patient are likely to become bored with each other.

My approach is to omit some of the procedures in the examination part of a consultation so that when I include them in a future visit there will be some difference. The same applies where the doctor prescribes certain 'treatments' acceptable to the patient. If he runs the whole gamut of his 'treatments' at the first meeting (its tempting), then what is left for a future consultation?

Its also part of my practice not to make appointments with the same patient too close together. Spend time in between in regular contact with a patient, discussing the last consultation and building anticipation of something new next time. As I say in my Blog, "A little anticipation strengthens realisation".

Of course, over time, every playdoc can run out of ideas, though I continually seek new ones. A patient might also want to find someone new too. I actually encourage patients to find other, safe, playdocs - variety being the spice of life. Likewise, to take account of those patients who leave after I have seen them a number of times, I will continually seek new patients.

I have patients who I have seen many times over a long period. Some of them are at a distance, even overseas, but who will respond when I'm 'down their way'. Maybe those intervals are the secret?

Yes caz, it is possible for a playdoc to be happy with just one patient. Think of those in relationships where a couple only ever play with their partner!

I don't think I could ever get bored with my play doc.,It is play so things always seem different.and he just has this way of making things interesting.i could go on for hours when we are playing,

I had some good ideas that would keep things exciting:

As part of a play scenario, you could pretend that your female's doctor has retired, and that she needs to go to a new practice. There are 4 doctors at the new practice, and they want her to see all the doctors at least once so that they are all familiar with her condition. You could make up a different personality for each doctor: one could be a stern old school doctor, one could be charismatic and charming, one could be nerdy and socially awkward, and one could be young and nervous. Each doctor would have a different exam style: One might give the patient a paper gown, one a cloth gown, one a cloth gown w/drape, one might take the gown after the breast exam and not offer it back. One might do a lengthy external, one might do a full seated/lying breast exam, they might use different types of speculums, and they may or may not do a R/V, etc.

Additionally, the female patient could make up 4 alternate versions of herself, the same Jane Doe, just slightly different:: One who is naïve and submissive perhaps a college grad student, one professional and classy businesswoman, one fun and easygoing soccer mom who is perhaps a tease, and one who is a sexy but vulnerable woman who just went through a divorce. One could have her hair pulled back w/ full pubic hair, one could have a wavy/curly hair w/ trimmed pubic hair, one could have messy hair with a landing strip, and one could have straight hair a shaved pubic area, or you could mix and match to portray whatever "version" of your patient. The could all dress and accessorize differently: One might wear a dress, leggings, and high boots, one might wear a suit and heels, one might wear yoga pants and a sweatshirt, and one might wear sweatpants. The jewelry can also be different: everything from eye catching necklaces, dangling earrings, clip on nipple/belly button/clit rings, toe rings, etc. The idea for the patient is to appear to be an alternate version of yourself for the exam., i.e.: What if you, the patient, had made different choices in life, and you were the same but also a different person, i.e. what if you became a business woman, went to law school, had 4 kids, etc?Your partner, the doctor, then won't feel like he's cheating by examining another woman.

Of the 4 doctors, one could have the potential to "go to far" under the right circumstances, and of the 4 patients, one could secretly want the doctor to do something inappropriate. One of the doctors could also be open to an affair outside the office, and one of the patients would be receptive, but if you were the Dr you wouldn't know what patient is the one, and vice versa.

You would then have 16 possible scenarios for the 4 doctors and 4 patients, and many aspects of each scenario would be a surprise, as you wouldn't find out until the actual exam. You could schedule an exam once a month and play out these scenarios indefinitely. I have a lot more ideas for play exams (including detailed scripts) that I'll share if anyone is interested...

Just like the other responses, if you do different types of exams with different scenarios, the fun and excitement should still be there for both of you.

My darling doctor and I do something similar to wha Doctor Stiffler was talking about. We've been playing exclusivly for four years now and if he's bored I'm not aware of it. Neither am I. Some days he's a very thorough doctor and I'm a first time patient. I can either be very unsophisticated like it's my first exam or a horny housewife for that one. Other times I've signed up for a medical experiment that turns out to be more than I bargained for. We've done mad scientest with him using prisoners (me) who have been railroaded on a trumped up charge and this is their way out. The patient there can be either scared and overwhelmed or tough and needing to be broken.

Seriouly med fet (to me) is all about imagination and using that largest sexual organ we have (the brain) can keep it way fun and exciting. We usually save doctor play for a special treat too so it doesn;t get stale.

Do you get bored ever examiming the same person.or do you need lots of patients.Is it possible for a play doc to be happy with just one patient or is he always going to want to do this with others

I would imagine that it depends on the situation. If you are just playing with your wife / partner / girl friend, then I expect the play doc is happy with the one patient. But that's a relationship situation. If, like myself and other play docs on here, you advertise publicly and hope to meet multiple patients, then that's perhaps a different scenario. But no you certainly wouldn't get bored examining the same person.

Dr Philip.

I don't think I would ever get bored examining the same patient over and over again. You can always do something to mix it up, up to switching places. Always looking for patients.

I dont know how you can get bored, as the point of the experience is the 'exam'. I even have my wife call me at work, or when she's out on the weekend, to make her appt. I love that few days of anticipation!

If you do as many exams as we have, it can get too routine if you don't mix it up. But, it is still fun and exciting anytime you play. We change the set-up our exam room. We also change exam table supports. I might be examined in stirrups and the next time it might be examined in candy cane supports or knee supports. We might have cloth gown one session and paper gown the next session. Plastic speculum one session and metal on another. We have different types of both anal and vaginal speculums. We change roles so sometimes I am the doctor and other times I am the patient.

I’ve been doing this pretty regularly for about 12 yrs. During that time, I’ve sometimes just seen one patient for an extended period of time, other times, I’ve seen a few during the same time period. I have yet to turn down a request for an exam. There are just so many different areas that can be explored in this context. You’re really only limited by your imagination, so short answer to the question is “No”. Haven’t gotten bored yet.?

As they say, variety is the spice of life. I can see that some play docs are satisfied with one patient, but I think the different experiences with different women make all the difference. It is one thing to be in a relationship, but I think it is nice to look forward to someone new who is unexplored and unknown.

I am a one patient play doc to my beautiful wife, @Sexy_Librarian. I NEVER grow bored in getting to examine her! I am always excited to get her in my exam room and on my table. The thing I strive for is to always make it fun and exciting for her. I don't want our exam play to become stale and boring to her. I do get totally into character as DrFn (not her hubby) when we do her appointments, and as others have said, I mix things up a bit from one exam to the next.

My darling doctor and I do something similar to wha Doctor Stiffler was talking about. We've been playing exclusivly for four years now and if he's bored I'm not aware of it. Neither am I. Some days he's a very thorough doctor and I'm a first time patient. I can either be very unsophisticated like it's my first exam or a horny housewife for that one. Other times I've signed up for a medical experiment that turns out to be more than I bargained for. We've done mad scientest with him using prisoners (me) who have been railroaded on a trumped up charge and this is their way out. The patient there can be either scared and overwhelmed or tough and needing to be broken.

Seriouly med fet (to me) is all about imagination and using that largest sexual organ we have (the brain) can keep it way fun and exciting. We usually save doctor play for a special treat too so it doesn;t get stale.

As @Nurse_Phillips states above, we too do some play in the exam room other than just GYN exam play. I also only schedule @Sexy_Librarian for a play exam about once every two to three months. I don't want play exams to become “old hat” for her. For me, I will never grow bored with being her play doc and getting to examine her.

Fn